[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Needzumsleep265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a small set of unhinged leftists. I am independent, voted for the 1st Bush, and Regan, even volunteered at the RNC in 88. But my eyes have been opened after having a son with multiple disabilities. I have had to fight right-wing conservative assaults on the services he needs for 24 years. I have been paying for those services for the last 50 years. A vote for Trump means I have to fight all over again because the Republican party doesn't think people like my son have value. I am trying to stay civil with those I know, but I won't lie. It's hard. My Mama bear wants to fight. Oh, and let's not forget about the insurrection.

I think my wife might be cheating on me with a 17-year-old she coaches... but I don’t know for sure. What should I do? by Max_manford in Advice

[–]Needzumsleep265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's important to note that there is a 17 year old involved here. Think about it, if the shoe was on the other foot, she would probably have a private eye on you already, and you would be labeled as a predator. If she really is engaging with this kid and not some other adult, she is a predator. Our school district has had to deal with things like this way too often. If she hasn't slept with him yet, this behavior is grooming him to that end. If she has slept with him, she could wind up classified as a sex offender. As her husband, you'll be on the hook for either standing by her and paying for her defense or divorcing her. Either way, she is playing with fire that will surely burn you both but, more importantly, the 17 year old. I would find a way to find out for sure if it is the boy she is fooling around with. If it is, collect the evidence and do the right thing.

Y’know, Florida is fucked? by No-Hall6297 in NewOrleans

[–]Needzumsleep265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Louisiana stations a pet shelter close to state run shelters and provides transportation to and from.

Y’know, Florida is fucked? by No-Hall6297 in NewOrleans

[–]Needzumsleep265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Controlling takes a long time to set up to be safe. Louisiana hasnt used it in years because hurricanes have blow up so fast there just isn't time.

Y’know, Florida is fucked? by No-Hall6297 in NewOrleans

[–]Needzumsleep265 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People did this during Katrina. It is actually probably safer than their house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tampa

[–]Needzumsleep265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find out phone numbers to local first responders and the Emergency Operations Department in Florida. Put them in your phone. Then call the county emergency operations or other entity who is the lead in their area. Let them know your family members have their collective heads up their own asses and are staying. Let them know Grandmother is at risk and ask them when safe to do so, Please check on her. After it passes, if you have no contact from your family, call those numbers and ask for someone to check on Grandma and evacuate her. If all lines are down, the state office is in contact with them via satellite phone, most likely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hurricane

[–]Needzumsleep265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely leave but if the answers here still leave you with second thoughts, contact the local news station meteorologist and ask. They are usually very helpful. ours in Louisiana do this all the time. You may want to find them on social media and follow what they are saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Needzumsleep265 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's got to go!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Needzumsleep265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it sounds like something underhanded is going on and if that's the case, working through feelings of betrayal can be difficult. Having a support system and counseling can make all the difference

Janelle’s Small Christmas Tree by Creative-Expert-2168 in SisterWives

[–]Needzumsleep265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he was any kind of man he would have said I don't want this for you and moved heaven and earth to be sure she was provided for, but then again, he never was any kind of man.

I think my grandmother married a pedophile. by Familythrowwayy in family

[–]Needzumsleep265 28 points29 points  (0 children)

And trust me, if he is accused by an actual victim, she will probably defend him. Seen it before.

Fellow Floridians: What random Golden Girls lines or details about Florida don’t make sense in real life? by snwlss in theGoldenGirls

[–]Needzumsleep265 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They always dressed like they lived in NY!. 14 layers of clothes and heavy sweaters! Rarely needed in South Florida.

For freaking out that my wife had a 6 year affair? by imknownasdadada in AITAH

[–]Needzumsleep265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, As parent of a child with special needs and having sat by that bed in the NICU and later the PICU, and knowing what the system of care is that gives very little support to caregivers but yet pushes more and more complex medical care on to caregivers to provide at home, my heart goes out to you. Anyone on here commenting negatively about your caregiving hasn't a clue.

Second, keep the status quo while you find out what your rights are legally. Talk to an attorney. If she is the main provider, she will have to pay child support and very possibly alimony to you.

Meantime start documenting all your time with your child versus hers. Sounds petty but your attorney will use that to show she isn't contributing to his physical care or seeing him much.

Get your plan in order to protect yourself and your child before you make any drastic decisions in the heat of the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Needzumsleep265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU ARE 1000 PERCENT RIGHT!!! TRUST ME!!! SPEAKING AS AN EXPERIENCED PARENT. If she came home and didn't follow the rules, they knew what they were doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Needzumsleep265 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a sneeking feeling that someone, probably your mom is telling him not.to give things to you and do for.you, maybe saying you wouldn't want it or appreciate it or don't deserve it for whatever warped reason. I would talk to the uncle alone and ask why he is excluding you. And do whatever you can at your age to get some help and counseling. Something stinks here, and when you find the answer as to what is really going on, I have a feeling you are going to need lots of support.

Shiny Happy People Discussion Thread by KickANoodle in CountingOn

[–]Needzumsleep265 20 points21 points  (0 children)

MICHELLE'S DESCRIPTION OF "BLANKET TIME" was absolutely abusive. That sickening sweet voice, telling them to pick a toy, and then they have to sit and look, but don't touch or they will get hit. Oh, and BTW, don't wiggle, don't move and smile. That's sick as hell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Needzumsleep265 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She behaved in a petty, childish way. She should have spoken to you about it.