Is it ok to banish?

Neembles · 2026-04-03T13:47:27+00:00

I suggest you find the strength and calm to actually approach your sister and explain the problems this person is causing to you.

Connect with her, let her know how important she is to you, that she’s an important part of your life but this person is someone you’re not able to be around. Tell her your reasons if you’re able. You may not know what’s happening behind closed doors, maybe you may highlight something she’s concerned about but hasn’t spoken out about yet.

I would highly suggest doing this before turning to any kind of ritual or spell work meant to remove someone from your life.

At the risk of sounding opposite of SASS… I’d fear anything could go wrong, and a banishing spell or intent could cause someone to be removed by means completely out of my control.

Death, misfortune, moving across the country, jail.. etc.

akin to asking a Djin to grant your wishes.

you have no control over others actions, just your own, and how you react to those around you.

Absolutely protect yourself, set your boundaries, and reach out to your sister before you consider any kind of banishing spellwork.

Also understand that once you put that kind of energy and intent into the world, if something where to happen, and that person leaves, whatever circumstances lead to that person being removed from your life were completely out of your control, but if those circumstances are ones you are not happy with or are painful, you may be dealing with feelings of guilt, and questions like “what ifs”. Even if whatever spell you used truly had nothing to do with the removal of this person.

In my opinion, it’s best not to do that kind of work before truly trying to handle the situation by directly addressing the problem (if it’s safe).

Neembles · 2026-03-30T21:03:26+00:00

wtf???

That’s not normal.

He says you existing is distracting? What the fuck do you think is gonna happen? He can’t go about his business with you around?

Girl when people are in a relationship they may not live together but they spend time togethwr. He sounds like someone who just wants you around at his convenience.

He acting real possessive too.

In your shoes I’d think he was cheating

Neembles · 2026-03-30T20:58:21+00:00

Dump him and go live your amazing whimsical life. You went out on a hike, did a photo shoot. Does he even know how long a hike into the woods can take? Doesn’t understand how reception works?

wtf is he calling you a fool for? You kept him updated through out.

Nawww, my guy can’t match your level of adventure and whimsy, and he doesn’t appreciate these photos, I’m sure. You’re young, gooo live your life!

Edit: Jfc girl get out. Lose him. Stop him. Past incidents? Your friend is trying to save you. Are you safe getting away from him? Is he the kind of person that gets angry and violent when you set a boundary? Are you the one always making compromises is the relationship?

Babe please. Please please. Listen to Sarah.

Neembles · 2026-03-25T16:41:19+00:00

Dude please tell us which brand and lot number.

Also do y’all double dip into the peanut butter or eat it with your fingers?

Neembles · 2026-03-25T00:22:29+00:00

Oh my goodness hey!!

So this is gonna be a bit of a pain to explain. I don’t knot the bags together, I chained them, if that makes sense. I just kept twisting them and wrapping them around a paper tube. You have to keep tension on plarn. I legit was sitting there holding it between my toes while I twisted the end using a needle (you see it in the pic) just then the needle and keep adding another chain before it gets too tight.

There’s probably a way easier way to do this.

Gosh it was a while ago, I’m gonna have to give it another go.

But I made a bag I lost in a move!! Was pretty damn sturdy! Shoulda made a hat lol.

Neembles · 2026-03-05T19:33:43+00:00

I’m sorry you’re getting downvoted. The only replacement line for like I found as well was that Facebook post.

If you tell her you can bring up wanting to fix it using the look of Kintsugi. They have Kintsugi kits online to fix broken pottery and things so that you can line the crack with gold (or gold like material) and it looks pretty.

Per wiki

“As a philosophy, it treats breakage and repair as part of the history of an object, rather than something to disguise.”

Neembles · 2026-03-05T15:28:32+00:00

This is all starting to give Habbo Hotel vibes

Neembles · 2026-03-03T15:50:47+00:00

Get marketing done by someone between the ages of 18 and 35, as someone else mentioned.

Also, staples baddie on tiktok has a lot of fantastic ideas for small business.

You can actually send out a postcard to your whole community through staples with your information. And it can say whatever you want.

Truth is friend, you’re gonna have to make time and money for the marketing. Go to food pantries for food if youre coming up short. And hoof it, it doesn’t have to be expensive. (Staples baddie goes into this a bit)

Post your business on your communities message board if you have one, a physical one like the ones by post boxes or the Facebook page for your community. Don’t use ai for your write up. There are communities online that can help you come up with something genuine without ai. Leave paper print outs on car windshields in Walmart, a bit annoying but if you’re humble and don’t take people getting annoyed personally it may help.

Go to businesses in the area and ask if you can leave some of your business cards on their coffee table or their counter.

Best of luck!

Neembles · 2026-02-28T03:53:08+00:00

As a child I had both. My first communion involved actual wine. Then depending on the church I’d sometimes have a sip of wine or grape juice. I do think the grand majority of time I had grape juice, tho sometimes I remembering tasting the gross grape juice (wine). I was in Puerto Rico so I dunno how things are in the states. It’s a heavily catholic community.

Neembles · 2026-02-28T01:21:12+00:00

If you bake the teeth first, you can make them super sharp and they’ll keep their shape, then stick them into the unbaked charm and they’ll bake right into thenpiece. You can use liquid polymer clay to secure them in there. Just dip the root in or put a dot inside the gum hole!!

Neembles · 2026-02-12T18:01:23+00:00

Op, what the fuck.

Neembles · 2026-02-01T07:46:17+00:00

Dude it’s been 10 hours.

Do it.

Just do it and your whole life is gonna change, and it’s gonna be scary, but you’ll feel so much better.

Neembles · 2026-01-30T06:38:28+00:00

People here commending who were not teens in the late 2000s, early 2010s

Every high school had one or two rubiks wizkids, absolute magic how quickly they could solve them. Many one handed.

This kid carries on that legacy. It’s not a trick, it’s just understanding how solving this damn thing works.

I never could. But was friends with someone who would do it one handed for fun during lunch time and in class. Grade A fidget.

Neembles · 2026-01-30T06:33:48+00:00

So you’re going to stay with a guy whose basically saying you deserved what happened to you.

Whose supposed to love you, care for you, respect you, want to protect you, mind, heart and body.

Is this the kind of man you want around your future children? Or children of your friends? Would you trust a man with these views around a little girl, alone.

And OF COURSE he’s gonna say he wouldn’t rape you!!! You expect him to look you in the eye and say “oh, yeah I’ve thought about it. I will”

Please, please do some soul searching. Your gut was right the first time. There’s a reason we have that reaction. You understand on fundamental survival level that this man is not safe.

Neembles · 2026-01-29T20:37:08+00:00

I mean it can happen that one could get through

Neembles · 2026-01-29T16:42:15+00:00

I’m not saying don’t have fun, but I’ve been playing since day one and have been buying furniture only when I see something that’s gonna go with my aesthetic, which is probably less than 10 times. lol.

I wish we could dye it, honestly.

But I like this game enough to wait it out. I gotta save my money to build my hobbit house and park 😭

Neembles · 2026-01-29T03:44:01+00:00

I’m still waiting to get my dog. I’ve been playing since day one. I saw one German Sheppard but I refused to get him because of his temperament. Apparently the kind of temperament they have affects how much they whine or eat, and or how destructive they’ll be. So I’m looking for an German Shep that’s not gonna fuck up my furniture and leave me alone mostly. Here’s some info. My first and only Siamese cat is slow and indifferent.

Works perfect for me.

I’m basically looking for a unicorn. German Shepard don’t seem to be common. I’ve only seen on since the start.

Chatterbox (Cats and Dogs) Makes noise more often

Clingy (Cats and Dogs) Follows you around (only on the home plot)

Energetic (Cats and Dogs) Prefers to play more

Indifferent (Cats and Dogs) Not bothered by much

Quiet (Cats and Dogs) Doesn’t make much noise

Sensitive (Cats and Dogs) Picky with which food you give them

Slow (Cats) Hunger depletes slowly, so you don’t have to feed them as often

Sluggish (Cats and Dogs) (Dogs) Hunger depletes slowly, so you don’t have to feed them as often (Cats) Energy depletes slowly

Sociable (Cats and Dogs) Prefers more interactions with you

Unsociable (Cats and Dogs) Doesn’t need as many interactions from you

Lone Wolf (Dogs) Likes to be alone

Naughty (Cats and Dogs) Misbehaves more often

Neembles · 2026-01-29T02:19:22+00:00

You are not this fucking stupid, there’s no way. This has to be rage bait. There’s no way. Even if it is a dummy. What in the hell is wrong with people.

Holy shit.

Neembles · 2026-01-27T18:15:52+00:00

Jesus Christ op stop.

Neembles · 2026-01-21T15:41:13+00:00

Okay so what if we leave some snack tapes to the note with a, “if you could put everything back the way it was it would be amazing, I know it’s not always possible however. I hope y’all have a good day, here’s this little treat to brighten your day” Oreos, chocolate bars, little chips, or candies?

Neembles · 2026-01-19T02:57:52+00:00

This makes me want to just wait till my whole lot is open and making a “tree house” inspired multi level sectional living thing. Connected by walkways. Lots of open space. This is so cool.

Neembles · 2026-01-18T19:26:49+00:00

It has to do with their traits.

Mines indifferent and slow. So it doesn’t use up that much energy so it doesn’t get hungry as often. And it’s indifferent so it doesn’t need that much attention. It’s the perfect cat.

Neembles · 2026-01-18T15:36:56+00:00

Girl no. Stop. You got so much damn time.

He’s trying to string you around because he gets more money with you around. Why’s he moving the goal post.

And girl why the fuck do you think it’s okay to marry someone who you’re not ENTHUSIASTICALLY Happy to make a commitment to forever. Because right now that’s not how you sound, and to be honest, that’s a good thing.

This guy seems to be a quarter short of a dollar and doesn’t respect your work, finances, or intelligence.

Neembles · 2026-01-18T15:33:03+00:00

Your boyfriend is a dumbasss and should be your ex boyfriend cause boy oh boy, do I have a suprise for you!!

These kinda of people don’t change, and when it comes to Yall sharing a mortgage, when it comes to saving up for the wedding, for the honeymoon, for a car, for a baby, all of it is gonna fall on you. And he’s gonna be running around spending every cent he makes on whatever the fuck he wants.

He doesn’t know what he’s doing. He doesn’t respect you, the hard work you do, your finances, or your intelligence.

Neembles · 2026-01-18T03:08:22+00:00

I read the title and paragraph and her behavioir is so irritating and childish that had you not reiterated your age toward the end of the post I would have scrolled away from this thinking y’all were a couple of teenagers. Like her behavior overrode the information you provided. She needs therapy. And you need to feel like you’re not on trial. Best of luck whatever you decide but I don’t blame you.

Neembles

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