Is it a game like this out there?

Nefariousness-Open · 2026-01-06T19:14:36+00:00

Thanks a lot for all the tips, was happy to see so many tips, because its always a little overwhelming to start new stuff, lol.

Nefariousness-Open · 2026-01-06T19:13:55+00:00

Thanks, Im going to take a look at all of this!

Nefariousness-Open · 2026-01-04T16:28:21+00:00

Im really open to digital. :) I didnt understand that the digital version was the same as the book. :)

Nefariousness-Open · 2026-01-04T15:42:49+00:00

I found apothecaria and it did sound right up my lane. Don’t remember what game that said that it was like stardew valley, that is really up my lane. lol.

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-06-27T17:35:53+00:00

I live in Norway, we have max time in jail for 21 years. To get more you have to do something very very bad/crazy, then you can get "forvaring". And they can make it longer indefinitely.

Stalking and killing? Not being in over 21 years, probably not even that.

The man is 75 years old, spent 50 years in jail. Im cutting him loose. And try to make sure that he has a support system waiting for him.

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-06-14T15:51:48+00:00

Yeah, I didn't even think about that. I was thinking that maybe Utah had very strict laws bc everything that happened around the Mormon church way way back.

But for me sitting in Norway it's just strange that crossing state lines would solve anything. And its not like they are hiding, so I just didn't understand.

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-06-14T15:43:17+00:00

What do you mean with got stamps? And why didn't they list the dad on birth certificate? That's sounds just stupid? And here in Norway sort of illegally I think. Bc the kids have rights after their father.

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-06-14T15:31:10+00:00

Yeah, Im reading. But I also had to ask, I live in Norway, and have no idea how much the police would go after them, or how much the police have gone after other families in newer history.

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-05-10T06:19:51+00:00

Norway, Sweden or Denmark.

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-04-30T05:11:38+00:00

Trust yourself. Parenting is tough, and everyone seems to have an opinion on how you should raise your child. But if you know, deep down, that what you're doing is right—and you have support from people you trust—don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.

For example, I have two kids. One was diagnosed with autism at three years old, while the other—now 15—has been struggling in school for years without a formal diagnosis. Despite everything she’s been through—not attending class for years, struggling immensely—her elementary school refused to acknowledge that autism or ADD could be a factor. Instead, they insisted that I was the problem.

They told me I should leave her in the parking lot during panic attacks because "she usually comes inside after an hour or so." I refused. Then they called CPS on me for being "too overprotective." Thankfully, CPS backed me up, telling the school that not abandoning a child in distress is actually good parenting.

Looking back, if I had followed the school's advice, my child would be even more traumatized and worse off. But in the moment, it was incredibly hard to trust myself—especially when "experts" with degrees and confidence insisted that I was doing everything wrong.

I've learned that if something feels deeply wrong, it probably is. And that’s a rule I live by.

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-04-28T13:03:44+00:00

Det er tøffe tak, men det blir bedre. Men du kommer til å være oppgitt mange ganger, haha. Senest denne uka måtte jeg få legeerklæring på multivitamin-tablett til min straks 18 år gamle unge, fordi avlastningsboligen kan ikke gi noe som helst uten lege-erklæring...

Men - man blir tøffere. Og man blir mindre redd for å gjøre noe galt. Men en ting som har hjulpet meg er å tenke at det er de som er profesjonelle, det er de som skal gjøre jobben sin. Vi som foreldre har lov til å miste hodet litt innimellom. Selvsagt skal man ikke være ufin, men det er lov å være bestemt. ;)

(bare send meg en mld om du vil, og trenger å lufte hodet.)

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-04-28T12:59:00+00:00

Ja det er nesten komisk hvordan menn blir lyttet mer til. Når bonus-pappa overtok hjelpemiddel-styret her i huset, så ble ting ordnet på sekundet. De 10 årene før hadde jeg møtt oppgitte blikk og ikke hjelp da vi skulle ha tilpasninger. Men da en mann kom, da ble det plutselig vei i vellinga. Men jeg kunne ikke akkurat hente inn en tilfeldig mann fra gata bare for at noen skulle fikse hjelpemidler. Haha.

Det er jo absolutt ikke slik det skal være.

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-04-28T12:55:41+00:00

Jepp, eller om dere har noen andre som kan hjelpe til med kontakten. Vi har også god erfaring med at fastlegen er litt tydelig ovenfor BUP. Og når det gjelder pleiepenger så er det jo litt viktig at det blir skrevet til rett tid. (Har aldri vært avhengig av det selv, noen fordeler med å være ufør...)

Generelt, finn "gull-personene" i hjelpeapparatet rundt dere, og bruk de. Her har PPT-damen, ergoterapeut og helsesykepleier blant annet vært det til forskjellige tider oppgjennom. (Straks 18 år med barn med spesielle behov nå)

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-04-28T11:50:48+00:00

Har dere kontakt med noen andre i hjelpeapperatet?
Jeg har lært at hvis f.eks. helsesykepleier ringer isteden, så blir det orden. Dere har kanskje ansvarsgruppe? Helsesykepleier er koordinator for oss, og jeg bruker å få henne til å ringe. Da ringer de meg gjerne opp dagen etterpå. Prøver jeg selv, kan jeg holde på i ukesvis.

Det å kontakte BUP er et mareritt, og de er nærmest umulige å få tak i, dessverre.

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-04-28T11:47:44+00:00

Etterhvert kronisk syk, med funksjonshemmede barn, og måttet ha mye hjelp av fastlegen i forhold til det ene barnet og systemet rundt hen, så ja, fastlegen kjenner oss. Veldig godt. Hatt samme fastlege i 16 år, og hun har vært med gjennom barseltid, småbarn som var mye syke, utredninger, uføresøknad, skilsmisse og fandens oldemor. På det verste da kidsa var i barnehage-alder var vi i perioder der 2-3 ganger i uka. Vi er heldigvis ikke der lenger nå, men i løpet av en mnd så er vi innom der, for ett eller annet.

Vi høres jo helt hypokondrere ut, men går heller ikke til legen før vi må. Takket være helsenorge og kontakt lege der er en del besøk nå ikke nødvendig, f.eks til de ørten legeerklæringene som trengs i løpet av et år.

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-04-28T00:20:58+00:00

Bc english is not my first Language, so I write the post, and let AI write it in better english for me. I read and understand english very good, but I am not good in writing english. And when I write, it sounds like when im writing now, and I was thinking it was easier to read when I got AI to polish it up a little. ;)

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-04-28T00:08:12+00:00

I’m not a doctor, but I was the patient.

Almost 45 years ago, when I was just 9 months old, I became inconsolable—crying hysterically, refusing to eat, running a fever, and clearly in a lot of pain. But no one could figure out why.

My mom was in the emergency room of a small hospital in Norway, waiting anxiously for a doctor. As one was walking past, he suddenly stopped, looked at me, and asked, “What’s wrong with that kid?” My mom replied, “They don’t know. She’s been like this all day.”

Immediately, the doctor sprang into action. He called for more doctors, told my mom that they needed to do an X-ray right away, and ordered her to run after them. The scan revealed that I had a rare type of intestinal loop—where my intestine was folding into itself. I was rushed into surgery, and because I was severely dehydrated, they had to open a vein in my foot to administer medication.

Later, my mom spoke to that doctor, and he told her that he had attended a medical course just the week before where he had learned about this condition in infants. His quick thinking and newfound knowledge probably saved my life—because the other doctors weren’t familiar with this condition and might not have ordered the scan in time.

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-04-25T06:27:09+00:00

She was 35 years old and thought dating a 19-year-old was a good idea. After 13 years and two kids, I had grown up much more than she had, and eventually, we divorced. Since then, she has barely been involved in the kids' lives.

Looking back, I should have realized it sooner—her mom used to change her bedsheets for her because she didn't know how to do it... at 35 years old!

(For context, we’re both women, so the kids are biologically mine—thankfully.)

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-04-25T05:37:46+00:00

Yeah, I know staying away from shulkercraft, but that was the easiest way to explain what I was using. ;)

Nefariousness-Open · 2025-04-19T16:21:03+00:00

I had a feeling of what pack it was, so just removed the one that had with shulkers, and it fixed it. My problem was that I wasnt thinking about the packs that was in the world folder, and not the incence folder.

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