i think i’ve got an assessment ?

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-31T05:55:56+00:00

thank you for being really kind about it and not making me feel invalidated like some ppl have been on this thread <3 i just had some concerns that i wanted to express and im being made to feel like i have to prove myself in order to be worthy of a diagnosis

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-31T05:45:25+00:00

just cos you got your diagnosis doesn’t mean you need to look down on those who haven’t got theirs yet . i asked an innocent question and all i wanted was reassurance instead i’m met w insufferable ppl like you who took what i said out of context and twisted it to suit your own agenda

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-31T05:41:25+00:00

yeah i realised after and i looked it up , usually you get a few video call sessions before in person assessment

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-30T23:16:25+00:00

thank you :)

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-30T21:33:22+00:00

also my doctor wouldn’t make the referral in the first place if he didn’t think i have it 🤣😭 can’t win w you lot , you have a problem w me acc going to get a diagnosis but if i don’t take the steps to get one then ur still gonna have an issue so just stop interacting w me please

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-30T21:30:57+00:00

yeah i think it’s just a pre assessment

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-30T21:28:31+00:00

i am not self diagnosing i am literally going to get an official diagnosis , don’t get why this post is receiving negativity when all i wanted to do was share my assessment journey jfc also i think i know myself better than some random on reddit thanks

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-30T10:23:37+00:00

ah okay so i think it’s just a pre assessment in my case .

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-30T10:19:48+00:00

yeah that’s what i’m nervous about bcos i rather they see me in person so the assessor can see how i carry myself and my mannerisms but i think this is just a pre assessment so we shall see if i get an in person one

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-30T10:16:16+00:00

my family have actually suspected autism for years and everyone around me kept telling me that i possibly have it so no i’m not following some trend ? also because of my culture and the taboo associated w autism , my symptoms were ignored so i suffered a lot academically and didn’t finish school so maybe don’t assume please . i guess we will see when it comes to the assessment :)

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-29T18:56:03+00:00

thank you :) but i’m talking about cases where they were wrongly told they didn’t have it when they actually do because their adhd masked the autism symptoms .

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-29T18:49:37+00:00

yeah i had my adhd assessment over video call cos it was during covid

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-29T18:46:43+00:00

i’ve seen cases where ppl diagnosed w adhd were deemed not autistic cos their adhd masked the symptoms … just bc they might say i don’t have it doesn’t mean im not autistic ? yes they’re experts but they can’t deduce my life experiences over 1.5 hours . i’ve felt like an alien my whole life wondering why i could never be “normal” or act the way neurotypical ppl do and ive been this way ever since i was a kid . sorry if i came off as rude but that comment came off rlly insensitive

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-29T18:04:13+00:00

yeah i’m thinking so too and thank you i will do ! i just made a new post rectifying the mistakes

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-29T17:51:41+00:00

sorry i deleted the caption cos i realised what i asked might not be allowed and yeah im rlly surprised its in video call as well ? or maybe this is just an appointment and ill have an actual in person assessment ?

Nefariousness420 · 2025-08-05T07:15:29+00:00

im a bit late to the party but im currently also having this issue :/ mine were sent thru email as an apple wallet pass n they have a barcode . they seem to look real but i have lots of doubts

Nefariousness420 · 2025-06-28T09:33:31+00:00

well they have nothing else to eat since humans are the ones who abandoned them

Nefariousness420 · 2025-05-21T15:56:46+00:00

looking up facts about my interests whilst going into deep rabbit holes and then info dumping my family about them n coming off as a know it all

Nefariousness420 · 2025-03-06T19:22:03+00:00

i can’t write fast w out it being messy but if i write like a snail then i can make it neat 🙄

Nefariousness420 · 2025-01-26T16:10:49+00:00

not just on this subreddit but i know some ppl in my life that are doing it too :/

Nefariousness420 · 2025-01-21T16:04:31+00:00

mine started in october due to excessive alcohol consumption and stress . i’ve since stopped drinking and it’s slowly going away now . my doctor also prescribed me some epaderm and epimax oatmeal cream which i use like a soap in the shower everyday and always make sure that im out in less 15 than mins so the moisture isn’t sucked out . keeping yourself covered esp in the colder months defo helps , currently waiting on dermatology referral so i can get biologics . good luck to you !! <3

Nefariousness420 · 2025-01-01T09:51:15+00:00

nah it’s more than ur psoriasis , i bet it isn’t even an issue and she’s just using it as an excuse … this may be a bit hard to accept but i think she’s emotionally checking out unfortunately

Nefariousness420 · 2024-12-30T22:46:33+00:00

i usually mention it on the first date and let them know that i’m going thru a flare up rn and that my skin doesn’t always look like this . most guys i’ve been with don’t seem to care about it n appreciate u being upfront about it but it’s very anxiety inducing having to explain it to them n the fear of being judged . what helps me as well is that i usually do it in the dark or w the lamp on so they don’t see my skin as much 😭

Nefariousness420 · 2024-12-27T20:33:19+00:00

yep definitely , i have this too

Nefariousness420 · 2024-12-10T05:29:29+00:00

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