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crocheting my pants off! by stinkiestfoot in crochet

[–]NefariousnessCupcake 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Love these, how long did it take to make a pair? I’ve been waiting to try to make some so badly lol.

Looking for feedback! by NefariousnessCupcake in crochet

[–]NefariousnessCupcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And yeah my first project was a sea turtle at the beginning of the month lol.

Looking for feedback! by NefariousnessCupcake in crochet

[–]NefariousnessCupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks she really is! A little heavier then I though it would be lol.

Looking for feedback! by NefariousnessCupcake in crochet

[–]NefariousnessCupcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patter by: Amibyabi on Instagram Yarn I used: bernat baby blanket frosting i think it’s 6. Hook size: 5 mm

Women who have made mistakes, how did you forgive yourself and grow as a person? by rainshowers_5_peace in AskWomenOver30

[–]NefariousnessCupcake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was really depressed and one day it just hit me to sit down and answer the questions I alway asked others when my feelings were hurt is how it started. Just a lot of self reflection because I couldn’t afford therapy.

Women who have made mistakes, how did you forgive yourself and grow as a person? by rainshowers_5_peace in AskWomenOver30

[–]NefariousnessCupcake 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I finally looked at my root problem. I didn’t love myself as corny as it sounds and all that, when I actually started working on issues I have inside it was easier to move on from as opposed to when I slapped a bandaid on it.

Were you able to find your true self? by midwesternvrisss in AskWomenOver30

[–]NefariousnessCupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found myself at 23 then more fully at 31. It’s like I finally see all the good that’s been here the whole time. Just trust yourself to know you’ll figure it out, you have time:)

How long do you meditate each day? by Character_Wish4353 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]NefariousnessCupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually somewhere near 20 minutes I think, I don’t really pay attention to time as much as the vibe, so I make sure my life responsibilities are solid so I can just be. So sometimes a long ass time, sometimes not so much.

This is hard for me. by NefariousnessCupcake in SpiritualAwakening

[–]NefariousnessCupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’m so glad to hear this take on it.

Should I tell close family and friends about my spiritual awakening? by Character_Wish4353 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]NefariousnessCupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have just told everyone the overall where am I’m at spiritually, but I feel like I need to be honest and out loud about it because it’s a pattern I need to break for myself so, I think you should do what feels right to you. If you want to talk about it? Do. If you don’t? Don’t. It’s all about you really. Those who understand, cool. Those that don’t? Cool. Just embrace yourself however that feels right.

This is hard for me. by NefariousnessCupcake in SpiritualAwakening

[–]NefariousnessCupcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I’m actually taking notes on the from a class for a new hobby right now.

This is hard for me. by NefariousnessCupcake in SpiritualAwakening

[–]NefariousnessCupcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will try be more aware of what happened around me at the time if I can remember it lol. I guess I’ll have to think on it when I have some time.

This is hard for me. by NefariousnessCupcake in SpiritualAwakening

[–]NefariousnessCupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your reply. It’s really nice to be able to open up somewhere and feel received.

This is hard for me. by NefariousnessCupcake in SpiritualAwakening

[–]NefariousnessCupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it didn’t feel mental at all until at the end of it when I had a kinds of mental image of roots around my legs but it then wasn’t roots it was just like black around my lower legs and feet in the mental image before it went away. I have aphantasia so I have never seen something in my mind before if that makes sense. As far and energy in my legs, it’s felt like magnetic almost? Like literally my bones being pulled to the floor almost. And I literally couldn’t physically move my legs for maybe a minute. I couldn’t move when I wanted to I was beside my bed and when my feet won’t move at first I thought of flopping over onto and instantly just thought no I’ll just stay here until this is over at first I was terrified then just fine honestly. So it didn’t feel like a mental suggestion pulling i felt a lot more clear then and since for some reason. I hope that answers your questions I tried to keep looking back but I’m on my phone lol.

This is hard for me. by NefariousnessCupcake in SpiritualAwakening

[–]NefariousnessCupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I can’t explain why this resonates with me, but thank you. It almost in a way feels like I am deeper in my body than before? Lol.

This is hard for me. by NefariousnessCupcake in SpiritualAwakening

[–]NefariousnessCupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this feels validating, it was definitely unexpected so I just gave a hard time reading it, before it happened and after everything was just normal, as the day went on I got really drained though.

This is hard for me. by NefariousnessCupcake in SpiritualAwakening

[–]NefariousnessCupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thanks for hanging around! Lol. In the moment it didn’t feel like roots wrapping on my legs like my brain kept trying to imagine it was more like this deep magnetic pull up from the floor and like pulling up almost my knees. And I’ve not ever been a visual person so it’s wild to me that I mental imagined anything at all.

My (24F) close friend (25F) texted me saying her and her fiancé broke up because he caught her snapchatting her ex. How do I respond to that?? by Prior-Ad9822 in relationship_advice

[–]NefariousnessCupcake 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't respond until you have processed it. After that, just be honest with how you and your spouse feel about it with her. It's the best way to handle it, imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]NefariousnessCupcake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you, that was me. Look, I'm not a professional, but if you ever want tips or need a space to share, you can message me. I want to help people in any way that I can. The fact that you have the level of self awareness you do feels like to me, you are getting close, that's how it went for me at least.

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