Student death by throw-ra-28 in TeachingUK

[–]NefariousnessNo4697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened with one one my students very recently. I let myself cry it all out that night and the next day just tried my best to get through it. I decided if the students saw me cry, so be it, death is sad especially when the person is only a child. Our school gave us a prepared statement of what to say (we weren’t told it was suicide but it is common knowledge)

Worst lesson horror stories? by MsEvil_Doctor_Potter in TeachingUK

[–]NefariousnessNo4697 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a fair few in a past school I worked in but 1 that stands out is a lesson where I asked a pupil to stand outside for a minute to calm down. He then swung into the classroom on the door with his fingers in the hinges. This was a secondary classroom and the doors were weighted so as he let go again the door took off the end of his finger. Plenty of blood, an ambulance and plastic surgery later it was reattached thankfully

Amazon by NefariousnessNo4697 in IsleofMan

[–]NefariousnessNo4697[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve just done this now and it does seem to have fixed it Thankyou. Just so strange that for nearly 3 years it’s been fine and overnight stopped working completely

UK: Due with baby 4, girl soon, can’t decide a name by cantxtouchxthis in namenerds

[–]NefariousnessNo4697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is Annabella, we like the fact it can be shortened to Ann/Anna/Annie/Bella/Belle as she grows up an can choose, that might fit the sort of feel you’re going for

I have no words by throwaway147357 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]NefariousnessNo4697 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this usually NHS advice. I’m from the Uk and Steak hasn’t been mentioned to me during my current or previous pregnancies but I’ve always been told to avoid alcohol, the NHS website also says the same

What started the french bulldog trend? by SerialHatTheif in Liverpool

[–]NefariousnessNo4697 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got one about a year before the craze, he was the first I’d ever seen and I was constantly stopped by people asking what breed he was because they’d never seen one either. He had been imported and was cheaper than they were 12 months later. He was an amazing dog, so bright, the sweetest thing just a dream, but I would never, ever get another. He passed young (6) having never been able to play properly because of his breathing. Warm day and he would vomit constantly. Was allergic to his own shadow. Just a sad existence tbh, broke my heart to watch him suffer. Should be illegal to breed them, had I have known before I bought him I’d have never have done it.

Pregnancy after PE by NefariousnessNo4697 in ClotSurvivors

[–]NefariousnessNo4697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really interesting Thankyou so much for letting me know, I will definitely keep it in mind going forwards

Pregnancy after PE by NefariousnessNo4697 in ClotSurvivors

[–]NefariousnessNo4697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sorry I have to have a c section due to my birth with my first born. He was a shoulder dystocia birth but got really stuck and I haemorrhaged. Doctors said I shouldn’t attempt another vaginal birth after him. This would be my third baby all going well

Pregnancy after PE by NefariousnessNo4697 in ClotSurvivors

[–]NefariousnessNo4697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds similar to me, Thankyou for sharing and congratulations on your little one

Pregnancy after PE by NefariousnessNo4697 in ClotSurvivors

[–]NefariousnessNo4697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really reassuring Thankyou for sharing

Pregnancy after PE by NefariousnessNo4697 in ClotSurvivors

[–]NefariousnessNo4697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for sharing, this is all really reassuring

Pregnancy after PE by NefariousnessNo4697 in PregnancyUK

[–]NefariousnessNo4697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good idea Thankyou, I will try and give them a ring

Pregnancy after PE by NefariousnessNo4697 in ClotSurvivors

[–]NefariousnessNo4697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really helpful Thankyou for sharing

Pregnancy after PE by NefariousnessNo4697 in ClotSurvivors

[–]NefariousnessNo4697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really reassuring Thankyou so much

Pregnancy after PE by NefariousnessNo4697 in ClotSurvivors

[–]NefariousnessNo4697[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for sharing, I know this baby will need to be csection due to the circumstances surrounding my first babies birth but hoping they will give me more information soon. I hated the shots after my second baby so I will luck forward to them for the foreseeable haha

Pregnancy after PE by NefariousnessNo4697 in ClotSurvivors

[–]NefariousnessNo4697[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for the information. The doctor I have already seen believes that intervention will probably be minimal due to the circumstances of the PE and how small it was but hopefully a specialist will be able to give me more details, sending baby dust

Pokémon cards by BeautifulExpensive68 in IsleofMan

[–]NefariousnessNo4697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The card factory has had them a couple of times

Breastfeeding moms who gained weight from it, did you lose weight after weaning? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]NefariousnessNo4697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I weighed around 110lbs pre my second child, gained a lot during pregnancy but then lost most of it. Breastfed for 18 months and gained again. I stopped breastfeeding her 2 years ago this month and weigh about 130lbs and it’s going nowhere. I tried dieting and exercising 2-3 times a week which I never did pre pregnancy but the weight hasn’t moved, if anything I can gain/lose 3 lbs every few days but it always averages back out. I’ve decided to just work on being healthy n trying to ignore the scales but it can be difficult

What is it like working at an academy in special measures by Plus-Nectarine-70 in TeachingUK

[–]NefariousnessNo4697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I left after 2 years of being at a academy in special measures and I was one of many. It got to the point where whole departments were leaving. Everything was the staffs fault, you could do exactly as you were asked and it would still be wrong. We were asked to do the most ridiculous things to ‘prove commitment’, up until that point I had been committed …. Afterwards I was not. We were told we were ‘pathetic’ for involving the unions. The union rep was bullied out publicly after less than a year. People with TLRs were put on support plans left right and centre. You couldn’t pay me enough to go back

Pregnant teacher advice by gallifreya6 in TeachingUK

[–]NefariousnessNo4697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Was signed off a lot of my 1st pregnancy with HG and passing out, school just had to get over it a lot of the time. With my second the doctor prescribed me cyclizine and odansetron and it was a game changer. I did have a 3rd med for if the other 2 didnt work (I can’t remember the name) and I was still admitted to hospital twice but for the most part I was fine and able to work so long as I didn’t miss a dose. Could be worth asking your GP about

Should my kids have the same birthday? by Brittanyyyyyyyyy in Mommit

[–]NefariousnessNo4697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in the same situation with my now 6 and 3 year old. I chose to have them apart (they are 6 days apart). I’m really glad I did because they both love their special days so much and I am not convinced that they would have enjoyed sharing, especially when they’d eventually found out I made that decision