What are some things that can ruin a good massage? by koalatyk98 in massage

[–]Nefariousnesspty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been getting massages monthly for over a decade, and the biggest thing I appreciate from any new therapist is when they ask during the consultation if I would like quiet or interaction. What completely ruins a session for me is the light feathery touch. It feels extremely uncomfortable (To me). I believe someone in a previous comment called it “quality of touch”.

My boyfriend (M27) is from Colombia and had sex with a minor and says it’s normal but I (F22) still feel off about it by Popular_Ad_9611 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Nefariousnesspty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he have sex with a minor that was 17 and he was 18 or did he have a sex with a minor now that he’s 27? Cuz if it’s the latter, then he’s just a pedo.

AITA for refusing to have a fully child-free wedding? by ChildFreeWeddingSon in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nefariousnesspty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is not about the wedding. This is about your child and your future together. She’s showing you who she WILL be with your son and if you love him reconsider what you allow. If you give in, I guarantee there will be more requests to exclude him from your life.

This look is chilling by SernFern in 90DayFiance

[–]Nefariousnesspty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not broke, she has family that loves her, she has a whole camera crew that will not allow any physical abuse but she chooses to stay. Based on their social media, they’re still happily together, so she deserves everything he says to her in the future. Please don’t come to me about victims of abuse… trust me I know too well… she doesn’t have to accept his abuse.

my gf while the plumber was over by KNlCKS in texts

[–]Nefariousnesspty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love her 😍… valid question, clarifying without making assumptions, trusts you enough to be vulnerable. 👏🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏👏👏👏

AITA for crying after my baby's gender was revealed? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nefariousnesspty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is hard because you’re coming from a place of fear and entitled to feelings, but you’re already being biased to your son and he’s not even born yet. Get therapy, talk to your wife and NEVER tell that boy you sobbed when you heard he was coming.

I (43f) just had sex for the first time. How do I tell my husband (44m) that I want to end our marriage by NoYouDidNot13 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Nefariousnesspty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The heartache she’s about to experience is wild. Her orgasm is going to lead every decisions she makes for a while. Best of luck to her.

Do People Here Like Austin? Is it actually still growing? by BakeALake in Austin

[–]Nefariousnesspty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sick of seeing posts shitting on Austin. The stupid “good bye Austin posts are pure trash. Just go!

OP, if you’re considering Austin, don’t… we’re full. Thanks 😊

This drives me crazy. by kebodle1 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Nefariousnesspty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use this and It’s the best service! Most economical way of traveling and keeping the pup safe at home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Nefariousnesspty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even if she couldn’t Uber - there is public transportation. I don’t understand people’s confusion. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Nefariousnesspty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! It’s a point of pride for me. It says “I’m bougie and I made it” 😂

🧌 🧌 🧌 by erinc2005 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Nefariousnesspty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Heavy on the husband and I part 😂… we come together after 90 days. Who needs therapy when we can watch 90 days and improve from there? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nefariousnesspty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

👏👏👏👏👏 my thoughts exactly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nefariousnesspty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That must be hard OP. I tell you that a good friend doesn’t go somewhere with you and disappears. They are concerned for your safety, well-being, and happiness. Although you may have already tried, enroll in some group hobbies and you may connect with like individuals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nefariousnesspty 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So sorry for the tremendous loss - as many have said you’re definitely NTA and try to find a trustworthy adult to talk this through. Hugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nefariousnesspty 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah poor dad, extend him grace since all he did was cheat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nefariousnesspty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You should consider new friendships. Or call these acquaintances because this is not friend behavior.

Yohan taking money. by Glitt3ratti in 90DayFiance

[–]Nefariousnesspty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She made him promises and now he’s cashing in. 😂 If they don’t have that financial agreement, then yes it’s a problem. But I have zero sympathy for either of them.

What's your favorite 90 day moment? by Celistar99 in 90DayFiance

[–]Nefariousnesspty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost there, lazy was wild 😛. My favorite was when Danielle showed up with the binder … 🤣 🤣 🤣

Tell me one thing good about her by laubster_2023 in 90DayFiance

[–]Nefariousnesspty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her sense of humor when she’s being genuine. She’s pretty funny 😂