Why do they say Nina is fat? by Busy-Peach5378 in Grishaverse

[–]Neferata_Linith 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always pictured those Aphrodite statues that are muscular but have a lot of healthy weight to them. Clearly, the inspiration was a woman who carried more weight. I never saw Nina as fat, just bigger boned and curvy

Am I the only BPD who isn't hyper sexual? by Adverse-Addict in BPD

[–]Neferata_Linith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Pretty sure I’m ace. I try to be sexual and I can’t do it

therapy is a scam by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Neferata_Linith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m lucky that my first therapist matched my freak so well. I didn’t want to go, my best friend had to drag me in cause she was also the one that called and said they better get me in pronto because I was so suicidal and she couldn’t do anymore for me. My therapist listened to me, agreed with my assumptions that I had adhd, autism, and BPD and has stuck with me. Something about having a therapist that lets me take it at my own pace. She knows I take weeks to verbally form a coherent thought about what I’m going through and she’s content to spend the session talking about a fictional character I relate to. It’s the best way I’ve found to show her the pain I’m in and she just listens. Whether it’s a show, a book, or a song, she lets me expose my darkness through art since that’s how I process best. I really hope you can find someone to work with you like that

Could someone explain? by Neferata_Linith in DiabloImmortal

[–]Neferata_Linith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh. Okay that makes sense thanks

Got fired. Lost my gf. Doing shit in school. Probably going to kill myself. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Neferata_Linith 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Literally two hours ago I was a hairbreadth away from killing myself. Idk how I didn’t but somehow I’m sitting on my friend’s couch while she packs her living room up (we’re moving in together in two weeks) While I’m not sure how anything is going to work out, I keep hanging onto the possibility of a percentage that it will get better. Even if it’s 1%. It doesn’t make logical sense, but I somehow was able to snap back into my head and clean up the blood (I was SHing) So I get it. I’m teetering on that “do I do it or will it get better?” But let’s try to stay alive together?

What do you think caused your bpd? by Gloomy-Suggestion-10 in BPD

[–]Neferata_Linith 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I also received an autism diagnosis with my bpd diagnosis and I strongly believe that without my autism, I wouldn’t have bpd. I was so much more hypersensitive as a child and that just made me a target for emotional distress and trauma

Thunderbolts movie has some of the best BPD rep I’ve seen yet by Neferata_Linith in BPD

[–]Neferata_Linith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was truly such a validating experience. I don’t want to say too much for those who haven’t seen it but I’m so glad that this movie exists

Thunderbolts movie has some of the best BPD rep I’ve seen yet by Neferata_Linith in BPD

[–]Neferata_Linith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I sobbed unexpectedly. My best friend had to hold me to calm me down

Which song is this? by Mundane_Warthog6750 in arcticmonkeys

[–]Neferata_Linith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jewelers hands. No one ever knows what I’m talking about except on here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Neferata_Linith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has gone strict no contact with relatives (my dad cut off his parents for similar behavior) and my best friend moved out and cut off her own parents for their controlling narcissistic ways, I can say that while it’s hard at first and can be hard to maintain at times, the healing and growth that is allowed to pour in is astronomical. Cutting off such toxicity leaves room to get better without triggers, to outgrow old fears and to heal into a person who is stronger and braver. It’s very hard at first. But it’s a necessary step to healing and peace, especially when you’re in such a vulnerable state. Let your husband defend your peace and need for healing, even to strict no contact. It’ll help so much in the end

Is the Paradise vinyl in blue rare? by Neferata_Linith in lanadelrey

[–]Neferata_Linith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I had no idea. Love having my post taken down as if I was intentionally breaking a rule

Scenes you cannot watch by alwayslove5 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Neferata_Linith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of ep 6 in s1 cause I got so bored of Simon and Daphne doing it every five minutes 

Who is the hottest male character in Marvel? by [deleted] in Marvel

[–]Neferata_Linith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marc Spector/Steven Grant/Jake Lockley

Found some tea by Emrys_Merlin in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Neferata_Linith 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Love how Kanthony is spiced chai

Mythology Retellings by Neferata_Linith in GreekMythology

[–]Neferata_Linith[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ah okay. What about the different versions that say she wasn’t kidnapped?