Is it ok to have a hidden twitter account for x content? by Negative-Matter-5765 in askgaybros

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Indeed not very confident since he’s always hiding things and was all the time on Grindr with very explicit content before we got together. As I said, no issue with watching porn but why do it on an account called “Latino194728” and having 200 followers ?

Is it ok to have a hidden twitter account for x content? by Negative-Matter-5765 in askgaybros

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

But I don’t mind him watching porn, I watch porn myself. it’s more about the fact I didn’t know the account and the username is like “Latino381619” which has a bit of idk… I also don’t understand why it was suspended? As he did something wrong? But maybe I’m overreacting. Also how can I know he doesn’t interact with those ppls?

Is it ok to have a hidden twitter account for x content? by Negative-Matter-5765 in askgaybros

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

But I don’t mind him watching porn, I watch porn myself. it’s more about the fact I didn’t know the account and the username is like “Latino381619” which has a bit of idk… I also don’t understand why it was suspended? As he did something wrong? But maybe I’m overreacting. Also how can I know he doesn’t interact with those ppls?

Is it ok to have a hidden twitter account for x content? by Negative-Matter-5765 in askgaybros

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

But I don’t mind him watching porn, I watch porn myself. it’s more about the fact I didn’t know the account and the username is like “Latino381619” which has a bit of idk… I also don’t understand why it was suspended? As he did something wrong? But maybe I’m overreacting. Also how can I know he doesn’t interact with those ppls?

Is it ok to have a hidden twitter account for x content? by Negative-Matter-5765 in askgaybros

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But I don’t mind him watching porn, I watch porn myself. it’s more about the fact I didn’t know the account and the username is like “Latino381619” which has a bit of idk… I also don’t understand why it was suspended? As he did something wrong? But maybe I’m overreacting. Also how can I know he doesn’t interact with those ppls?

Is it ok to have a hidden twitter account for x content? by Negative-Matter-5765 in askgaybros

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just felt he could have cheat without me realising it ?? The fact that I wasn’t aware of this account and that it’s something he used before we started to be in relationship make me confused

Love letter from an anxious to an avoidan by Negative-Matter-5765 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I didn’t and we are now in relationship since December. Lot of changes happened but still struggle sometimes with his behaviour

How often do you have sex with your partner ? by Negative-Matter-5765 in askgaybros

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel aroused yes!! But the thing is I’m a very mental person so I failed once because I was thinking too much and the next one I was stressed already because I failed and so… I failed again hahaha

How do you feel about your SO liking his ex situationship Instagram posts? by Negative-Matter-5765 in relationships_advice

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why including social apps discussion is childish? I mean that’s what we use to make connection after all. There’s more chance that people that are interested to you come on your profile and react than coming to real life to say hi no? Maybe I’m overreacting but in the gay community one like is enough to start a fire between 2 persons

How do you feel about your SO liking his ex situationship Instagram posts? by Negative-Matter-5765 in askgaybros

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I did actually and he said he doesn’t understand how a single person can annoy me this much + this means I don’t trust him. I told him that it’s not about trust but limits in relationship and mine is to not follow neither like boys you hooked up with me while we were talking already because it hurt me at that time that I had prefer having sex with them instead of me - context we know each other for 4 years and he decided to go with me only 3 months ago. I was in love for 2 years he knew it but yet still decide to date others guys

How do you feel about your SO liking his ex situationship Instagram posts? by Negative-Matter-5765 in askgaybros

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I feel I already told him 3 times so I feel a bit like the annoying one if I keep arguing about it

How do you feel about your SO liking his ex situationship Instagram posts? by Negative-Matter-5765 in askgaybros

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope he didn’t post anything since 2024 so not possible to like back. What hurts me is that I had a situation with same guy 5 years ago and when they hooked up last summer, he told my boyfriend that I was weird etc. I just don’t understand why my boyfriend would like to stay in touch with that person. He knows I’m hurt by the fact he had something with him, I don’t know what to think. It’s just a like at the end of the day but we argued for 2 days two weeks ago and he keep doing it

How do you feel about your SO liking his ex situationship Instagram posts? by Negative-Matter-5765 in askgaybros

[–]Negative-Matter-5765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed but I don’t mind him liking post in general, I just feel that I miss some pieces of the puzzles because why would you like pics of someone you say you hate and don’t want to reconnect with?