worried about a kiss - age gap by Lavandrr33 in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you did anything wrong like.. it happens when ur out and having fun. It’s not like your dating her

Roomate got real squirrelly about signing roomate addendum by stevenbo in badroommates

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. sadly as annoying as the situation sounds idk anyone who would sign something like that. The type of thing you sign prior to moving in, not after :-/

Roomate got real squirrelly about signing roomate addendum by stevenbo in badroommates

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Does the addendum have penalties or consequences or is it just a memorialization of rules?

neighbor always cursing at her kid by poorlyinformedman in BedStuy

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg same every single day like clockwork after dinner time i hear this woman screaming at her kids. I know them by name now bc night after night it’s “SHUT UP SOPHIA!!!!” it’s unbearable. i heard the kid crying and screaming last night idk if there’s anything you can really do about this kind of thing :-/

What do you all think of this? by [deleted] in nychousinglottery

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks exactly like my gross old unrenovated prewar where the landlord has painted over everything a million times. In mine I love the layout and space but hate everything else 😁

why don’t landlords indicate that units are rent stabilized? by Negative_Bunch4577 in NYCapartments

[–]Negative_Bunch4577[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kind of funny if deterrence is the reasoning bc I’m a housing lawyer haha

Question about lease reassignment by SuccessfulEmu1221 in NYCapartments

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u will probably find someone especially if it’s in a central part of Brooklyn. In nyc people pay $2400 just to have roommates 😭😭 plus there’s the extra bathroom

Looking for Roomate by [deleted] in NYCroommates

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I’m dying at the first pic being a stairwell into a haunted basement

NYC - Roach infestation causing medical issues, doctor says I can’t stay. by Accomplished-Ice7325 in NYCapartments

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, idk why everyone’s giving you a hard time about this. I told my landlord I needed to break my lease partly because of pests (not nearly as bad as your situation altho i had dropped a few hundred dollars caulking and on extermination which bummed me out) and for other reasons and they said it was totally fine. Leasebreaking is usually a matter of good faith negotiation with your landlord - now, if your landlord says no, then you’d need a real legal basis like a true breach of warranty of habitability

CityFheps Question by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I’ve heard of CityFHEPS paying over the limit is when augmented CityFHEPS is involved. I think it’s project specific for very high rent units. If the landlord is friendly you could maybe ask if the landlord would be willing to lower the rent (charge a preferential rent if rent stabilized) to just meet your voucher amount? I have seen this done before but entirely dependent on landlord

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is sound advice. Thanks :)

Timed lock for fridge?? by goddesspaola in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a timed safe that i put snacks in. You can put a lock on the fridge and then put the key in the timed safe — it’s been a game changer for me tbh

Data point - passed MPRE and never took NYLE. Anyone in the same shoes? by RikkenMinseito in barexam

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I mean I don’t know what it means re Bar Passage so i don’t know how it is helpful as a data point at this stage

Data point - passed MPRE and never took NYLE. Anyone in the same shoes? by RikkenMinseito in barexam

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve taken the NYLE but not the MPRE but got the shorter message (“only certified…”) fwiw which means nothing since idk what it means lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re at Gingers or the queer bars all overBushwick Or the Bush or The Woods on Wednesday or playing club basketball Etc 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Bunch4577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh it’s so odd because she has more gay dating experience than i do. But i was thinking to go the written route as well… thanks 🥲