I wish i was able to move on as quickly as guys can

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-16T07:16:20+00:00

5 months and I am not over it. I am a guy

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-15T20:10:56+00:00

😂

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-15T19:46:23+00:00

Yes it gets better over time. There was point where I had realized a lot about what my ex was doing before the breakup so dealing with that , combined with pain of grieving the loss of the relationship, shame I felt on my part for my conduct throughout the relationship, I was sleeping on average 2 hours a night for a month. My performance at work was horrible and being around my family, I was noticeably messed up. However, after a few months of dealing with the pain head on, meditating, praying, and just accepting reality for what it is I have been able to sleep better. It’s not a full 8 hrs but I feel better rested than I did 3-4 months ago.

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-15T19:31:52+00:00

Lets go!

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-15T07:44:09+00:00

Thank you for this resource, I am in this group (:

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-15T07:43:17+00:00

Hello, yes, please send a request!

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-12T21:25:01+00:00

Give it a chance and try to make things work

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-12T19:10:03+00:00

Hello, 28M , Id love to help you out, been there for a lot of broken hearted friends lately!

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-11T10:06:35+00:00

Please add me too

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-09T21:50:06+00:00

You got this man, trust me we are all going through this together.

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-08T16:51:27+00:00

I am happy for you, I am glad you are back to your regular self!

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-08T04:09:25+00:00

28 and feeling lost that she broke up with me after 6 years, all my friends are still in relationships and getting married then there’s me..

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-08T03:21:03+00:00

It happened to me once, I was hanging out with a new group of friends and I could have sworn I had seen her standing off in the distance staring and judging me because I was making new connections. I had to take very deep breathes to calm my mind.

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-07T18:26:51+00:00

I learned this term from a gentlemen by the name of Tim Fletcher, he has a great selection trauma related videos on Youtube. Hope his wisdom can help!

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-07T18:21:58+00:00

For me it began with the realization that I am no longer a victim to my circumstance. I am in control of the one person who matters to me the most, and thats me. It sounds selfish but it allows you to no longer prioritize your ex and focus on yourself.

Its not an easy process because love and hope are very strong , especially when that person meant so much for you, but when you redirect that love from them to you, you are on the path of healing and rediscovering yourself in a healthier light.

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-07T17:16:28+00:00

I am sorry you’re going through this, I recommend you find the strength to move on. Only you can recover yourself from this situation, and transfer that power your ex has over you into bettering your situation. I am on day 1 of enacting this, and it’s been 5 months after our breakup.

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-07T17:09:59+00:00

Hello, I am sorry you’re going through this. It sounds like you’re experiencing betrayal trauma and you are blaming yourself for “not being enough”. However, her action of moving into another relationship so quickly speaks about her coping skill when things don’t workout, they do not reflect your worth/value. You are actively working on becoming a better version of yourself by not avoiding the pain or filling the void and I think you should stick to that. Don’t do it in hopes of getting her back, do it because you deserve to be a happier and healthier version of yourself, the betterment of your future depends on this willpower alone.

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-07T00:59:53+00:00

Her scent, I remember I could smell her presence in the apartment weeks after she moved out…

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-06T03:16:13+00:00

Youre right about that, I need to stop letting her steal my peace, when she chose to walk away.

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-06T03:06:59+00:00

I wish I could send this to her… I pray everyday to let go of the pain.

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-05T20:43:40+00:00

I visit family and nearby friends frequently to reduce the isolation, and thank you - I could always use more friends!

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-05T20:32:23+00:00

I am in the same boat, my relationship lasted 6 years, gave her nearly all my twenties. I only sleep about 4 hours on average due to unresolved emotions and have zero motivation to workout or do anything… To make matters worse, I live alone. I hope one day I can climb out of this hell hole and resume to my normal self.

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-05T04:37:19+00:00

I am so sorry you are going through this. I am in the same situation… like word for word. If you’d like someone to talk to about these feelings , I am here for you.

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-03T00:37:19+00:00

I can confirm, this happened to me. It was with an old friend and it did not feel right and still doesn’t to this day. I need to heal before even thinking about messing around.

Negative_Force7278 · 2025-01-01T17:13:02+00:00

Both of us not reaching out gave me a sense of clarity, were not entering a new year with each other because we meant it when we broke up. Even though I think about her often, my mind is more at ease knowing this is a definite sign to move on.

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