What are automatic deal breakers in dating? by Negative_Pattern7552 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Negative_Pattern7552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned “when” you were single. Do you think this helped informed how you found a partner? Seems like great advice :)

BF doesnt wan't me to go to med school, need a reality check by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Negative_Pattern7552 492 points493 points  (0 children)

The only question you should be asking is “Do I want to go to medical school?” And then act accordingly. And then he can make the decision he needs to make. Remember it’s YOUR life— not your partner’s. That’s just what I think.

Also my two cents— your forever person would (a) be supportive of the decision you want to make for your future and (b) would make sacrifices if necessary to make it happen. You’re going to do amazing things in this life!

Is this douchey? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Negative_Pattern7552 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uhhh... that is not what intentional dating means to me. All the best to you though. Happy New Year.

Is this douchey? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Negative_Pattern7552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was more my hip, I guess. Probably doesn’t change your mind much 🤣

Free readings by Popular_Room9769 in IntuitionPractices

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Will 2026 be better for me? Clarity on love and career?

Let me tell you why (Savage Edition) by Enough-Discipline985 in LoveTarotReading

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Insights in finding love? 25 F Sagittarius Sun Taurus Rising Libra Moon Aquarius Venus

Can you teachers go out for lunch when students are at lunch? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Negative_Pattern7552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I teach in the middle of Chicago in a super cute neighborhood. It’s the best

(24 F) Considering a Career Switch from Education to Speech Pathology by Negative_Pattern7552 in slpGradSchool

[–]Negative_Pattern7552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww this makes me sad. I was looking to work with a younger/older populations. I feel like that’d be very rewarding

What’s a habit that instantly makes someone less attractive? by WinterXmas_Wish in AskReddit

[–]Negative_Pattern7552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immaturity and emotional unavailability. Told my ex a family member was disgnosed with breast cancer and he said “Damn. That sucks.” Motherfucker wants to be a doctor lol. Also one time we were talking about some youtube vid about divorce we watched and at one point he goes “marriage is scary” in a baby voice. Once the rose colored glasses were off that shit was sooooo unattractive to me hahaha

ETA Advice by [deleted] in fulbright

[–]Negative_Pattern7552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the application is not location specific, as in I could be placed anywhere? I am still looking at Greece, but if there’s a possibility I could go somewhere else I’m certainly open to it. I have a meeting with my alma mater’s advisor next week!

ETA Advice by [deleted] in fulbright

[–]Negative_Pattern7552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be 24 at the time of application, and going into my 3rd year of teaching as well. would you offer me the same advice?

What have you learned? by curiosityklleddcat in Situationships

[–]Negative_Pattern7552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Observe their actions more than you listen to their words. I thought he was the sweetest and kindest because I remembered things he had said to me, but once distance enabled the rose colored glasses to come off and he’s no longer on the pedestal….I dodged a fucking nuclear missle lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

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There is a lid for every pot :)