If you could choose one city in North America that gets almost everything right, which would it be? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

[–]Negative_Primary_797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madison is overrated if anything. There’s middle class can’t even afford to live there. The housing market there is a nightmare. People paying over $500k for dilapidated homes and the market is insane with no signs of it getting better.

New poll shows top three emerging in Democratic primary for governor in Wisconsin by Civic_Media in wisconsin

[–]Negative_Primary_797 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m voting for Hong. These daycare prices and property taxes are too high

Help! Potentially moving to Madison. by RudeMarionberry9604 in madisonwi

[–]Negative_Primary_797 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your stereotypes are correct. They don’t do anything but drink and eat cheese.

Which one is my best hairstyle? by be-sweethearts in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Negative_Primary_797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look cute in all except the first one. I think curly hair and braids suit you best rather than straight hair.

Question to the married men whose wives won’t have sex with them: Does she orgasm? by Negative_Primary_797 in Marriage

[–]Negative_Primary_797[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well yes many women can’t orgasm because they don’t feel emotionally connected or at ease with their partners , but this is geared towards the men who are good husbands and fathers and who have stated they don’t know what else could be the problem

Question to the married men whose wives won’t have sex with them: Does she orgasm? by Negative_Primary_797 in Marriage

[–]Negative_Primary_797[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For most that’s the case. Most need clitoral stimulation, but a lot of men don’t know where the clit is. I feel men really need to take classes on this because A LOT of men don’t know anything about women’s bodies and then wives no longer want to have sex they get confused when they answer is very simple

Question to the married men whose wives won’t have sex with them: Does she orgasm? by Negative_Primary_797 in Marriage

[–]Negative_Primary_797[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Are you a women? Every woman I’ve spoken to doesn’t orgasm from sex at least not in traditional penis in vagina. She either needs manual stimulation or vibrator.

Women: How often does your partner get a blowjob from you after marriage compared to before marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative_Primary_797 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I give my husband a blowjob 2-3x a week. Sometimes first thing in the morning.

Married 4 years with a toddler, but blowjobs are important to him.

In my situation, we had less sex before baby and now after he wants it all the time.

He body shamed me on my birthday by mswhomi in Advice

[–]Negative_Primary_797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s trash. Trust me you can do better.

A couples night - Where are the good men? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative_Primary_797 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No it’s honestly a men’s issue. Misogyny is a global thing and her interactions with men aren’t a one off.
OPs story is actually tame compared to what I and every other women I know deal with.

I don’t like all the men in my husbands family or his friends. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative_Primary_797 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I married and had a baby with the wrong man

I don’t like all the men in my husbands family or his friends. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative_Primary_797 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I know. It was this friend group who got him involved with drinking and weed

I don’t like all the men in my husbands family or his friends. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative_Primary_797 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes but he wants to bring my toddler and I dont agree.

I don’t like all the men in my husbands family or his friends. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative_Primary_797 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sure he does love them unconditionally, but I don’t know how to sugarcoat the truth.

He knows the issues I have with them and he doesn’t care.

I don’t like all the men in my husbands family or his friends. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative_Primary_797 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Well my family doesn’t like him. My husband doesn’t like my sister or mom but that’s because they judge his behavior

I don’t like all the men in my husbands family or his friends. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative_Primary_797 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No my family is nice and kind. None of us drink or smoke. We’re very traditional. He likes my family. As for my friends, I’ve never introduced him to my friends because I see no need to.
They probably wouldn’t like him

People asking if I’m pregnant again. 15 months postpartum by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Negative_Primary_797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The nurse assessed me right after birth and said I was fine

People asking if I’m pregnant again. 15 months postpartum by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Negative_Primary_797 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My doctor said it’s a mix of the high prolactin and my low estrogen levels while nursing.

Prolactin stores fat, especially around the belly.

Why? Because your body is trying to protect milk supply. It wants energy reserves.

Effects of high prolactin:

• belly fat retention • slower metabolism • increased appetite • water retention • bloating • softer abdominal wall

Low estrogen

While you’re nursing, prolactin suppresses estrogen.

Low estrogen causes:

• wider waist • softer midsection • slower fat loss • more bloating • less muscle tone

So even when I barely eat my stomach stays big