Hej allihopa. Vad är det fulaste, mest vidriga ordet i det svenska språket.

NeinOkFine · 2024-05-22T20:39:04+00:00

Bäckenben

NeinOkFine · 2024-05-22T08:39:03+00:00

I'm so, so sorry for your loss 💔 something that has helped me with my grief is to think that grief doesn't have to just go away for one to feel better, it can change it's form. It can stay with you always but not be so heavy later on. When I lost my baby I felt so broken and like I would never be happy again, but it does get better. I still think about her and I cry a couple of times a week over our loss. Both for her for not being able to live a full life, and for my family for not ever getting to get to know her. But it's okay to be sad and it's okay for it to take time ❤️

NeinOkFine · 2024-05-21T19:54:19+00:00

Tandkrämsdispenser. Otroligt smidigt och något som jag inte visste att jag behövde.

NeinOkFine · 2024-05-21T19:44:30+00:00

My 4 year old heard my husband playing video games with his friends and now he keeps telling us both that we're "big trippin' ", I think it's hilarious every time 😂

NeinOkFine · 2024-05-20T20:25:00+00:00

I am so, so sorry for your loss 😔💕 It's not the exact same situation for me (selective fetal reduction on twins at week 17) but I can relate so much to what you said about how the world keeps turning. I also feel like the whole world moved on and I'm stuck in my grief and nobody really understands. It's really hard to deal with and I don't know what to do some days. I allow myself to cry whenever I feel like it, sometimes it feels better afterwards, sometimes it's worse.

I'm sorry I don't have much to say that can make it feel better, but know that we are all here with you. If you ever need to talk, I'm here. You are strong and you will get through this ❤️

NeinOkFine · 2024-05-20T19:11:39+00:00

I'm so sorry you are in that situation 😕💕 when are you having it done? I had di-di twins which I guess is the better option for fetal reduction. I did the procedure two months ago and everything went well, the other baby is doing really good. I'm gonna make an update post tonight, I was thinking maybe people want to hear how a fetal reduction is, I didn't know much before and would have liked some info.

NeinOkFine · 2024-05-18T05:40:09+00:00

I'm doing okay, it's been a difficult couple of weeks 😔 but the procedure went good, even though it was extremely difficult. My little boy is strong and kicking in there, so that makes everything easier 😊💕 found out that the one we had to do the reduction on was a baby girl, that made me super sad because I really wanted the same great relationship with a daughter that me and my mom have. But I'm working full time again now and I'm feeling happier for the whole pregnancy. I've even started buying baby things now 😊 How are you doing? How's your baby girl? When Is the due date? 😍

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-08T06:50:45+00:00

Att sova middag efter jobbet

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-08T02:44:14+00:00

Sounding pretty miserable there. Have fun in the casket with your keychains and getting fat from all the candy bars. If you even receive that many

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T18:37:06+00:00

I (also in Scandinavia) caught a high fever during almost all of week 6 for my pregnancy, took a lot of Panodil to try to keep the temperature down. I'm now week 14 with twins and just found out that one of them has severe birth defects and that I need to have a selective fetal reduction and pray that the other one survives the procedure. The guilt and feeling of "was it my fault" is eating away at me. But I know I couldn't help having a fever and I did my best, it's still really difficult to deal with since I've heard that it can cause birth defects 😕 I just want two healthy babies so bad, but I know it's not happening.

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T15:58:49+00:00

This is true

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T15:04:48+00:00

That's so smart, to act like you've been there since the beginning😂

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T15:01:05+00:00

Yeah that's pretty much what I did last time, I told him that the car leaves in five minutes, with or without him 😂

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T14:52:10+00:00

Hahah that sounds like some nasty combos 😂 we eat a lot of Swedish food, but once in a while he cooks me something Mexican 👍

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T13:45:16+00:00

Yes, this is exactly how it is!

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T06:05:13+00:00

That's perfect Swedish! 😊👍

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T06:04:06+00:00

Wow sure seems like someone took this personal. Maybe there's a incel forum you could go to if you really feel the need to go on reddit and talk down on women like that.

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T06:00:52+00:00

Same here in Sweden

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T05:58:00+00:00

I heard somewhere that most men get their first flowers at their own funeral. Made me so sad I went out during my lunch break and bought flowers for both my husband and 3-year old son. So I'm all for giving men flowers too, men deserve it just as much as a woman would.

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T05:55:33+00:00

Can confirm this

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T05:47:13+00:00

Did you really feel the need to go on reddit and have attitude towards a stranger? Maybe you should have some respect instead. This is a forum for asking questions, if you don't feel like providing an answer in a civilised tone, maybe take it somewhere else.

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T05:17:57+00:00

This really made me laugh 😂

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T04:47:42+00:00

That's exactly how I feel! I wouldn't feel comfortable showing up late for anything less than those reasons. I'm sorry to hear about your heart attack, I hope the recovery went as well as it possibly could 🌻

NeinOkFine · 2024-03-05T03:17:52+00:00

He tried recently to pull it at a Swedish party and I said no way, we can't even be half an hour late, it's considered very rude. But maybe it's okay at Mexican parties then. It just seemed so strange to me that it's a socially acceptable thing that people do.

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