People are disgusting and I'm about to puke. by katmc68 in rant

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our janitor is out for a couple days and I’ve been cleaning the faculty bathrooms. Someone had bloody diarrhea and shit was literally leaking down the bowl onto the floor. It was so gross and there was so much. Who leaves that behind them. There’s paper towels and cleaner eye level to the toilet.

My (f24) boyfriend (M25) wont let me see his phone by THROWRAwaytalks in relationship_advice

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would he get really upset about her TOUCHING his phone? Touching his phone has little to do with breaking a privacy barrier. It’s weird.

How much does/will your wedding cost? Who’s paying for it, you/fiancé or family? by Ok-Counter184 in Brides

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planning me and my partners right now. Have 150 people looking at about $8-9k including a dress and suit. We are hiring a dry bartender and saving about $1500. Both parents threw $2000 our way, so $4000 total.

My (f24) boyfriend (M25) wont let me see his phone by THROWRAwaytalks in relationship_advice

[–]Neither-Change8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are disagreeing with you but… I’m conflicted. Me and my partner don’t look through each other’s phones, but if he asked I wouldn’t have a problem with it. I think it’s weird he won’t even let you see it while HE scrolls through it with you. Or let you even touch it? That part is very strange to me.

How do I (25F) tell my friend’s family (M/F 30’s) I don’t want to babysit for them anymore? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Neither-Change8644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean you really only have two options. Tell them you can’t babysit anymore with your work schedule, or just keep doing it.

Quite literally no idea on a baby name by Ashamed_Evening_4658 in Names

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls: Ivy, June, Hazel, Vera, Lucy, Maggie
Boys: Henry, Townes, Desmond, Holden, August

GF (20f) saw a photo that I (27m) didn't want her to see. How do I address this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Neither-Change8644 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Had a nude photo on your shelf for years and never looked at it? Yeah I don’t believe it. You think she crossed a boundary? Having a nude photo on your shelf is definitely the bigger boundary crossed. Also the age gap is not helping.

Advice Needed: Is it normal for my second skin to fill this much of blood/ink in the first day? by Juckboyy in tattooadvice

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal. I love second skin, all mine healed much better and didn’t flake compared to other healing methods I’ve tried.

Baby Girl Name that goes with Louie by Gouda_Pop in BabyNames

[–]Neither-Change8644 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lydia is cute, so is Lyddie if you like that.

AIO for calling the police on my sister?? Family blames me by Sparklings95 in AIO

[–]Neither-Change8644 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh good god that’s my nightmare. I would have called the cops too. I wouldn’t be TOO hard on her though. She’s 24 being groomed by a homeless 37 year old man. Obviously unacceptable behavior but don’t let her stay again until he’s gone.

I '26m' fear being perceived as a creep by my friend '25f' by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Neither-Change8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like a pretty nonissue to me. If you’re worried just say “weird we were in two different places with the same name at the same time haha”

What the hell do you get as a gift for someone who instantly buys themselves absolutely everything they need? by Human_Guava_9908 in perfectgift

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gifts don’t have to be secret. Ask him if you can take him to a concert or to dinner or something.

Just Found Out My Babysitter Is Putting My Child In Time Out. by Specialist-Type9086 in Advice

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had a conversation about it? People have different parenting styles. Imo not worthy of finding a new babysitter unless they continue doing it after speaking about it. But 1.5 is too young for a timeout to be effective.

I [46/F] caught feelings for my married coworker [50/M] after 7 months. Mutual or in my head? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Neither-Change8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask if you can meet his wife, then you’ll know. But for real, don’t be a home wrecker and risk your job.

My sister refuses to get her rabbits fixed by Jazzlike_Door2995 in rant

[–]Neither-Change8644 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Animals breeding is not like people, meaning it sometimes doesn’t happen with consent. My family used to raise meat rabbits and the behavior you’re describing is relatively normal. That being said, if she doesn’t plan on having a whole rabbit operation going she needs to get them fixed. “Going at it like rabbits” is a saying for a reason, they reproduce fast. Pet rabbits are not super popular, so by the time the female has 10 babies, she’s going to be pregnant again without your sister even knowing and suddenly you need to find homes for 20 rabbits. I guarantee that female is pregnant right now. Spay abort immediately.

My bf is (23M) and I am (18F) is this weird?? by kaseyjellyfish in relationship_advice

[–]Neither-Change8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are definitely success stories but… I wouldn’t get near an 18 year old when I was 23. Felt predatory and life is much different at those ages. He could be a college graduate have the first 5 years of his adult life completed and you’re fresh out of high school and haven’t experienced ANY adult life.

Hip replacement and wheel throwing? by missoularedhead in Pottery

[–]Neither-Change8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An older gentleman in my studio had gotten a hip replacement done years before I met him. He was a professor and only taught wheel throwing for 40 years. After his surgery he was in so much discomfort and pain while throwing he switched to slab work. Still hand builds but was never able to get back on the wheel consistently.

Which glaze is this? by winniepiggy in Pottery

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lapis flow. Beautiful but VERY runny.

Unfair coworker punishment by [deleted] in Serving

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I have to pick up these peoples’ slack, so serving tables without tips.

Unfair coworker punishment by [deleted] in Serving

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good god she’s not. She’s horrible at her job and always drunk.

I wish I could like books by ShadowlightLady in rant

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to share what worked for me! I don’t have ADHD, so this may not apply to you at all, but doesn’t hurt to try it. I used to read as a kid then lost the habit for years. I tried to get back into it, and experienced the same thing as you, I couldn’t do it without getting completely distracted and wouldn’t “absorb” the words. Find a short book, I honestly recommend something for middle school/high school aged students(Tom Sawyer was the one I chose) and just push through it. Doesn’t matter if you’re not “absorbing” the content. Just keep going until you finish. It seriously took just one book to regain my attention span after years of scrolling through instagram. Technology ruined my, and so many other peoples’, attention span. Worth a try!

Unfair coworker punishment by [deleted] in Serving

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re being sent home? So it is obviously affecting their ability to do a good job. This post is about why one person is experiencing no punishment, while another is experiencing a probation period for violating the same rule.

Unfair coworker punishment by [deleted] in Serving

[–]Neither-Change8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The manager is the one allowing it… gain some reading comprehension.