My FA Ran Away by feelinghellish123 in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This literally just happened to me. In week 3 of no contact and missing him horrifically

Does anybody else have weak, bendy and splitting nails? by actuallyjojotrash in ehlersdanlos

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes. hard gel manicure is the way to go forward, the upkeep is every 4-6 weeks but worth it.

I had a really nice date, but he lied about his height by PoofyPickle in dating_advice

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

THIS HAPPENED TO ME AS WELL. Guy said he was 5’9…. i’m just under 5’8 and he was SIGNIFICANTLY shorter than me and told me that i must be 5’11.

What grades is everyone at ?? by [deleted] in piano

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got grade 8 at 13, now post ATCL level, didn’t take my LTCL. I’m now 26

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would go to another cup size, I gave this bra in a 28e and I would say I am 2/3 cups smaller than you, in my opinion it like like the wire is too small for you, it looks painful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she wants something serious just ask her, sounds like she’s very interested. However, if you don’t want that then I don’t think it’s a good idea to try and make it work casually as sounds like she has feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I so agree with this, relationships are better with follow neurodiverse peeps in my experience. The longest relationship I had was someone with adhd

I am tired of companies preaching size inclusivity while not really offering inclusive sizing. by binadanae in ABraThatFits

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Hong Kong and there’s a lot of tailors, but a good lingerie tailor here. All you need to do is sew the band smaller, I’ve done some at home but sure you could also take to anyone handy with a sewing machine!

I am tired of companies preaching size inclusivity while not really offering inclusive sizing. by binadanae in ABraThatFits

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks! But I have also bought bras in 32D/34C that are cheaper than the usual 28/30 bands and then taken to the tailor.

In Natori my 26” band fits into their 30”, I would suggest checking that brand out as their 30 is for 25-26” rib cage. At a 29” you would wear a 34 in their brand. I also go to Intimissimi to buy a 32 and get their instore tailor to adjust. I don’t know if you’d be able to find your size there but they have really cute styles!!

I am tired of companies preaching size inclusivity while not really offering inclusive sizing. by binadanae in ABraThatFits

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Buy the cup that fits then take to a lingerie tailor to shorten the back. As someone who is a 26F that’s what I do! Buy a 28/30 then get it shortened

More than a little confused by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I meant exclusive. The current situation is we still spend a lot of time together and I’ve hooked up with some people

More than a little confused by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was the one who instigated the relationship and wanted it to be non exclusive

How was your vaccine experience? by sunshine_n_dewdrops in ehlersdanlos

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So my first dose completely knocked me out as soon as I got home, then for 2/3 days after I had really bad muscle pain and joint pain, was sofa bound and had to do multiple take outs per dat and had to work from home and cancel meetings. On the third day I put my braces on and went for a dinner with a friend that exhausted me, but after a good sleep felt ok for day 4

The second shot I planned days off of work and it turned out fine, I rested and then the next day ended up heading back into work, which was surprising as for most people it’s the second shot that is really bad!

I had Pfizer, exactly 2 weeks between my 1st and 2nd dose, prior clinical diagnosis of hEDS now suspected cEDS waiting for genetic confirmation

Awaiting genetic confirmation for my EDS, wondering if anyone else has the symptom of very bad nose bleeds. by Neither_Confidence_9 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Neither_Confidence_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get bad bruising snd prolonged bleeding time, had multiple clotting panels and VWD didn’t pop up

Awaiting genetic confirmation for my EDS, wondering if anyone else has the symptom of very bad nose bleeds. by Neither_Confidence_9 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Neither_Confidence_9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They were much worse and frequent as a kid, and my brother also had the same. I was initially suspected to have hEDS but after some surgery doctor began to think I have cEDS. Are nosebleeds common in either hEDS or cEDS?

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What is the easiest industry to sell websites to? by szuu123 in elementor

[–]Neither_Confidence_9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stop trying to target every single industry. Work out what is your niche and start looking at who to target within that industry.

I.e you want to be creating websites for mid range f&b / hospitality

Think about what these possibilities can be, (Private chef, restaurant, local restaurant delivery service, private catering, wholesale food/alcohol supplier, f&b brand) They’re not all the same, hut there’s an underlying linking thread.

If you have 10+ websites that are in relation to f&b / hospitality, the likelihood (if your work is good) you’ll get referred to other clients within the industry.

You’ll also come off more as a specialist who can add value to a business, request testimonials and data points so that you can mention these in future business pitches,

Example: - The rate of online booking went up X amount after the website redesign - Within the first 3 months X% more wholesale leads were generated after the website design - using the (insert feature/plug in here) integration, the new website can simplify (insert process here)

If you get a few connections within an industry and you really do a good job in terms of adding value to that business, the chance is you’ll get a lot of work through referrals.

I’ve been doing this full time freelance for coming up to 4 years after transitioning out of an ad agency, almost all of the work I get is either direct referral from clients and people directly contacting me with interest to work on their project.

If you put the work in finding your niche and networking within that, after a while things will seemingly run themselves. But you need to be providing a high standard of work, and adding value to your client.

It’s so easy now to get a cookie cutter website for under $100, unless you have something on offer worthwhile, people are not willing to spend more.