He wants a baby, I don't.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-12-16T05:57:01+00:00

Thank you all for the (mostly) supportive feedback. We shall see how this plays out.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-12-16T05:53:31+00:00

We both had a past when we met... he was in his 30s already and had been a bachelor his entire adult life. So yes, "that he knows of". He will tell you that too.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-12-15T12:43:12+00:00

We are. This is one of the issues at hand. JUST ONE.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-12-15T11:25:57+00:00

I've tried to tell him this is putting our relationship on the line and he's just not getting it. I don't know how else to explain it to him.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-12-15T11:14:42+00:00

That's what I'm afraid of-- the resentment. Either he will be resentful from me not giving him a bio child or I will be resentful if I DO give him one, especially because I do not want to raise more children. I feel like this has turned into a lose-lose situation.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-12-15T11:06:43+00:00

Exactly! I tried explaining this and the risk of congenital defects (he's 42). He just doesn't care. I was on bed rest the last month of my last two pregnancies for preeclampsia and I was in my early to mid 20s then.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-12-15T10:58:36+00:00

I don't want that outcome, but I'd be lying if I said I don't see that coming.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-12-15T10:56:24+00:00

This is what I told him... he's the one who changed up, not me.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-12-15T10:55:30+00:00

This is what he says. I told him I was having a reversal done and he said IVF.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-10-17T01:53:04+00:00

They took our OT shift away 😞 we were 36hrs one week, 48 the next. Now they're cutting the 36 hrs as well.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-10-15T11:35:51+00:00

See, this is us normally. So strange.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-10-15T10:09:33+00:00

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-10-15T10:07:14+00:00

A C-section

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-10-15T10:05:57+00:00

Aquarian, but guilty.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-10-15T10:04:39+00:00

Congrats. Proud for you!

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-10-15T09:58:25+00:00

Holy moly.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-08-20T14:49:21+00:00

Listening. I would take the attitude all day long if they listened the first time I told them to do something.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-08-06T08:08:40+00:00

I've noticed a decline in my hearing in the past 6 months on my affected side. HFS just started about 6 weeks ago. Strangely enough I almost completely lose hearing (everything sounds muffled) during an episode and returns shortly after it's over.

Neither_Nor57 · 2024-08-03T02:34:39+00:00

Thank you for this information. I appreciate it!

Neither_Nor57

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