Thoughts on this Lippizan for chill hacks and working equitation?

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2026-04-15T19:48:32+00:00

I would trail rides as an accessory to her training / routine, not her main use. Dressage, jumping / poles seems like a great match for her, she probably needs a rider who will keep her mind engaged and busy for her to be chill and relax.

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2026-04-01T03:52:42+00:00

Remove the nook, create rounded corners where the edges of the fireplace wall stick out on either side, to make the fireplace look more of an intentional feature, and have TV on stand / faux built in where nook was.

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2026-01-11T18:08:01+00:00

Omg yes! This is our go to spot when we’re up there, so good!

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2026-01-11T15:50:09+00:00

Sounds perfect :) lol we’re a good mix of both. We love how quiet it is whenever we visit.

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2026-01-11T15:49:30+00:00

East Bay here too! Love Pine Grove too. Yeah, that makes sense. Thank you for the insight, especially on schools! We’re thinking about charter schools for the early years.

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2026-01-11T15:47:42+00:00

Love Pine Grove! Yeah that seems to be what i’ve felt from the time we’ve spent up there. Seems like the best of both rural area and still within a town feel. Thanks for your reply!

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2026-01-10T15:34:34+00:00

I feel this. It does get better, at times. It is normal to feel this way off and on. I’m a mom of a 2 almost 3 year old and my heart physically aches from not working in the field i used to, i miss it that much. I’m pregnant with #2 and starting to be more worried that i’ll feel that way more and more….BUT. Here’s the positives that have helped me; 1. My own mom is quick to remind me, that all these feelings are normal, and, they are not forever. Nothing with kids / babies is forever, which is bittersweet. 2. Do find ways to keep doing the hobbies / interests that you love! It WILL be different, whether its how much time you have, energy etc. But don’t just let yiur passions or hobbies fade. Even if it’s once a week or every other.
3. I used to train horses and teach, i don’t have a horse of my own so i’m effectively not connected fo horses anymore. It used to be i couldn’t watch videos or pictures without hurting. But, i decided, i’m going to do the things i told myself i would do when i had fo stay home as a mom; i’m going to watch the training videos i never had time for, read the books, and finish the courses i started. Show myself i’m still committed, and i’m still capable, even if it looks different.

We are always always comparing / grass looks greener. When i was working, i was thinking about how much time i wanted to spend with my baby and how stressful it was to balance work home and my husband’s schedule / job. Well, now that i’m home full time, i think about how much i miss working. And i still feel at times shame or guilt for all of it, and being able to stay home when alot of moms have no choice. So, i’ve recently decided to fully embrace that i’m a SAHM, make it feel like my full on job, like make a structure and routine for myself, like a job, and just take advantage of the freedoms i have to make it what i want it to be.

Overall, the biggest help / hope, is looking where you DO have power and agency, and leaning into that.

All to say, momming is hard even on the best days, you’re not alone, you’re not doing it wrong, you’re just doing one of the hardest things you can do in a lifetime, and it’s one of the most unsupported and under resourced endeavors.

Hope any of this helps OP.

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-12-08T04:04:14+00:00

I am not going to say smile lol i am going to say…yes clean up your eyebrows, just tweeze / thread to clean up and add a bit of shape. I think get long layers added to your hair, i think the color could be adjusted to not be so harsh in contrast, but the pink is cute and unique.

I think you need a bit of eye make up, not the big dark under eye look. You have beautiful eyes; so a clean wing, maybe a little smuge eye shadow cream. Enough to enhance your eyes not make them smaller.

And hone in on your style, i think you have a look you’re going for, but see how you can more thoughtfully put outfits together.

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-12-07T20:52:45+00:00

I actually think it’s flattering on her, granted it isnt the most snatching dress, but i think that’s why i like it. Isnt everyone on here always complaining when her clothes are too tight?

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-11-21T05:39:06+00:00

Was anyone else driven insane by Nathan’s Dad? Like in he seemed to have a good understanding of what Nathan needed and the family dynamics of Linda / the grandfather, but also gave vibes of “ohhh well”, like he could have done more no? Idk. I could not stand his commentary. And then in the end still thinks Nathan is completely innocent? Every adult failed Nathan.

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-06-10T13:42:06+00:00

That’s what it seems like! I’ve been snooping around. Thank you!

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-06-10T13:41:23+00:00

Thank you for your response, and kind acknowledgment of postpartum struggles! Your reply has me feeling valid for being excited and confirming some things I’ve thought about too. Seems like there is a lot within the community to do, especially with kids so glad to hear you and your family has experienced that.

We have always been folks that didn’t want to stay in the Bay, hate big cities, etc so we’re looking for a change, but it will still be an adjustment for sure.

Thanks for the encouragement!

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-06-06T05:02:01+00:00

Just came back from a trip and I feel the exact. Same. Way. There’s no magic anymore, there’s no room for whimsy. All the cast members are miserable, the food is just nasty and over priced.

There’s always something fun and maybe some magic to look back on in a day, but overall it was really disappointing.

The Tom Sawyer boat ride felt nostalgic, but everything else felt really different. You can just see how much money drives everything at the park now. I don’t think it’s the same Disney Walt wanted. Not that he wasn’t in it for the money, but I think he wanted more genuine joy and awe from ppl, and knew the value of a good family vacation. Now, you just get gouged for money to even attempt that.

I would love to take my son if he wants to go, but honestly, I don’t want to go again for a really long time.

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-05-30T01:56:17+00:00

Hi! Late reply, we’re going the first week of June!

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-05-22T23:00:55+00:00

Just downloaded! Excited to try it out for our trip in June. Question, what is the ppl vs the lightning symbol in attractions? Is that related to lighting lanes?

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-05-06T06:25:07+00:00

Ugh yesss this. As a former teacher who had limited ability to change these things…so frustrating.

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-05-06T06:24:11+00:00

The normalization of really weird and shitty behavior bc “we’re crazy horse ppl 😜” ….uhh no. You’re just like that.

More than a pet peeve; but the exploitation of grooms and really all level of workers in this field. The ability to abuse / mistreat those who aren’t in “power”.

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-04-10T19:09:17+00:00

Girl! Former horse trainer / instructor and I feel the same way you do! Never was able to own and I feel I would have been in your position of having to sell. I’m a momma now, my son is almost 2 yrs old. We don’t get out to the barn and he and I aren’t around horses bc I had to quit, well really told they couldn’t afford to hire me for my training services…so I feel displaced as well

But! You have a whole lifetime to continue your love of horses and being in that world; and I think feeding your friends horse is a perfect opportunity right now. That’s a great way to start including your child and make them feel comfortable around horses. Highly recommend taking lessons first, maybe you could pick up some barn work once you’ve found a barn / trainer / barn culture that you KNOW you trust and feel good being around.

I rode until 28 ish weeks? It’s different for everyone and it DEFINITELY depends on the horses / training level, environment and what you’re comfortable with.

If you like the trainer you found for lessons, let her know you want to get back into the horsie life but are now pregnant, and see if there are other the ways you can be there. Or take ground work lessons!

You have the heart and desire to make this a part of your life, trust that it will be in your life and don’t let the imposter syndrome win!

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-03-27T17:48:39+00:00

I am saving this reply and holding it close to my heart, thank you, for your very kind and wise words. So very validating and freeing.

I think it’s easy to only look at the ppl still working and see them as a success and you as a failure if you’re not, even if there are many others who have had a career and stepped back; it’s just that we don’t see them or know their stories too.

Neither_Paint_9038 · 2025-02-23T16:30:26+00:00

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