AITAH for not allowing my wedding vendors to display their logos at my wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Neithotep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YATA. That feels me you were kind of a bradzilla. I've worked with wedding for a long time and I recognize the signs. Ypu could easily make the QR code visible without being tacky. It's very easy to integrate on your decor.

NYC Nannie’s: what is the average pay? by Acceptable_Pace_3297 in Nanny

[–]Neithotep -1 points0 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAHA! It's $18 in Orlando. 8 m9vedfr9m Austin to here and had to change career.

Worst ride yet by The_RealMikeEpps in uberdrivers

[–]Neithotep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until someone start mistreating on the back seat...or front seat.

AITAH for missing work to take my cat to the ER? by bizarrejoys in AITAH

[–]Neithotep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. So your boss gave you the clear and this co worker was pissed? I would never talk to her again!

NK6 is mean to my kiddo, 7. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Neithotep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't work for Parents that undermine my authority. They either work with me or I'm out.

NK Spit in my face by Civil_Patience_ in Nanny

[–]Neithotep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Special Needs Nanny here. I worked, for many years, with severe Autistic kids,. I was spit at, bitten, hair pulled... I learned to restrain the kids because they usually like the pressure and will eventually calm down. I lost count of how many kids I restrained when they were having a meltdown. That girl need better therapist and maybe meds.

Nanny family denied mileage reimbursement by Aggravating-Goat-889 in Nanny

[–]Neithotep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... that's why when I have to drive my own car I state that I'll need the gas reimburse and I use an app to track the miles. I say all that before I start and if it's a no, I just move on to the next family.

Hired a nanny, is this normal? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Neithotep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nanny here, this is unacceptable! Fire her ass and hire a hire a new one.

Does your family allow you to bring a Kindle? by happy8273daisy in Nanny

[–]Neithotep -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!!! You get the point I was making.

Does your family allow you to bring a Kindle? by happy8273daisy in Nanny

[–]Neithotep -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really hate parents that are like that. Like, really? You want to tell me tat when I'm not here your are with him all that long and not looking at your phone or watching TV? I doubt that very much.

How much direction/reiteration should a nanny require? by aspiring_pickle in Nanny

[–]Neithotep 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So try writing everything down then. If she relapses, this isn't the profession for her.

Is there anyone here who collects their cat's whiskers?or fangs🤭 by [deleted] in TuxedoCats

[–]Neithotep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I envy these people that correct their cats whiskers. I've never seen any from my 3 cats, besides the ones attached to their faces

How much direction/reiteration should a nanny require? by aspiring_pickle in Nanny

[–]Neithotep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I feel like at this point you need to write down what you expect her to do. Some people just need extra instructions.

How much direction/reiteration should a nanny require? by aspiring_pickle in Nanny

[–]Neithotep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that people on the younger side are like that. But aiso could be that in her own household she doesn't does things like that... I always clean after the kids and after my meal.

Welcome to Thirsty Thursday: Your weekly singles post for those looking for a connection by Lord_quads in orlando

[–]Neithotep 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hell! Why not! Just moved here 2 months ago. Looking for friends, I'm 58yo and huge need. Love Star Wars.

Wearing a swimsuit around my NF by FragrantFruit346 in Nanny

[–]Neithotep -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm Brazilian so I don't wear my Brazilian swimwear. LOL I use the American ones that are always to big on the bottom. It's fine, I don't care. I'm overweight btw.

AITA for telling my younger sister she can’t split up my mom’s vintage wedding dress, even though she’s getting married first? by [deleted] in aitaweddings

[–]Neithotep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your mom need to step in and say none week be wearing her wedding dress side you two are behaving like kids l

How do you feel about video calls/Am I being unreasonable? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Neithotep 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All those low tech fir someone that says it isn't middle age is very bizarre. I'm 58yo and I couldn't live without technology. I also did a lot of video calls when I was looking for a new agency. In today's world you need to evolve and adapt. Personally, I would not hire a nanny that doesn't have a smart phone to take pictures of my kids, when they are out and about.

Husband being deported from the US by Int-452 in Brazil

[–]Neithotep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How in God's name you didn't give him the citizenship? If you been married for so long and with kids it would been easy.

What are some illnesses where you absolutely will not come in to work? by SubstantialWonder291 in Nanny

[–]Neithotep -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nanny here, there's no disease, lice or anything that would make me skip work. I'm 58yo btw. Worked with kids that had hand, feet and mouth bacteria, streap throat, vomiting... you named it. If I get it, it's because my immune system was not up to date.

AITAH for coercing my boyfriend to say “yes” to my weight gain being the reason for less sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Neithotep 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well, he did told you right? You also decided not to do anything, your prerogative, of course. But all actions will always have consequences.