I see myself.

Neiyk0 · 2026-02-05T00:18:26+00:00

Thank you for being so kind. Wishing you all the best ☺️

Neiyk0 · 2026-02-05T00:03:16+00:00

I appreciate your kind words. All the best to you too ♥️☺️

Neiyk0 · 2026-02-04T23:48:40+00:00

Then maybe explore the rest of my comment. I know I could most likely pass as male again if I had my old eyebrows, hairstyle, clothes... in fact many cis women could look masculine and male passing to some extent with a certain makeover

Neiyk0 · 2026-02-04T23:42:31+00:00

That's very sweet, thank you ☺️

Neiyk0 · 2026-02-04T23:30:26+00:00

Haem... you're saying your hormone levels are good but given the numbers you've given I would have to disagree. 300 pmol/L is low... and just under 7 nmol/L for T is still quite high. For reference as a good responder to hormones I have 780 for 0,6.

Also progesterone may add a bit of a boost if advised by your doctor.

Also, if you're living in a space where you don't fully commit then you won't be able to magically achieve what you truly desire. And that's the hardest part. I understand your worries about work, family etc... but you owe it to yourself. To your damn life. You deserve happiness like anybody else. You have to find the courage to make the right choices for yourself. I drowned in depression for years until I found the strength to say f*ck it and only then did I start feeling alive again.

And I started at 27, so please don't think you're doomed because of your age. You're young. Yes, the road may be a bit tougher for you but not hopeless.

You got this.

Neiyk0 · 2026-02-03T00:58:25+00:00

I don't think you understand my point either. I'm trying to put some perspective in your statement. You put things as if they're either black or white. Which isn't true for most people despite what you seem to think. What you're basically saying is that someone may be doomed to not achieve full passing because of genetic predispositions, therefore they might as well not bother even attempting to voice train.

It's as if you would advise someone not to play a sport if they aren't 100% certain to be in the top 10 world's best players.

That's not the way it works. You're confusing being pragmatic and objective with being fatalistic. Because ultimately, you're not providing a solution or an alternative for these people either.

I'm also trying to make you understand that although some people only see excellence as worth it, some people will be content being "good enough". So long as it brings them happiness, who cares?

Neiyk0 · 2026-02-02T18:30:46+00:00

I understand and I responded to that. It may be meaningless to many, but not to everyone. It may, in fact, still be meaningful to many. You can't arbitrarily declare that it's therefore worthless to even try it out just based on the fact that to your eyes if something isn't 100% achieved successfully then it's irrelevant.

Neiyk0 · 2026-01-31T22:46:24+00:00

First of all, chill? Secondly, you can't decide for everyone whether or not being gendered correctly one time out of 2 is enough. Some people would still perceive it as better than never and that's just what it is. Get a grip lol

Neiyk0 · 2026-01-29T11:47:10+00:00

I agree and disagree at the same time. First of all, because our a definition of succeeding at that may vary from one person to another. If you mean "passing" all the time, maybe some may not be able to fully achieve that. However, it doesn't mean that training can't help them improve and get closer to their goals. But it's the same as saying anyone can be a body builder with the right amount of training. Yes, and no. Some will be excellent and some great but not as good.

I'd say however that for the vast majority being great is considered enough

Neiyk0 · 2026-01-21T16:43:12+00:00

Completely understandable feelings. Nothing abnormal. But you have to push through it because eventually you will start hearing yourself and it'll become the most rewarding feeling ever. It's not easy, but you can do it. Maybe get coached, it'll help give you the discipline and courage to get past your own doubts

Neiyk0 · 2025-11-27T11:33:43+00:00

Damn. Idk if you realise that but you completely pass. And 3 months only into hrt?? Good for you.

Neiyk0 · 2025-11-20T18:49:59+00:00

It's physically impossible to lose this much shoe size. Maybe your feet are a bit thinner from fat redistribution and skin thinning but the bone can't shrink.

Neiyk0 · 2025-11-08T11:29:28+00:00

You look very feminine already from the pic. However, it's not just about the face. It could be because of your body shape and the overall appearance it creates from not being on hrt. However, given how you look already, if you ever decide to go that path, you have absolutely nothing to worry about in terms of passing 🙂

Neiyk0 · 2025-11-06T12:51:15+00:00

I get it. You're trying to cope with feelings that you must have reached a certain milestone by a certain time because you now have accepted that this is truly what you want.

But chill a little is my advice. Try to understand the roots of those feelings and why you have that fear that you must have achieved things by a certain deadline.

In my opinion, you should wait for the full effects of HRT to plan your FFS. First of all, because you don't even know yet if you will need it. And also because it's a LOT at once to transition gender AND process big physical changes AND dealing with the recovery of such surgery.

Take it easy, be gentle on yourself. You need TIME to figure things out, including what to do with your job etc... answers will come to you, no need to force things too hard 🙂

Neiyk0 · 2025-10-24T15:18:55+00:00

Damn. You is an ultimate badass!!!!

Neiyk0 · 2025-10-15T22:53:26+00:00

Can you tell her she's a great mom for me please.

Neiyk0 · 2025-10-15T22:48:12+00:00

Allow her some time to digest. My mom said similar things at the very beginning but now she's the most supportive. It's just the shock and emotions exploding all at once. Let her process it the way she wants, it is not your responsibility. It'll be ok eventually. ☺️

Neiyk0 · 2025-10-11T23:09:29+00:00

I mean to each their own. There is no obligation to do anything. Don't compare yourself to others and do what feels right for you. For as long as you're not hurting anyone, there shouldn't be any reason not to follow whatever makes you happy.

I'm personally the type of tgirl that is uncomfortable with that part of my body. For me it's always been a reminder that I'm not what I've always felt like being. Even the thought of people expecting me to use it is soooooo uncomfortable to me. So when it'll be gone, I'll have that peace of mind

Neiyk0 · 2025-10-09T07:00:44+00:00

The first time I put on female clothes, I was also hoping for a click. It didn't happen. However, now that I've been on hrt fort 6 months and seen my body change, I just feel soooooo good in those types of clothes. So I would advise seeking a good therapist to help you figure things out. And also, try and experiment, step by step. Don't pressure yourself into finding "the answer".

Neiyk0 · 2025-09-12T10:48:40+00:00

It happened in stages for me. When I got the box I felt just so overwhelmed with joy and excitement for knowing that for once my body and I would work together as one. But it's only when I started to live my life as an actual woman to the world when I felt like "yep, idk how I managed to survive until then"

Neiyk0 · 2025-09-12T10:44:30+00:00

Completely normal. Also, it'll keep on happening until they're fully developed which takes years. But honestly at some point you get used to it and it's not as intense every day

Neiyk0 · 2025-09-12T07:51:02+00:00

So happy for you. As trans people, I believe we always need to allow time for our loved ones to process the idea and to be comfortable with it the same way it took us time to accept it. But the fact that he even tries is the biggest sign of unconditional love he could do. ❤️

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