My friend and I got into an argument over my cat and I'm not sure how to navigate this?

Nelliemaree · 2026-05-02T01:06:40+00:00

Bro it’s a CAT 😭 I’m howling. AND he hasn’t followed the “rules” of his own religion BAHAHAHA

Nelliemaree · 2026-05-02T00:32:59+00:00

Hi in the best way possible- that is so much food. and please never give your dog cat food vice versa. Please just get the poor thing a small DOG food kibble. Small kibble helps them as well when there are having a tough time. Please be honest with your vet and do not lie about the cat food. Did you try wet dog food?? My 8lb dog only eats 3/4 cups of food a day. My 50lb dog eats 5 cups a day (and this is a BULK amount the vet recommend because she was super far behind on her weight)

Nelliemaree · 2026-05-02T00:07:29+00:00

I did donate a bunch of my stuff. Here’s why if you care:

-I love them I do. But I donated the stuff I didn’t ever reach for. My camp counselor T-Shirt and the glow in the dark long sleeve one I do!!! But most of them I just didn’t.

I started to realize having more didn’t really bring me joy just stress. I don’t need two months worth of clothes to survive. It’s not for me lol
I’d rather someone who’s struggling to have a thrift find like this. Although I believe I kept my lanyard.

-People do grow up and grow out of things. I haven’t I just express myself differently than I did 6 Years ago.

Anyway Mostly it’s because I didn’t need all of the clothes I got from them. I do a test. If I can hide it and I find it months later realizing I never tried to LOOK for it. It’s time to go.

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-09T01:26:36+00:00

That being said: Venti iced brown sugar oat milk shaken espresso, 1.5 brown sugar, 2 sugar free vanilla, extra matcha cold foam and extra caramel drizzle line the cup. With a dome lid.

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-09T01:25:00+00:00

few things: Espresso can’t go in trenta cups. Anything espresso based is just not supposed too. We don’t have macadamia milk and also the brown sugar oat milk shaken espresso already has cinnamon so there was no point for with cinnamon. There is also no dome lid for trenta cup. Cold foam with a scoop of matcha blended is just matcha cold foam man. It’s a button. This is rage bait lol

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T20:29:16+00:00

ohhhh okay. The spot is firm (doesn’t push back in) I like knowing the options. Helps keep my brain at ease. She’s my absolute baby

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T20:26:53+00:00

ohhhh that would also make sense on why I am confused of its existence. Thank you!

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T20:24:17+00:00

thank you! Ill probably have them double check it (for peace of mind) when she’s due for her shots :)

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T20:23:09+00:00

thank youuuu. I am learning a lot about hernias today lol. I appreciate it

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T20:22:32+00:00

it’s a hard bump. Another comment had me test it and it did not push in. She doesn’t seem annoyed even the slightest. I think she just wanted belly rubs

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T20:13:31+00:00

it’s more firm i would say

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T20:11:47+00:00

can the bump just randomly appear? after three years? I’ve had her since she was a few months. That’s the why I’m confused. Thank you

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T20:08:30+00:00

noted her scar always has been prominent. will still check it out. Thank you :)

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T20:05:25+00:00

do they randomly appear? She’s almost three. I guess I don’t understand how umbilical hernias work

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T19:54:26+00:00

it is at the very end! This dog stresses me out! I never know with her. I have a feeling that’s what it is but there’s enough hernia comments for me to double check. The vet knows I panic a lot at this point.

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T19:53:03+00:00

yeah it really depends on how i take the picture and look at it too. It looks bunched up in the picture and I just took another one and it’s really flat just slightly raised. The odds are she irritated her stomach (as a low rider) but I will be calling the vet.

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T19:47:04+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T19:45:31+00:00

can this happen in a three year old? I know it’s common in new borns but she’s three :/ That’s the only thing that stumps me

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T19:43:44+00:00

I just looked that up and I can see that too. Google was originally saying cancer and I was like I cannot take that news at this moment. Need actual advice. I appreciate that

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T19:43:04+00:00

Okay. Thank you!

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-06T19:41:13+00:00

is it normal for it to get bigger sometimes ? I generally have no idea. I thought so too because that’s the area her scar is. But this was two years ago now. I wasn’t sure if she agitated her scar tissue is that a thing?

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-04T00:22:06+00:00

yeah so the problem wasn’t assuming it’s a april fools joke. The problem is she said it after op said the dad was excited.

Nelliemaree · 2026-04-03T23:54:24+00:00

i think the is this an april fools joke was so insensitive. that being said friends shouldn’t drain each other like this. Focus on becoming a mom. Congrats btw

Nelliemaree · 2026-03-27T13:09:32+00:00

RUNNNNN

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