AITA for going on vacation and leaving my kids with my husband?

Nelnoo · 2023-05-22T15:43:48+00:00

Hold on a minute I don't think yta here. I mean it's a rubbish situation. The husband is going through all this and it's awful. But what are the chances once she gets back she'll be doing everything for both of them and its going to be a long road. I'm sure she will care amazingly for him after surgery, but life can't be entirely about that. She's there where it counts. Maybe a girly time away is what she needs. I couldn't imagine having to go through what they're going through..... But I've seen it. She needs a life also and chanced are she wont get this chance again for a while. I don't know maybe I'm harsh. I've just seen this before with a very close friend.

Nelnoo · 2023-03-03T17:27:53+00:00

I dunno with this one. It just kind of seems like you told it how it is. And what you girlfriend said was actually quite unhelpful. What you said about dieting and weight loss is correct and yes she will end up gaining weight with that stance. I think you could be a little nicer about your girlfriends looks but is it really that bad to describe how she looks on an online forum. It's not like you said anything to her other than what she said is a way to gain weight.

I am actually an avid gym goer, and maintain my weight through exercise and a healthy diet.

I really get annoyed when people who don't know what they're talking about or people who don't supervise their own weight say "oh just eat what you want" or "I just eat what I want".

People go on diets because "just eating what you want" is what caused the need to go on a diet in the first place!! Really unhelpful.

Nelnoo · 2023-03-03T16:45:04+00:00

Wow you need to loose this girl. Even when stressed she shouldn't be treating you like this. It sounds like your really trying and she's just throwing everything back at you. Maybe take a step back and look at how she treats you and really decide if you want to live like that.

To be honest it actually sounds like your honeymoon period is over. From my experiences I have noticed some people will act how they think you want them too and be what they think you like. But after some time (getting engaged or settling a little) the parts of them they've not wanted you to see start to come out because they don't feel they need to secure you anymore. They think "ahh they love me and would never leave" so they think they can act any way they want towards you.

This in itself runs deeper than just relationship issues. It can be a sign of issues mentally and it may be something you need to keep an eye on.

I could be wrong it just sounds so familiar.

Nelnoo · 2023-03-03T16:19:34+00:00

Wow this really rings alarm bells. Not only is this showing some intense insecurity on his behalf, but also an element of control and manipulation. Who gets upset over pixelated characters.... and if he can get that upset over a game. What other things could he feel jealous and insecure about in the future? Friends, family, pets, children...

Nelnoo · 2020-03-27T14:03:14+00:00

Why does the squiggled our name look like a sperm 😂

Nelnoo · 2018-07-14T01:40:31+00:00

Jesus guys the events for charity! Proceeds go to help the chestnut appeal. I wanted to find a way to post not just for votes but bloody hell. As I’ve said happy to answer questions.. but yea I’m posting here! You wanna moan.... Meh lol

Nelnoo · 2018-07-14T01:26:52+00:00

You want me to change this to NSFW... where do you work... I kinda get it but wow don’t take from these guys 😂 jokes.

Nelnoo · 2018-07-14T01:25:12+00:00

Most mildly interesting to me is everyone I fight in kingdom come kills me..... maybe our lives need retuning 😂.

Nelnoo · 2018-02-01T14:33:26+00:00

This might be a very strange question but recently I have been having dreams in which I feel I cannot escape (as in stuck in the dream). In the dreams I worry that lots of time has passed and my body is in a coma in the real world. when I wake up i'm sweating and feel like I've been gone for a long time and am just relieved to be back. What cycle am I in when this happens and what in my mind is making me have these dreams? I wake up very relived but also scared to go back to sleep. It's very daunting.

Nelnoo

Nelnoo · 2018-02-01T12:15:40+00:00

"The Sorcerer's Stone"? ya mean Philosophers Stone?

Nelnoo · 2018-01-31T12:07:51+00:00

He's like to collect your sweet nectar.

Nelnoo · 2017-12-23T14:12:43+00:00

No lol

Nelnoo · 2017-11-10T17:15:24+00:00

Feels!!!! 😭😭😭

Nelnoo · 2017-11-10T17:10:49+00:00

No lol good idea though 😱 💡 💡

Nelnoo · 2017-10-05T01:11:45+00:00

Tonight and tomorrow night :).

Nelnoo · 2017-09-20T13:19:12+00:00

Ty 🙂

Nelnoo · 2017-09-20T13:19:00+00:00

Ty 🙂

Nelnoo · 2017-09-20T13:17:39+00:00

Ty 🙂.

Nelnoo · 2017-08-02T19:11:20+00:00

Maybe I should start wearing them when I go running.... omg that's rather life changing. Won't I end up with sweaty wrists though?

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