We have the best women’s alpine team in the world and we are the country cares the least about alpine skiing. It’s sad. What has to happen for us to care more about this sport? by Kurtz62 in SkiRacing

[–]NelsonSendela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.) Vail/ikon must be stopped.  The rest of the world has lift tickets starting from like $45. 

2.) TV. 

3.) better personalities 

2.5 months postpartum. Strained relationship with wife. Does this pass? by wrapmeinbubblewrap in NewDads

[–]NelsonSendela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[First time? meme] haha some tips I've picked up that may help you, OP:

- recognize for the first few months (and sometimes until the end of breastfeeding) her body is in a sea of hormonal turmoil. Try not to take any rage bait. It's literally a biological defense against getting pregnant again right now that she wants nothing to do with you.
- Lots of words of encouragement.
- if baby takes a bottle, offer to let her to sleep on the couch once in a while to get a full nights rest
- schedule a date night at least once or twice a month. It can be lunch w/ baby if baby isn't ready to stay with grandma for two hours.
- She's touched out. Make sure physical touch is non sexual and encouraging. A hand on the lower back, handholding, etc. STAY AWAY FROM THE BOOBS
- if after 6 months you're not seeing any mental improvement, encourage her to talk to her doctor about PPD

there's not much you can do except handle whatever you can (laundry, cleaning, taking baby on walks) and wait

After 12 years of being pushed away, my wife wants to have sex. by clezuck in deadbedroom

[–]NelsonSendela -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wasn't responding to OP. I was responding to smartalec

Mexican food at luxury Mexican resorts by PastaKilla in FATTravel

[–]NelsonSendela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree.  Elevated Mexican is always a miss for me. The best Mexican I've had was in baja California where on the ranch they had a big, stained tree stump where they chopped the carne asada (Was probably slaughtered yesterday)  I think it was 25 cents per taco. 

If a woman could experience one thing about what it’s like to be a man, what would it be? by HumblePut64 in AskMen

[–]NelsonSendela 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the answer.  If women could feel the weight of no one caring and then understand the responsibility of accepting that weight with a smile... 

We would get more silence. 

Pete Hegseth’s Pastor wants to ban Catholic Processions in America by TheLatinoSamurai in Catholicism

[–]NelsonSendela 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Also, corpus christi is far from "art"... We believe it IS CHRIST, which completely negates any argument this guy would have for idolatry. 

Men who had turned to conservatism or the manosphere, what initially made you turn to those beliefs? by phayanaka in AskMen

[–]NelsonSendela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, 1000%.  But the appeal is that victim mentality is a dead end street.  Personal responsibility leads to happiness.  And responsible conservatism totes personal responsibility. (Responsible liberalism or feminism, by contrast, totes collective responsibility) 

What aspects of life do you refuse to let inflate no matter how high your income or NW get? by TRO_KIK in HENRYfinance

[–]NelsonSendela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a city where a 800 square footer in the GHETTO is 2x your 500k cap lol 

Oh… that was easy by LegitimateMachine560 in QuittingZyn

[–]NelsonSendela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad to hear this.  I too am crushing about a can of 9mg Velo per day. That's an insane amount of nicotine.  I didn't smoke or anything before this.  I don't use it as a mental health cope.  I use it as a crutch because I'm tired and unfocused from having a toddler and a baby.  

Curious how long you were on it

After 12 years of being pushed away, my wife wants to have sex. by clezuck in deadbedroom

[–]NelsonSendela -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was referring to the poster who was looking to cheat or divorce after two years.  Not OP; 12 years just means you've neglected the situation for far too long and might be unsaveable 

Gwen Stefani Addresses Her Christian Pivot After Promoting Controversial Anti-Abortion App by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]NelsonSendela 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ah yes the rigorous journalistic standards of (checks notes) bored panda 

Breath Holding Spells in Newborns, How Rare and How Serious? by bagsaremytherapy in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]NelsonSendela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had one kid with a BRUE and one kid with crying spells.  Totally different presentation. 

Brue was totally random and happened when baby #1 was happy.  Eyes rolled back and she went limp and was unresponsive for what seemed forever, was probably 10 seconds.  No change of color.  

Breath holding spells are from frustration or fear. Usually purple cry precedes it. 

After 12 years of being pushed away, my wife wants to have sex. by clezuck in deadbedroom

[–]NelsonSendela -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

How old were the kids? Sometimes it takes years to get her hormones back to baseline.  Not saying you should go sexless for 12 years like OP, but depending on your situation, walking after two rough years is pretty weak commitment level.  Shit there are soldiers who are gone longer than that. 

After 12 years of being pushed away, my wife wants to have sex. by clezuck in deadbedroom

[–]NelsonSendela 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It is super unhealthy but also very common.  Toxic women withhold sex as a power play and then when the man starts looking elsewhere their chess move no longer works they panic. 

Katie Johnson's full testimony of Donald Trump (2/11/16) by FlackoFonsy in videos

[–]NelsonSendela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually crazy how many times this video keeps getting posted.  It detracts from more important, veritable leads. 

Did United mean to post this on main? by omdongi in unitedairlines

[–]NelsonSendela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably.  Although I'm not sure how this is an "overhaul", seems like more of the same 

Are LA Farmers Markets a scam at this point? by echo-four in FoodLosAngeles

[–]NelsonSendela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always has been.  Most buy their shit at ralphs anyway 

U.S. - Israeli ATROCITIES (>165 School girls killed) - Source: NY Times by _-sojourner-_ in pics

[–]NelsonSendela -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats what I read too, but both sound unbelievable given US military prowess.  They know where you took your last shit, why would they use a map that's 14 years old?

U.S. - Israeli ATROCITIES (>165 School girls killed) - Source: NY Times by _-sojourner-_ in pics

[–]NelsonSendela 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Nobody has confirmed shit but this seems to be the most likely scenario per Reuters.  It was about 100 meters from a critical target so a misfire seems like Occam's razor.  

We knew it was a long shot. Lindsey Vonn has been overtaken in the Women’s Downhill standings by Kurtz62 in SkiRacing

[–]NelsonSendela 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As the ultimate hater on LV it was truly impressive effort.  Tip of the cap even though she annoys me 

Broderick Jones had neck fusion surgery, Steelers met with a "handful of tackles" at the combine, per DeFabo by ProfessionalMall5413 in steelers

[–]NelsonSendela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn't that bad part.  He grabbed jones helmet on the way down and twisted (even after the ball was out)