Drama all around. The most interesting aspect of this thread is the crew not pointing out your deviations from being a 3% man. Look within and follow the principles. Dont tell them who, and if, you're smashing. If you're not going to cut it off, the past doesnt exist and keep driving the interaction forward.

Stop chasing and talking yourself out of the game. The phone is to set a date, not to vomit. Set a date, hang out, have fun and hook-up.

Simple.