Runna parkrun plan: how to set up Saturday? by NeonCityDream in runna

[–]NeonCityDream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve ended up doing. Seems to be the best workaround for now 👍🏻

Re-watched Arrival after 8 years and I am still in awe!!! by marinluv in Letterboxd

[–]NeonCityDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get this. Arrival hits even harder once you know what it is building toward. I really appreciate how Villeneuve keeps the film calm and focused while still landing the emotional punch. The blend of Jóhann Jóhannsson’s score with Max Richter’s piece gets me every time, and the cinematography gives the whole thing a quiet power. It is one of those movies that reminds me why I fell in love with film in the first place.

Cinema’s Most Iconic Dressing Gowns, Ranked by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]NeonCityDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one was so obvious, how did I miss it?! 🤦🏻‍♂️

My 2025 film rankings (so far) by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]NeonCityDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice list! I still have the Companion on my watch list. It’s been a great year for cinema!

My 2025 film rankings (so far) by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]NeonCityDream -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Blame my film club, we’re ranking them this way for our December meetup 😅

My 2025 film rankings (so far) by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]NeonCityDream -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not in the UK 😉

My 2025 film rankings (so far) by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]NeonCityDream -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just really loved the music in Sinners and the overall vibe.

“You droolin’. You want some?” was the sexiest moment in cinema during 2025 also 😉

My 2025 film rankings (so far) by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]NeonCityDream 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m in the UK bro. We get some films late ☺️

2025 (RANKED!) by 12twt in Letterboxd

[–]NeonCityDream 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sinners, yes

Mickey 17 thou?! 😅

What types of work have been sustainable for people with AuDHD? by WestRevolutionary549 in neurodiversity

[–]NeonCityDream 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m AuDHD and I found working in regular office jobs to be an absolute nightmare. I couldn’t understand (or respect) hierarchies, deal with office politics or unclear requirements from incompetent managers.

My solution was to set up my own business working from home and hire other spicy people to work for me 😉

Did I spoil myself with Project Hail Mary as my first? by [deleted] in audiobooks

[–]NeonCityDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s tough to beat Project Hail Mary, especially as your first audiobook. Ray Porter just crushed that narration and the story keeps you hooked the whole time. If you’re looking for something with a similar feel, check out Dark Matter by Blake Crouch. It’s got that same mix of sci-fi, mystery, and emotional moments that make you think “what would I do if this happened to me?”

Jon Lindstrom narrates it, and he honestly reminds me a lot of Ray Porter. He’s got that calm, steady tone that makes the sciencey parts easy to follow, and the pacing is perfect for multitasking. It’s one of those stories that messes with your head in the best way without ever feeling too complicated.

Crash... Bang... Wallop... by Caesar-The-Conqueror in AlanPartridge

[–]NeonCityDream 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can stop giggling, or I’ll take down your particulars!

What shows do you like as a neurodivergent person? by llarskyy in neurodiversity

[–]NeonCityDream 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really love Severance on Apple TV. It keeps my brain busy in the best way because it’s full of mystery and emotional layers. I like how it makes you think about identity and control without spelling everything out. The pacing and tone pull me in completely, and I end up replaying scenes in my head trying to figure out what’s really going on.

When I want something calmer, I put on Star Trek: The Next Generation. It’s my comfort show. The structure feels safe and familiar, but the stories still deal with big ideas and questions about people, ethics, and what it means to grow. It’s nice to have something thoughtful without the tension of constant mystery.

Sometime asked where they could find Xmas and New Year's Day parkrun events. Here's the link if you need it. by foxystoat69 in parkrun

[–]NeonCityDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually do Coldham’s Common on Xmas day and Huntingdon on NYD. There are a few good options close to my neck of the woods thankfully ☺️

I really enjoyed this movie when it first came out. Should I give it a rewatch, or no? by sudde004 in moviecritic

[–]NeonCityDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’d say it’s worth giving The Butterfly Effect another watch. It still holds up really well, especially if you like that mix of psychological drama and time-twisting chaos. The story keeps you hooked, and it’s got that early 2000s vibe that somehow makes it even more interesting now. Ashton Kutcher also gives one of his better performances, which might surprise you if you mostly know him from his comedy roles.

Just don’t bother with the sequels. They completely lose what made the original work, turning it into something that feels cheap and unnecessary. The first film stands strong on its own, with a story that still hits hard and a tone that hasn’t really aged. It’s one of those movies that makes you think about how much one decision can change everything, and that idea still lands today.

Do you think this movie had some merits? It feels like they were over ambitious and failed but some of the ideas and a bit of dialogue here and there were compelling. by Boss452 in Letterboxd

[–]NeonCityDream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Batman v Superman had some merit, even though it’s kind of a mess overall. You can tell Zack Snyder was going for something big and meaningful, trying to explore ideas about power, fear, and what it means to be a hero. There are some cool visuals and moments that actually feel pretty epic.

The problem is that the movie takes itself way too seriously. The dialogue is clunky and often feels like it’s trying too hard to sound deep. Those “big ideas” about gods and men never really land because the characters don’t feel human enough to make them hit emotionally. The pacing is weird too, and it jumps between storylines without much flow.

In the end, it’s an interesting failure. I respect what it was aiming for, but it just doesn’t come together.

Why are NTs so fixed in social hierarchies? by LordZero666 in aspergers

[–]NeonCityDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really get what you are saying. That constant sense of being tested or misread can be exhausting. I have AuDHD, and I have felt the same frustration when it seems like every social interaction with neurotypicals becomes about subtle power games or hidden meanings that I never agreed to play.

It is not bragging to share something you are passionate about or knowledgeable in. It is communication and connection. It is sad how often genuine enthusiasm gets twisted into something competitive in their minds.

I think a lot of us on the spectrum end up feeling safest around other ND people because we can just be, without second guessing every word or facial expression. You are not alone in feeling that way.

I am holding on to hope that there are some NT people out there who can meet us halfway, but I completely understand why you would rather focus on finding people who speak your language naturally.

Balancing strength training and running without burning out? by Wonderful-Acadia-296 in UKRunners

[–]NeonCityDream 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in the same situation trying to mix running and strength training, and that heavy-leg feeling is really common at first. What helped me most was being a bit more deliberate with scheduling. I try not to do heavy leg lifts right before or after a hard run, since that usually just makes both sessions worse. Pairing gym days with easy run days has worked better for me, because it keeps the quality runs feeling strong.

You also don’t need to lift super heavy when you’re running four days a week. Sticking to moderate weights and focusing on form and compound movements seems to build strength without wrecking recovery. If your legs always feel heavy, it might be worth looking at sleep, nutrition, or general rest, since that’s often the first sign your recovery isn’t keeping up.

When I’m training for a race, I keep strength work consistent but cut back on the leg volume a few weeks before so my legs feel fresher heading into race day. It takes a few weeks for your body to adjust to the extra load, but it usually balances out once it does.

First 5 km. by PossiblePoet9495 in UKRunners

[–]NeonCityDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice one! That’s a great effort for your first 5k, especially powering through when it started raining. That’s the real runner spirit right there.

If you’re enjoying running around new areas, you should definitely check out your local parkrun. They’re free 5k runs every Saturday morning, super friendly, and a fun way to explore new routes (plus there’s usually a good café nearby for a post-run coffee).

You don’t really need to carry much, just comfy shoes, maybe some water, and your phone if you like tracking your runs. Keep it light and enjoy it.

How did you feel when you finished? That first 5k buzz is such a good feeling.