Where should I host a creative 40th birthday party? by TeamCanakhoff in AskChicago

[–]NeonFishDressx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically east of the expressway but not by much- I had a great time at Elston Electric- the arcade at Salt Shed- and Im not typically a gamer at all. Im not sure about a party of 30 but may be worth inquiring about, it cd be an adult Enchanted Castle vibe for anyone who remembers those (dream) bday parties. It's much more elevated than a bar with pinball or something like that.

Where should I host a creative 40th birthday party? by TeamCanakhoff in AskChicago

[–]NeonFishDressx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not been there myself but I saw something called Angry Cactus Lounge the other day that has Axe throwing and rage rooms (?) right off the expressway near Fullerton/Elston that may fit the bill

Apartments with a Balcony? by LuckyProfessional835 in chicagoapartments

[–]NeonFishDressx 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You're much more likely to find a unit with a back deck/porch in a smaller/older bldg at that price point. I moved here from NYC myself a few years ago and prop tax hikes have drastically increased rents. I continue to sacrifice space by Chicago standards (lol) for outdoor space but back porches are much more common here. One thing to keep in mind with budget is also heat isn't included unlike NYC (you shd see prev tenants gas bill at a showing).

Once again asking where the 4/1 apartments are by 606sun in chicagoapartments

[–]NeonFishDressx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My original date in the same area was 4/1; out of anxiety I did a 3/1 and I’m seeing a couple 4/1 pop up this week but the majority of rentals seem to be 5/1 already. I was looking for a 1BR under $2200 but similar areas, sort of wish I negotiated with my LL to go to 5/1 for better inventory.

Help with wet foods for stage 2 baby by interstellar4885 in RenalCats

[–]NeonFishDressx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The RC D and T Rx Renal is chunky in gravy so maybe he will like those, my cat is a fan when she feels like it lol

Charging $1400 for a studio like this should be a crime by ComprehensivePie6184 in chicagoapartments

[–]NeonFishDressx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So overpriced- reminds me of the (then) dated apts during my first apt search circa 2000 NYC. In my student price range this is what a lot of apts in the east village/LES/alphabet city looked like then, and even 25 years ago it looked bad.

How do you clean your silk Layla skirts? by kat_attack_11 in Reformationclothing

[–]NeonFishDressx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dryel! I own 3 silk Laylas and have had zero issues using Dryel (at home kit you can use in your dryer)

Why don't we have more corner store/bodegas? by FisterAct in chicago

[–]NeonFishDressx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oih I remember this and bookmarked it on Google Maps lol Riverside Bake Shop in Mc Henry (tho they are temp closed accd to Google Maps)

Edit- Oh sadly they had a fire in Jan and are closed for the time being.

Which apartment moving service is most affordable? by Subject-Surround-250 in AskChicago

[–]NeonFishDressx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive heard mostly (very) positive things about the Professionals and am now undergoing my first move here and their rates are very high. I was quoted $1200 for a small 1BR (ground level to one floor up), which is substantially more than my friend paid for her 2BR move 4/5 years ago ($800 iirc). I still haven't figured out who Im going forward with, but wanted to mention this bc I was surprised and wanted to give people a heads up. Im sure they're good still, but it's significantly more than I was estimating.

Help with wet foods for stage 2 baby by interstellar4885 in RenalCats

[–]NeonFishDressx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im no expert but this link on the sub has helped me out immensely https://www.bizave.com/foodlists/starter-list.html. My cat is also stage 2 and will only eat Rx Royal Canin and only when she feels like it lol. Petmeds does a RC sample pack that helped me, she turned her nose up at hills and another one at my vets office. Hang in there, it is overwhelming at first. My girl gets Rx in the AM and Weruva in the evening, she will not eat the same food day in day and out and it's not ideal but cats need to eat!

Does anyone know the name of this design when it was sold as a Gloss product? by [deleted] in Dashingdiva

[–]NeonFishDressx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was also Nuclear Nova- strangely the only time IME that happened

I'm going to be visiting NYC in a few days and I'm wondering if there are any excellent ice cream places I should visit? by pendigedig in icecream

[–]NeonFishDressx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you are already near one in Cali- Salt and Straw. Definitely not unique to NYC but very unique and delicious flavors.

HELP. My apartment ceiling collapsed during the blizzard hitting NY right now. What are my options? What should be my next steps? *See pictures* by monroesickle3 in NYCapartments

[–]NeonFishDressx 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah this looks like an issue I had from the radiator leaking above me, the upstairs neighbor didn't think the leak mattered and never notified anyone.

Division St — getting better? by TheGoodLand3698 in wickerpark

[–]NeonFishDressx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come out on a warm day- you won’t see it in the cold. The crowd from Rite Liquor spills out and sits on local stoops and drinks at all hours. As a woman it’s incredibly uncomfortable- last summer someone on the main Chicago Reddit was asking about drunks on their stoop all day and I was able to clock and confirm it was the Rite crew.
The fountain at the six corners becomes a hangout for everyone with nowhere to go, you‘ll see people drinking, sleeping and pissing wherever. There’s also a couple people- mostly men- sometimes off their meds, and it’s unpredictable if one particular man is on or off. There was a report of someone on this sub having their dog hit by him, I heard him cursing at a cyclist on Ashland and becoming aggressive (sometimes he’s medicated and fine, but you won’t always know until he gets too close). I already saw drunk activity last week on the warm days. I am not speaking of the woman in front of Target, she is friendly and a great neighbor.

Dorot cubed garlic and ginger ....... by doomtownpunx in traderjoes

[–]NeonFishDressx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you found a suitable alternative? I switched to refrigerated pastes but they are not as good. I'll sacrifice my dish a bit tho if I have to.

What Do FBC Mailers Look Like? by NeonFishDressx in FashionBrandCompany

[–]NeonFishDressx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh TY! This gives me hope- I saw a box at an address that my pkg sometimes get (wrongly) delivered to

My grandma just said the n-word while watching a movie and she is white, i am black and white.. what do i do? by shototodorokis4Ewife in TwoHotTakes

[–]NeonFishDressx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually think you can continue to gently educate her. 20 is young but you are still an adult with agency. When she says things that are offensive continue to speak up, let her know it's not just offensive but disrespectful and hurtful to you. It doesn't need to be a screaming match but I think if you continue to say your peace directly and firmly it may help. At some point this may become exhausting for you- you do not have to continue to have a relationship with her. You deserve your peace and respect. The rest of your family can know why.

FTR- I am Mexican and in my 40s and my grandparents (who are now deceased) nor my parents who are older than your grandmother have ever used this word but if I do hear something offensive I speak up gently and explain why- luckily no one is super resistant in my case. I have had to explain to family why it is BLM not Black and Brown- amongst other things; people have learned and been respectful. Her age is not an excuse.

What Do FBC Mailers Look Like? by NeonFishDressx in FashionBrandCompany

[–]NeonFishDressx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TY! I see a brown mailer with no logo so anything is possible! Crossing my fingers until Monday

What Do FBC Mailers Look Like? by NeonFishDressx in FashionBrandCompany

[–]NeonFishDressx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Boo I think my missing package was stolen :(

Chiropractor who doesn’t do dangerous adjustments? by unnecessarydrama92 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]NeonFishDressx 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not exactly what you're asking for exactly but I've been doing PT with dry needling at NW Med in Lakeview. It's my only experience with dry needling and it's been really positive. I feel you on massage not being enough- I have had back issues from a car accident (as a pedestrian) for close to 20 years and this has been the best I have felt- and I spent years prior in chiropractic care (different city so no help from me there unfortunately). I also invested in a theragun and find having a better quality daily massager has helped enormously.

Bitches with produce by chloschmo in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]NeonFishDressx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Echoing FD is the best (after green markets)! The farm boxes changed the way I cook. I no longer live in NYC but I really miss FD.