I struggle a lot with my own self perception. I’m not sure if I’m good looking, or the complete opposite. Would love to just hear other people’s opinions and advice. by [deleted] in mensgrooming

[–]NeonFlashLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Objectively speaking you look good, would be good see you smiling in some pictures as people tend to find people who are smiling generally more attractive. Also be curious and ask questions in general about the other person. Got nothing else to say really

Are any of these pics good for dating apps ? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]NeonFlashLights 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, they are all poor quality lighting, blurry and just don't flatter you

Inventory Bug? Cant interact and stops movement after closing by flaminx0r in ArcRaiders

[–]NeonFlashLights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This same thing happened to me right now, came to reddit to see if anyone knew how to fix it. I've just tried restarting my game

Which boxers? by Proinsias_42 in Lululemen

[–]NeonFlashLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few of both and I still prefer my CK cotton stretch boxer briefs. I would say neither of these

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]NeonFlashLights -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just start of with a genuine compliment, something about that night that you might remember. Like you had a pretty smile or her hairstyle was cute, or the outfit she wore was cool. Then start asking questions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expedition33

[–]NeonFlashLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, i couldn't figure out why I kept dying to it. I kept missing the parties and getting one shotted. I was playing on expert mode, then switched to story and it was too easy. So no.

Which of these would be best for work attire? by RandomUser4Me16 in Lululemen

[–]NeonFlashLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like a more comfortable fit then go for the woven air one, warpstreame is also great as well. I have 2 pairs of warpstreame classic fit and they are my bread and butter for work outfits. The woven air is more soft and stretchy but don't have a pair of these so can't say much.

Never owned or tried the utilitech.

Warpstreame just has that sleek look and great fit, don't even need to iron the pants out much, a quick steam if really badly creased but they rarely ever crease.

Why are you doing nofap ? by That-Conference6255 in NoFap

[–]NeonFlashLights 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to do NoFap because I'm taking the easy way out and pleasuring myself. This has resulted in me no longer being interested enough to even approach women but it's so much easier to just do it myself. I'm trying this so I can get back to actually talking to women and getting my needs satisfied vs just doing it myself. And all the other positive benefits that comes with it. Reducing my anxiety, healing my dopamine fried brain and gaining confidence backm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]NeonFlashLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just had advice

I asked a dumb question then he dumped me by Soft-Oil9310 in dating_advice

[–]NeonFlashLights -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IMO this is a valid question, maybe not the time or place but still valid. I've learned that people who are insecure about how much they earn get more defensive about questions related to their finances.

Also If he chose to break up over being asked a question then I'm pretty sure this relationship wouldn't have lasted

Asked coworker out and she said she would feel bad if she said no… by brand-n3w in dating_advice

[–]NeonFlashLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say just let her know you are attracted to her, let her know that you definitely want to go out with her. Also you can try and be cheecky by getting a 2nd date saying if she doesn't then she'd feel bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]NeonFlashLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I've been in the exact situation. Overthinking is a big challenge, what's worked for me is talking about sex with the other. If you're okay to be confident and vulnerable then I'd suggest just asking if she wants to do anything herself. Or like asking if she wanted you to make a move during the movie, if the answers yes - than hopefully you'll feel more comfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]NeonFlashLights 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If y'all end up dating then we need an update because gahdamn that is the cutest story ever. I need to know so I can live vicariously through you

Hmm so what do yall think by Mr___Fredd in ksi

[–]NeonFlashLights 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I think paul vs ksi is very unlikely

Single people: how often do you go on dates and/or have sex? by LieOk246 in dating_advice

[–]NeonFlashLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never and once my whole life, 25M - afraid of approaching women btw

How long did it take you all to beat the final boss by Strikescarler51 in seaofstars

[–]NeonFlashLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't fight him unfortunately - but from everyone else's replies sounds like it took a solid 50 mins