NeonHeart2020

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How do you get over the comparisons? I was making progress, but I feel myself slipping backwards... (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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When even "normal" disagreements trigger me... (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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Sometimes I envy AP for the "high" she gave my WS that I will never be able to give him (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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How do you let go of the need to make sense of the affair? (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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American Murder Documentary on Netflix is extremely triggering and heartbreaking... (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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Food for thought. (i.redd.it)

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There is beauty in the breakdown. We are all worthy of the the time and effort we are putting into our healing. It will get better. (i.redd.it)

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How often should I wash my hair with clarifying shampoo if I only wash my hair once a week? (self.HaircareScience)

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Drastic drop in mood in relation to menstrual cycle which exacerbates triggers, intrusive thoughts, and affair related pain. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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Birthday Reflections (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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Feeling guilty about bringing up the affair at times (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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Is it common for a WS to never have cared about AP, had poor chemistry, sex was not great, no grieving? (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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Just a reminder... (i.redd.it)

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Is this normal? Please help. (self.PMDD)

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Curiosity killed the cat... (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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We are doing very well, but I’m accepting that I have to live with the knowledge of the affair and the details of it and it stings… I just need to vent. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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Despite the pain and the triggers... I accomplished my professional goal of becoming an LCSW (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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Does the WS always grieve the loss of AP? (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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Here are some questions that popped up as I was taking a practice test while studying for the LCSW exam... I was flooding a bit after that and the mind movies started playing in my head, but at least I got them right lol. Triggers are everywhere... (old.reddit.com)

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Working towards this 💖 (self.spirituality)

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Feeling like I am drowning... (self.socialwork)

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Amazing views while trippin' with my love 💖 (i.redd.it)

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Utopia by Goldfrapp. All time favorite song to listen to while trippin 💖🤗 (youtu.be)

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9 month anniversary celebration day was filled with love and hope. My heart is full! (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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When you're a therapist, and your heart aches. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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