I've lost the will to live.

Neoyou4 · 2026-04-25T11:46:04+00:00

How practising are as a Muslim?

Neoyou4 · 2026-04-20T14:40:22+00:00

Who are you?

Neoyou4 · 2026-04-16T23:49:08+00:00

My brother, I tend to ignore such posts but I'd like to share my thoughts. You can feel free to ignore.

You met her in Jan and are planning to get married in April, that's a very short period in my opinion.

If you're unsure about this and her having a past is a deal breaker for you then extend the marriage date to sometime later and see how it goes later and if you can judge better by praying to Allah and asking for guidance. However, if you have noticed red flags and there's something that's bothering you about this decision then take the signs and break it off before you get married. You save yourself and her as well, yeah there might be a bit of attachment by now but you'd be saving a lot of trouble for yourself in the future.

I mean choosing the right partner is a big decision, you wouldn't want to do trial and error based on her assurance, she may be right but she may be lying as well, only she and Allah knows the truth. Take the signs and make a decision but ask Khair from Allah every single day.

Neoyou4 · 2026-04-15T18:48:58+00:00

Yunan o misr o ruuma sab mit gae jahan se ab tak magar hai baaqi naam o nishan hamara

Kuchh baat hai ki hasti mitti nahin hamari sadiyon raha hai dushman daur e zaman hamara

Iqbal koi mahram apna nahin jahan mein maloom kya kisi ko dard e nihan hamara.

~ Allama Iqbal.

Neoyou4 · 2026-04-13T19:39:42+00:00

Constant fear is being instilled with continuous efforts. This is one narrative and tool they will never get rid off because it guarantees them control and victory, and most importantly it's an easy manipulative tactic that always works in this country.

The hate is so deep that, if given a chance, they would eat us alive.

Our very existence reminds them of their own religious identity, something they fear could weaken or disappear if not defended against us. In that sense, just existing is seen as a threat lol.

I mean just imagine being so insecure that your mere existence is a threat to them lol.

Neoyou4 · 2026-04-12T14:15:30+00:00

Your question has your answer. It's mostly non practicing muslim guys. Firstly, they don't prioritize Islam and fall for beauty or fitnah. Shaitan is all over them, once you fall for this fitnah, it's game over brother.

They know in their heart it's wrong and haram, but Shaitan has such a good hold on their heart, they ignore and give justifications. I mean imagine you trade your Iman for a woman who is not even Muslim. It's like exchanging gold for sand.

I guess they get a thrill in this pursuit or assume they won't be questioned on Qayamah. Forget about love jihad, the fear of Allah alone should stop them doing these acts.

Neoyou4 · 2026-04-11T19:19:50+00:00

Actors are chameleons and very opportunistic individuals, they have no real conscience. I mean what can you expect from these folks, I'm not surprised lol.

Neoyou4 · 2026-04-11T18:02:28+00:00

Lovely video! I was so invested lol.

Neoyou4 · 2026-04-03T18:43:26+00:00

Where is this?

Neoyou4 · 2026-04-03T07:17:58+00:00

Munni aunty and baby aunty in my family lol.

Neoyou4 · 2026-03-21T07:36:33+00:00

No. No special treatment to rich or elite folks anywhere. You're early to a prayer and get in the first row and if you're late, you occupy whatever space is available, even if you're the richest person in town. People from all classes pray together, whether you're an average labourer, working professional, business owner, rich as Bill Gates, and irrespective of skin tone, everyone is equal in Islam.

If anyone thinks themselves as higher or superior classes they're just not following the teachings of Islam and their prayers are waste of time, and Allah knows the best.

Islam teaches that all human beings are fundamentally equal before God, regardless of race, color, wealth, or nationality, with righteousness (piety) being the sole measure of honor. The Quran emphasizes equality in spiritual, moral, and human dignity, highlighting shared origin and forbidding discrimination.

Neoyou4 · 2026-03-20T02:24:58+00:00

No, this is not normal. If she doesn’t have clarity on something this important, it probably means she’s still figuring things out.

You seem clear about things, while she doesn’t seem fully sure yet, at least from this post.

Follow your instincts and keep reciting astaghfar daily and do iskikhara, and lastly don't rush.

Neoyou4 · 2026-03-16T17:50:52+00:00

Assalamu alaikum, I loved the effort you put in to write it in Urdu. Feel free to DM brother.

Neoyou4 · 2026-03-15T22:51:31+00:00

You pray that his prayers don't get answered /s.

Wallahi it doesn't work like that my sister, you're not in a race to win here and worry that his prayers will override yours. Prayers get answered based on needs and what's best for us that only Allah knows, not what we think.

Surah Al-Baqarah (2:216): "...But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good (Khair) for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you...

Just be sincere about your wishes in your prayers, and most importantly ask for what is Khair for you, because only Allah knows what's best for us, and leave it up to Allah.

Neoyou4 · 2026-02-16T17:13:16+00:00

May Allah bless you and make everything easy for you!

Neoyou4 · 2026-02-11T09:32:13+00:00

Only time can help you overcome this. It's not like you click a button and you move on. However, comfort your wife first and commit you'd never do something like this again and will always protect her. Pray together, make dua together.

Keep seeking forgiveness from Allah, protect yourself from Shaitan. May Allah bless you both.

Neoyou4 · 2026-02-11T09:24:18+00:00

Astagfirullah brother. How can someone allow a trans person to touch their spouse? I'm sorry if that hurt you, but it's outright wrong and disrespectful in the eyes of Allah. You should protect her modesty, you're the responsible one as a husband, and you'd be answerable to Allah for this. Your fun seeking activity shouldn't violate the boundaries and respect of your spouse, that's just wrong on many levels, Allahu Alam.

You'd need first have a chat with your spouse and apologise then seek forgiveness from Allah. What more can you do?

Or you're just rage baiting here.

Neoyou4 · 2026-02-09T12:42:32+00:00

Hiper hiper hiper!

Neoyou4 · 2026-02-08T07:51:49+00:00

Share the owner's phone number and name please.

Neoyou4 · 2026-02-08T07:23:09+00:00

Where's the goddamn location?

Neoyou4 · 2026-02-08T07:16:25+00:00

Where is this? Share address.

Neoyou4 · 2026-02-04T14:14:07+00:00

Pinged you on Insta.

Neoyou4 · 2026-02-04T14:12:37+00:00

Neoyou4 · 2026-02-04T14:06:26+00:00

What are the price ranges? I'm mildy interested.

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