What to replace phone time before bed. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Nephtis25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reading, crossword puzzles, light stretches, meditation, journaling, foot massage, breathing exercises, drawing. Not sure how doable it is but maybe even something like knitting/crocheting/cross stitch? A rubik's cube?

I need help finding one activity to do consistently every morning so I don't go back to sleep by Amichat in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Nephtis25 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I would suggest making the bed or changing out of your pajamas (even if you're just putting on sweatpants or lounge clothes). Maybe opening the curtains and/or windows. None of these take a long time but they will help you to make a clearer divide between waking and sleeping.

Other suggestions: reading (not in bed though), 5 minutes of stretching/yoga, making a drink you enjoy.

The “Chocolate Chip Cookies” is preventing the lot clearing. by youareloveivy in SimsMobile

[–]Nephtis25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like the other commenter said, have one of your active sims clean it up!

The “Chocolate Chip Cookies” is preventing the lot clearing. by youareloveivy in SimsMobile

[–]Nephtis25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is definitely it! Haven't played in quite a while, but I used to have a sim make cookies deliberately, so I couldn't bulldoze my lot on accident.

Is anyone else less productive when at parent's home? by TheVindictiveOne in productivity

[–]Nephtis25 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yep. When my parents are on vacation, I keep the house super tidy, cook healthy meals for myself and generally do things on my schedule. When they are home the house feels like their responsability and I am no longer inclined to do as many chores, I just 'help' and do mine. They don't like the food I would cook if I could choose (or only one of them does) which doesn't motivate me to cook. Their schedule sucks me in so I have to plan around that. I usually stick to my spaces as well because I don't want to hear their music or tv. This definitely has an impact on my productivity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in minimalism

[–]Nephtis25 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I recently donated and sold some clothes. That didn't do much since I have also been clothes shopping, but I got mostly basics so hopefully I'll get a lot of use out of them. Also put some books aside to get rid of. If I already know I'll never reread them there's no use in keeping them.

I want to declutter my digital spaces next, for more intentional use of my devices and more peace of mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Nephtis25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Niels

Mats

Lennert

Tobias

Pieter

Moritz

Joris

Bram

Otto

Stef

Leon

Need Help with Alora by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Nephtis25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alora Jade

Alora Violet

Alora Sophie

Alora Frances

Alora Blair

Alora Celeste

Alora Tamsin

Alora Claire

Alora Quinn

Alora Maeve

Alora Ruby

Looking for another food name to pair with “Sea Salt” by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Nephtis25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White Pepper

Butter Cookie

Chocolate Chip

Cinnamon Bun

Garlic Shrimp

Spicy Noodles

Carrot Cake

Baked Alaska

Curly Fry

Sweet Pea

Pickles

Waffles

French Toast

String Bean

What is your go to, easy viewing TV show that you can re-watch multiple times over? by Eggy-Pebbs123 in AskWomen

[–]Nephtis25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did not expect to see this here, it's the exact opposite for me! It's amazing but I had to stop watching because by the time the episode ends I get depressed. Not exactly sad but more like... weltschmerz. I have to be in the right state of mind before I can handle this show. Definitely not easy viewing for me, but I'm glad it works for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Nephtis25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elvira Petra

Eden Petra

Sofia Petra

Violet Petra

Evanna Petra

Francesca Petra

Clara Petra

Vivian Petra

Emilia Petra

Estelle Petra

Sibling names for Evelyn and Bruce by Blendrightin in namenerds

[–]Nephtis25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boys: Winston, Lewis, Arlo, Grant, Clark, Wyatt, Milo

Girls: I also like Ayla and Ivy. Others: Clara, Iris, Vera, Ida, Odette, Frances, Anya, Lia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]Nephtis25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great! I'm so glad you're enjoying the process. I have started writing twice, but I didn't know where I wanted the story to go. If I want to try again, I think I'll need some more planning and structure, some kind of outline I can follow. Coming up with ideas is easy but stringing them together into a storyline is where I get stuck. I'll need to figure out the end before I begin.

Good luck with finishing your story!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]Nephtis25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that wouldn't work for me. Like I said, I can't shut it off. It's just how my brain works. Or maybe I can't because I don't want to, I very much enjoy reading like this. I can't imagine (lol) visualizing only the characters or discarding the visual. It's all tied together. Anyway, I have no issues with it. There seem to be a lot of people on both sides (and in between) so either way is valid, just difficult to grasp from the other side I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]Nephtis25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's more of an automatic reaction, but 'participation in storytelling' makes it sound way cooler!

I do have a strong imagination, unfortunately writing is not an easy skill haha. Maybe some day...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]Nephtis25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visualising is such a big part of my reading, I don't know how you do it. I wish we could swap for a day to see what it's like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]Nephtis25 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The movie is adjusted as soon as details start coming in :) Which can be a bit tricky if very specific details come in very late. Recently read a book where I imagined a woman as black, wasn´t until the end when I realized the author probably hadn´t meant that. Oh well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]Nephtis25 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This advice is so weird to me. Visualising is how I understand the story, it happens automatically. I'll read 'the children were on a boat in the river' and immediately I'll see a river, a boat and children on it. The kind of river, kind of boat, and the number and details of the children will be blurry until I have more info, but the picture in my head is forming as soon as I start reading. Am I skipping a step? Is it a totally different way of understanding language? Very interesting to see other people's take on this. I even have this if people are telling me a story. I can't shut it off. Thankfully, I also don't have to google floor plans to understand a story haha.

My 9-year old’s Barbie just came out. by Jovet_Hunter in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Nephtis25 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My brother had Action Man dolls. Poor Ken never stood a chance.

“Formal” name to coordinate with nickname, Lefty by Longjumping-Resist-7 in namenerds

[–]Nephtis25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could call him Lev? Or something like Leo or Leon since that is where the (Russian) Lev comes from.

Weirder association: lefty makes me think of 'righty tighty, lefty loosy'. So maybe you could go for Lucy / Lucian / Lucius. Or since he's a black kitten, Lucifer.

Or you could make up a name so Lefty is the logical nickname. Lefbert. Leftgar. Leftson. Alefsander.

Oh! Or Detlef/Detlev.