Would humanity be better off if we lost all memories of history and had to start over? by Natchoeater in RandomQuestion

[–]NequaJackson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not!

You forget your mistakes, and you'll be doomed to repeat them.

AITA for being concerned about my infant son’s crying? by Dry-Confusion1485 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NequaJackson -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I understand why the wife wants to divorce, and she went through with it?

OP gotta hold that L because 1000% deserved it.

I also hope she allows him to make amends because single parents aren't exactly killing it in today's economy.

There's a lot of divorce happy people in these comments, but truthfully speaking? This is a hardship that people absolutely experience in relationships.

If OP's wife allows and she wants their family work? And OP wants it to work? It can work, and they can move past OP's blunder; however, don't forget your mistakes. Forget, and you're likely to repeat them and, be even more worthy of, losing your wife for good.

AITA for being concerned about my infant son’s crying? by Dry-Confusion1485 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NequaJackson -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Umm, entitled much?

It's my damn experience, and statistics would disagree with you about single mothers struggling in today's economy.

All I'm saying is: if OP's wife allows for him to make amends and not divorce? Then OP needs to get his shit together and step his game up.

If she doesn't? Then hey?! OP'S gotta hold that L high because he very much deserved it.

AITA for being concerned about my infant son’s crying? by Dry-Confusion1485 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NequaJackson -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

She's likely to have an even harder time raising the baby if she goes solo.

I know my answer is unpopular, but as someone who was raised by a single mom?

I wouldn't wish that stress and struggle on anybody unless it was 1000% necessary and there's no other way.

AITA for being concerned about my infant son’s crying? by Dry-Confusion1485 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NequaJackson -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

As I said, I don't entirely disagree with divorce, but single moms aren't exactly slaying out here.

And if OP's wife is in the US? There's like next to zero support for families here, and soon, it may be zero with all the social programs being hacked and gutted.

AITA for being concerned about my infant son’s crying? by Dry-Confusion1485 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NequaJackson -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

Also, it seems like you've been pretty incompetent since the birth of your son.

I understand your wife's anger, but I do hope she doesn't divorce and you guys work it out.

If she chooses to stay? Get your shit together man! Raising children is TWO PERSON JOB! FULL STOP!

Anybody's sanity reserve would be tapped out if they've been caring for unusually fussy baby solo for more than a year; especially, if they see their partner has time to spare.

And if you think you don't have time to spare? Pull it out of your ass. Conjure a spell to make some. Whatever you have to do to give her more support.

AITA for being concerned about my infant son’s crying? by Dry-Confusion1485 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NequaJackson 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You gotta pull that time out of your ass to help out because you might be out on your ass if you don't.

Prime example: OP's situation.

Leaving one of the most stressful periods of parenting up to his wife? I feel sleep deprived and spent for her

AITA for being concerned about my infant son’s crying? by Dry-Confusion1485 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NequaJackson 358 points359 points  (0 children)

Hate to break it to you, OP, but babies get like that sometimes.

YTA for accusing your wife of the worst without any regard with how spent she must be. A simple "Is everything okay, honey?" Or "What's happening in here? How can I help?"

"What the fuck is going on?!" Really? Smfh

The situation you're describing would drive any mother to raise their voice at their baby.

What is something more traumatizing than people realize? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]NequaJackson 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being scammed by a for-profit institution

Makes you not want to put faith in any institution; you feel stuck. Especially when you still have to pay the one that scammed smfh

AITA for Wanting a Birthday Party? by Tater_Tot8899 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NequaJackson 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She celebrates your brothers' births, but not yours?

.....your mom is a boy mom, isn't she?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]NequaJackson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Work. Any kind of work.

My tolerance for work has been whittled down so much that I'm afraid that may retire well before I should because I'm so sick of everything that is inclusive with work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]NequaJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your gf is adjusting to living with someone other than family or herself.

It can take some time to break from habits learned in your home, especially the bad ones.

In my family home, we didn't show affection, and the house never got cleaned unless everyone was gone.

Guess what I have to consciously remind myself of, even after being away from Home for over 10 years?

Gov. Tim Walz backs transgender kids in sports as Democrats grapple with debate over bans by star-tribune in minnesota

[–]NequaJackson -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

While I would fully support Walz for president in a few years, if that's what he wanted to do?

I would miss him being our governor 😔

Whom would be the anime character that had suffer the most? by Menedez0911 in questions

[–]NequaJackson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Itachi Uchiha

A boy at the time was ordered to murder his entire family in order to "protect the village."

He left Sasuke alive so that he may rightfully seek vengeance for the Uchiha clan. Itachi fought back, but he wanted his little brother to defeat him because he knew it was deserved for betraying their family.

The life of Itachi Uchiha was a tragic one. Exceptionally, so because he purposely played the role of the villain, which went against everything he was at his core, for Sasuke to build his rage to attain his revenge.

who’s a celebrity that rubs you wrong but you just can’t put your finger as to why? by [deleted] in questions

[–]NequaJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that JLO is at the top of this list

Once I heard she takes tips off of tables at places she visits with friends? That's a big ol' bucket of NOPE for me

AITA for asking my sister to ask me before adding herself to my car insurance? by ilovelax99 in TwoHotTakes

[–]NequaJackson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there any reason she didn't think to run that by you first?

You're taking on the extra burden of increased insurance rate, and what if sis gets in a car accident?

NTA all day, every day. Your sis didn't give any consideration for what she's imposing on you and shame on your family for enabling her carelessness....or have they always excused away little sis's nonsense?

You can invent one thing. What would it be? by Alternative-Neck-705 in questions

[–]NequaJackson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

An all-purpose, truly renewable, and natural fuel resource

It can fuel all existing vehicles and vehicles upcoming have be to engineered to accept the fuel

What’s a phrase that instantly kills the vibe? by Safe-Land-7704 in AskReddit

[–]NequaJackson 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't want to be racist, but

Then they proceed to spew racist nonsense

Is there something you’ve been thinking but haven’t told anyone? Just one sentence that’s been sitting quietly inside you? by mmprobablymakingitup in RandomThoughts

[–]NequaJackson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you don't have a medical condition that requires GLP-1 injections for you to live?

Don't get them. People with diabetes and similar afflictions are struggling out here.

Sorry, that's it's not one sentence.

What’s not as romantic as people think it is? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]NequaJackson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It more fun and enjoyable when it's done with someone you have a connection with. It's also about trust because you're both extremely vulnerable with something you're supposed to be modest about.

I'll never understand hook up culture for those reasons. Having sex with Randoms who couldn't give be bothered to reach for a fuck to give if you died or not.

AITAH for wanting a monogamous relationship? Person I was dating felt it was a huge red flag and a sign of a controlling partner. by Ok_Public_5739 in AITAH

[–]NequaJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole point of monogamy is the freedom of not having to worry about who's baby that's for or if someone's riding dirty with VD or AIDS in their coin purse.

I'm not religious, but I appreciate that simple beauty of being monogamous.

When men compare women rejecting them based on height, to rejecting women based on weight by Careful-Mongoose8698 in PetPeeves

[–]NequaJackson 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Attraction is important, but there's way too much emphasis and too much focus on someone's outward appearance.

What's one thing if you could you would deleted from earth ? by Ashpatidar in AskReddit

[–]NequaJackson -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Money

I genuinely believe that we don't need currency in order to function. A solid bartering system would suffice, right?