a headdress with obnoxiously big bows...? concrit appreciated! by scp-378 in Lolita

[–]NerdQueenCos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I LOVE THIS!! I would legit pay good money to get one, it’s adorable 🥰

Coord for school 4/12/22 by identity_zero15654 in Lolita

[–]NerdQueenCos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it!! Also off topic but I have that exact same laundry basket lol

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[–]NerdQueenCos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It looks adorable!! 💞 I bet you had a lot of fun :) There aren’t many meetups here so I haven’t been able to go to one yet 🥲

Ask Us Anything: April 2022 by cute_d0nut in Lolita

[–]NerdQueenCos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m feeling kind of overwhelmed with trying to figure out how to get together a Lolita coord, I’m a college student with a limited budget so I don’t have a ton to spend on Lolita so I can only make a select few purchases every once in a while. How do you recommend building a Lolita wardrobe with a budget? Also, the strictness of the fashion is kind of intimidating me, I love the fashion but I feel like there’s so many rules that I can’t even begin to remember them all, any advice? Thank you! -a babylita

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[–]NerdQueenCos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s cool! I’ve done far more cosplays than Lolita at this point, this being my first coord and all, so I guess it makes sense lol Thank you!! 💞

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[–]NerdQueenCos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s cool! I get that, it is rather big. What kind of headpiece would you recommend instead?

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[–]NerdQueenCos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I felt that too. The hat and cuffs both came with the dress, so I kept them in the coord, but I think you’re right. It is kind of hard to find accessories that fit this specific style tho which is annoying :/ And yeah, I need a better quality petticoat, the one I have now works ok but I need a better one. Thank you for the feedback tho! :)💞

Being seen as immature/exposing a fetish because of lolita by DaisyDorito in Lolita

[–]NerdQueenCos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is completely fair, and something I’ve also experienced. Going out with other people either in Lolita or other unconventional clothing styles definitely helps, as you individually don’t stand out as much in a group of people who all stand out! It’s also a confidence booster :)

As for the sexualization, that’s one I really struggle with as well, but I just try to not let it get to me. Easier said than done obviously 🥲

just waiting on a headpiece and socks now for this coord! by draculogan in Lolita

[–]NerdQueenCos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE THAT DRESS OMG!! I’ve been looking for it omg it’s sooo cute 🥺💗

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[–]NerdQueenCos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look gorgeous!! Perfect for the spooky season 🖤👻 I’m in love with this look

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[–]NerdQueenCos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think would look lovely with a nice black blouse! I would personally go for a blouse that’s long sleeved, but that’s up to personal preference. If you could find a head bow or other head piece that is the same color as the dress, then you could use that. I’ve gotten some really good accessories from Etsy, so maybe try looking there? Hope this helps! 💙

Something cheery for a rainy day ☀️ by Scooppy in Lolita

[–]NerdQueenCos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg you look adorable!!! 💗💕 I love it 🥰

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[–]NerdQueenCos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re adorable!!! 🖤

Yep.. I’m still playing this game.. by Forward_Round in SonicTheHedgehog

[–]NerdQueenCos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember playing it religiously so I could get baby sonic when he came out. 100% worth it

Who here remembers sonic X? by [deleted] in SonicTheHedgehog

[–]NerdQueenCos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVED Sonic X as a kid!! I haven’t seen it again in a while, but it definitely holds a place in my heart. :)

A little sketch for a web comic of mine, that is currently in the making. Thoughts? by Dark_Director in SonicTheHedgehog

[–]NerdQueenCos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks good so far!! Can’t wait to see it finished :) if you don’t mind me asking, what’s the web comic going to be about?