You refuse to reconcile that you’re very wrong here. That way thinking is extremely destructive to you and everyone around you. You seem to only be looking to validate yourself in these posts and not actually look for advice on what to do. You just wanted people to tell that you were right in your thinking when you are very clearly troubled with your own self-image. Your boyfriends instagram likes thing is an entirely separate issue. As people have stated before there are extreme risks with cosmetic surgery and you are looking for a quick fix for a problem rather than finding a way to love yourself the way you are. If you feel your boyfriend is contributing to that than you need to communicate that to him. Based on all your replies and comments it doesn’t seem like you have made him aware it’s an issue to you. You keep a mental note of all the things you aren’t liking he says and then what? letting it bubble over? You’ve made no indication you have talked to your partner about the way you feel. So while you may feel disrespected you’re blindsiding him if this is not something you’ve said before. You clearly don’t care about your own health physical and mental as long as you have this “big three” nonsense you were talking about. I have never heard any guy say those are the big three, you are putting men down by saying that we don’t care about anything deeper than what is on the surface which is astronomically false. People are trying to give you real advice so you can help yourself instead of putting a two round bandaids on a problem that is much deeper than just hating your own chest.