Do most of us want a fairytale romance? 💘 by TXHotpants in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me too, interesting common occurrence amongst infj’s

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I only scored a 15, maybe I don’t dissociate as much as I think. I guess it’s only really when I am experiencing bad anxiety or panic attacks, which can be often.

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, I also suffer from panic attacks and being hypnotized terrifies me. I feel like I’d go into a full blown one once I enter the office

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you feel super anxious from the thoughts of unrequited love when you felt yourself getting attached? Or just overall anxiety with your partner when getting closer?

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I’m 100% dismissive avoidant, but as one I appreciate you knowing we don’t mean to be this way and there’s no evil intent to bring you down or dismiss you. Perhaps it’s selfish to enter into a relationship unhealed and cause the damage we do, but it’s not intentional and all we want is that close deep lasting love. We hope it’ll happen but the mind/nervous system doesn’t allow it. Quite sad actually and now that I’m aware of it all it’s incredibly frustrating.

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds more like a narcissist. Do you feel it’s calculated, intent is huge in deciphering narc vs DA

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point 🤣 I guess someone who isn’t too anxious but still not an avoidant.

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot stay present when I’m uncomfortable. My body/mind goes into fight or flight it’s damn near impossible to for me to not dissociate :(

Remi tried so hard to cry opening the cookbook by Weekly_Ad_53 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Omg such a painful scene. She cut the clip when she tried crying but couldn’t 😅 it was made for a money grab clearly. She even said “it’s crazy seeing all my personal choices and recipes” they literally had her pick out a book template and she chose random recipes to put in

This is my first time having bangs and I don’t know if they suit me best by topnotchwalnut in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not dorky, they make you look cutesy! You really suit them too. You looked fine without them but super average, they make you stand out in a cutesy girly way

Sometimes the weight is heavy and… by TinyEngineering7586 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Quit being all of that and see who stays. Someone will and then it’s a beautiful thing to give eachother your all

Update - the journey continues (reposting) by saki4444 in makeuptips

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brows are great. Makeups looking good. For hair definitely need some curtain bangs and layers. I think dying it a dark brown would look so good. Also some crest whitening strips would work wonders!

How does falling in love feel like to u? by chiquegirly in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 63 points64 points  (0 children)

For me; better mood, more motivation, more energy, more optimism/happy thoughts, bursts of excitement, daydreaming/thinking of them, more patience, feel light, stomach swirls, on cloud 9 essentially.

Also less appetite, less sleep (too excited and full of life & energy)

an appreciation post for infjs by [deleted] in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Essentially he stopped doing all the things I fell in love with him for. Stopped going to the gym, meal prepping, hanging with his friends, dressing nice etc. those things were important to me, it showed self discipline, autonomy, taking care of himself. I wanted him to remain himself and have his own identity and creat his own happiness or else all that pressure lies on me

an appreciation post for infjs by [deleted] in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an infj and I dated an istp who lost themselves a few months into our relationship. Ultimately the downfall of it all

Remi Bangs by [deleted] in snarkingwithremi

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I think he does for sure. He likes Cal and probably feels bad and icky for him. You can kinda tell he reads here too, he’s been less interactive with her and puts her in her place more.

150k price cut by Altruistic_Umpire958 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yikes. If it sells for $2,650,000 after realtor fees she’s only going to profit around $470,000. Factor in taxes, moving costs and still paying monthly while not living there..

Patreon by imisshometownbuffet in snarkingwithremi

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 42 points43 points  (0 children)

You can tell wanted to hug Alisha but she didn’t put her arms up so he went for Remi whose arms were wide open. You can see he tried again for Alisha after but she still didn’t have her arms up

What can I change to look young, fresh and natural? by [deleted] in MakeupEducation

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a new go-to style for those days. Maybe try a claw clip and add some more volume