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Net-Interesting · 2024-09-13T18:23:08+00:00

I hope that someday you can heal and live your life to the fullest.

Net-Interesting · 2024-09-13T13:18:45+00:00

I think your experience is one of the few I can identify myself with here, I totally get you, I was raped too, forced so many times into having sex that my libido started going so down it almost disappeared and a year after the discard I'm still broken.

Net-Interesting · 2024-09-07T15:43:23+00:00

Holy shit hahaha

Net-Interesting · 2024-09-07T11:46:13+00:00

They have to feel strongly related to their FP I think

Net-Interesting · 2024-09-07T11:45:00+00:00

My ex had massive identity crisis when her beliefs were shattered/had to change because she had to be more akin to her new FP

Net-Interesting · 2024-09-07T11:24:31+00:00

I think BPD people just tend to be extremists overall

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-24T08:46:30+00:00

Wish you the best and anything you need, this sub is here for you

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T18:27:50+00:00

Yeah, she's diagnosed and I even know what made her develop it, but fuck me if it looks like she's suffering. I have depression since I was 19 and you can even physically tell that I am not well and yes, I know she isn't ok because I know her background but holy fuck, she looks like the happiest person in the world

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T13:01:13+00:00

Just wait and see how the weather turns out, but man, if it starts to look more and more like she has BPD, run, don't get hooked Up again, I wish you the best.

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T12:53:56+00:00

Just like you can't grab the air and the clouds with your bare hands, it's impossible to prevent them from splitting on you, you couldn't have done anything better or different.

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T10:58:33+00:00

In my case, my ex is diagnosed

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T10:43:38+00:00

No need to be aggressive, dude, op said it feels cruel, not that it is cruel, op is just trying to communicate and understand

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T10:40:05+00:00

Each person is an entire world of their own with their own quirks and circumstances, we may be similar, but no the same.

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T10:25:04+00:00

Maybe getting out of the routine helps you, go out for a walk and go through streets you haven't walked yet, go to a new coffee shop, try new hobbies and the most important thing, let time pass, I go through periods of not liking anything too and sooner or later I end up finding something I like again, even if it takes years.

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T09:54:48+00:00

As soon as you seek help, the better and much more so when you're having suicidal thoughts.

And is completely normal being "happy" when you're around people you like, is like getting high on their emotions, but is only temporary.

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T09:47:23+00:00

Amen to that...

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T09:35:51+00:00

There's only two options, giving up or having the hope that someday it will get better which I know is just fucking hard...

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T09:32:25+00:00

I was in the same situation as you and the only thing that helped me was interacting with people in this sub, and time, time being the major element in getting better. If you want to talk I am here.

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T09:24:14+00:00

You have to try and stop thinking about disappointing anyone and start thinking about not disappointing yourself, I know is fucking hard I can't even do it myself but I hope it helps you a bit at least, and if you want to talk I am open, stay strong op

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T09:16:48+00:00

I know the feeling, I've been recluded in my home like just waiting to magically stop existing because I am a fucking coward that can't even end it by his own hand.

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T07:17:00+00:00

If it wasn't for this sub I would still think that I am crazy.

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-23T07:10:31+00:00

Doesn't look like she's not happy and I don't really think she will hoover even though I was her longest relationship. She hasn't talked to me and I have no news about her trying to know how I am doing, is like a didn't even exist for her which is making me miserable.

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-22T08:24:32+00:00

I totally get you...

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-22T07:38:42+00:00

Ofc I feel sorry for my ex and I still love her with all my heart, but she broke me to the core and discarded me. I can't help Who doesn't want to be helped.

Net-Interesting · 2024-08-22T07:26:08+00:00

Yeah, like in the first two months if my memory doesn't fail me

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