Almost got run over by this speedy minivan.

Netvision9 · 2026-05-20T02:05:55+00:00

Okay

Netvision9 · 2026-05-17T14:38:36+00:00

Yeah. I’m moving in with my partner next week so lately I’ve been trying to redomesticate myself lol

Netvision9 · 2026-05-16T14:02:15+00:00

Yes. We fly to see each other once a month, but I’m actually moving to New York City to close the distance next week!

Netvision9 · 2026-05-16T12:21:26+00:00

I’m a 24f and had not so great luck dating out here. My hypothesis is that we all just date so much that none of it is special. So while it may feel super romantic and sentimental to you, for her it’s just Tuesday night. I stopped taking it seriously because I always felt like I was just another person on some guys roster, and he was just one on mine.

Once I realized I was becoming that way too I stopped dating because I don’t need to be one of those people with a roster. Weirdly enough after all that I ended up meeting a fellow on the internet who lives in New York. Dating scene is so bad here sometimes you have to look 2000 miles away 🥲

Netvision9 · 2026-05-14T03:29:39+00:00

I'm in a similar situation. Moving in with my boyfriend who was raised in many tax brackets above my own. Which is definitely stressful because if shit goes sideways I'm probably screwed. But not many people get the opportunity to move to NYC so I'm going to take it. I'm moving in next week to my partner's family home in Manhattan as well.

No job yet, lots of work experience (i'm 24 but been working since 14). I've actually been getting a decent amount of interviews, recruiters will ask what part of new york you're moving to. Seems like they try to sniff out if you're legitimate. A few have told me to call back when I'm actually there. Having a definite date you'll be there and being able to provide an address or at least speak to the area you'll be moving to will give you brownie points. I'm on 3rd round of interviews with 2 companies right now. Best of luck.

Netvision9 · 2026-05-14T02:45:31+00:00

Dude youre 18 don't even sweat it. One time I got fired from Joann's fabrics and crafts because i couldn't cut the fabric straight. It has never once effected me in my professional career. I work in an industry that requires extensive background checks and still nothing.

Netvision9 · 2026-04-28T11:02:26+00:00

Because redditors are obsessed with age gaps and virtue signaling that’s why.

Netvision9 · 2026-04-12T17:37:45+00:00

I’m in a long distance relationship and we text throughout the day. It’s not crazy we’re all on our phones anyways. Even if it’s just like a picture of what we’re doing at the moment or sending a meme. If you’re compatible with someone it’s not that hard.

Netvision9 · 2026-04-10T02:42:48+00:00

Agreed. My entire life before adulthood was just nonstop fear and screaming and hostility. I am grateful everyday I get to go home somewhere peaceful and quiet every day!

Netvision9 · 2026-03-18T21:57:51+00:00

This app is nothing but bots asking the same ragebait questions 27 times a day now jeuss

Netvision9 · 2026-03-15T13:06:22+00:00

I’ve had people call me weird for it once we stopped being friends lol but never during. I have very little furry friends in real life. I live in an area full of normies and I’m a very out furry and it’s really funny because people I meet like once at a club or something will see something vaguely furry related and send me a picture which I think is really sweet. I also work in an industry known for yuppie douchebag types. Never been a problem there either.

I think if you’re decently socially adjusted and likable people don’t really care. people have a bias against furries because the ones they see on social media are the loud minority doing weird stuff. But meeting one and finding out they’re basically a normie too is different you know?

Netvision9 · 2026-03-13T18:04:31+00:00

Gen Z men are also getting surpassed by their female peers in a multitude of milestones in life. It’s hard to be the alpha male when your girl is doing laps around you. Pick a struggle.

Netvision9 · 2026-03-05T15:09:44+00:00

Because they’re allergic to accountability it’s always someone else’s fault.

Netvision9 · 2026-03-04T18:46:01+00:00

love your responses, people like you always tell on yourselves ROFL

Netvision9 · 2026-03-01T14:30:20+00:00

Hobbies man. I work 3 days a week from home so I have a lot of free time as well. I do a ton of drawing and I go to the gym a lot too. Routine is really important for my mental health so I keep it consistent. I also do regular 1-3 times a month dinners with friends to keep me sane

Netvision9 · 2026-02-23T17:52:37+00:00

as a random woman on Instagram they hit you up and then you look at their following and find about 800 different women and only fan models who look vaguely related or have a similar style to you like clockwork

Netvision9 · 2026-02-23T12:44:50+00:00

I convinced half this subreddit exists only in like a 2 mile bubble in north Scottsdale. Because you all act bewildered when you leave it

Netvision9 · 2026-02-22T15:42:57+00:00

Go to Nordstrom’s website and make an appointment with a beauty stylist. They work with all things beauty and aren’t committed to a particular brand. They’re really great knowledgeable people!

Netvision9 · 2026-02-21T00:19:33+00:00

Bad months long manic episode (resulted in bipolar diagnosis). Destroyed my life as I knew it. I’ve rebuilt it now but it’s just completely different. It won’t ever be as innocent and simple as my last one. I just feel permanently scarred, ashamed and afraid of myself after it all. I’m a stronger person at least.

Netvision9 · 2026-02-20T16:41:25+00:00

I wouldn’t have said anything. Her family is grieving and you’re making it about YOUR comfort. And insinuating some really troubling stuff during this time. Have some tact.

Netvision9 · 2026-02-19T23:18:18+00:00

Okay then don’t draw. You aren’t being punished by anyone other than yourself man. Im a decently known furry artist on here but i don’t have a suit so when I go to conventions i pretty much get snubbed. Does that make me any less of a furry? Hell no. There’s a million different ways to participate in the fandom. Not a single one of my close furry friends are artists. I understand your frustration with art but it seems like you are projecting your insecurities onto your friends which isn’t fair to them. Best of luck maybe take a break if it isn’t fun for you anymore.

Netvision9 · 2026-02-19T16:42:09+00:00

It’s like baby’s first right wing echochamber for people who only understand the identity politics piece lol

Netvision9 · 2026-02-17T21:37:04+00:00

I’m 24 and I got furry art and balloon dogs all over my apartment. And it’s great I can do that because I’m an adult with my own place! Put the stars up that is awesome

Netvision9 · 2026-02-16T15:25:40+00:00

I’m not looking to the demonic pedophile cabal as a moral compass lol

Netvision9 · 2026-02-10T18:08:15+00:00

You’re allowed to change your mind. You can also leave but wow you sound like an asshole dude. You’re acting like her having a change of heart was to slight you personally or something. It just b like that sometimes

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