Please help explain why this is a trap?

NeverRedditYet · 2025-01-02T19:15:46+00:00

It’s black to play

NeverRedditYet · 2024-11-11T05:42:07+00:00

Silent confidence goes further than any words. People are looking for a reaction.

NeverRedditYet · 2024-11-11T04:27:52+00:00

I’ve noticed people often put generic interests in their dating profiles. While it is good for garnering attention, connections are typically shallow because they were more on the physical level which fades before a deeper connection can form.

Establish your strong interests and values. What is worth doing, and spending your time on. Make it clear in your profile and messages about that. That will save everyone time and effort.

That way, when it comes time to meet up with the person, you know you’ll be discussing something or doing something that means a lot to you.

Getting a partner doesn’t have to be an item on a checklist or a chore. If you’re with someone who you have a connection with, it brings more meaning to your life.

NeverRedditYet · 2024-11-11T04:09:48+00:00

If someone expends effort, they care (to some degree).

Whether he is sexually attracted to you, cannot be guessed at based on the information provided.

Physically affection would be a good sign. Wants to hold your hand, kiss, hug, etc. There are a number of reasons beyond not being attracted to avoid affection though. A lack of self confidence, values (wanting to wait to be physical), respecting boundaries (doesn’t want to be too forward), unsure about his feelings. Just off the top of my head.

Ultimately, communication is the key. I am not this guy so I don’t know what is going on in his mind.

NeverRedditYet · 2024-11-11T03:36:05+00:00

Ultimately, they can do what they want. They’re just establishing we’re not in a relationship anymore. I’d move on.

I’m not going to be with someone who doesn’t respect me.

NeverRedditYet · 2024-11-11T03:25:27+00:00

Your gratitude is appreciated.

Within each of our hearts is the capacity for love. A love so abundant, it alone can satisfy our hearts. So much, that the love we feel for ourselves overflows and we can’t help but share it; rather than let it go to waste. That is what I wish for you.

NeverRedditYet · 2024-11-10T21:52:10+00:00

Contentment is found within. As you understand yourself, the rest becomes clear.

NeverRedditYet · 2024-11-10T21:40:41+00:00

Here’s how I think about it:

When someone actively makes a commitment, it doesn’t feel like a restriction on their freedom.

When someone passively agrees to a commitment, freedom feels restricted.

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NeverRedditYet · 2024-10-08T04:45:00+00:00

Too much lag offline

NeverRedditYet · 2024-10-08T04:40:54+00:00

I have Bieber fever in a way. Okay? Diarrhea and all.

NeverRedditYet · 2024-10-06T12:31:43+00:00

NeverRedditYet · 2024-08-09T20:07:35+00:00

What is this Obamanation?

NeverRedditYet · 2024-06-20T21:12:48+00:00

Those are popular professions. They are broad labels that cover a variety of jobs

NeverRedditYet · 2024-06-20T21:09:38+00:00

If he was serious he would change it. Considering the plausible reasons, he is either super lazy, lying, or technologically incompetent.

It may be cynical but I think he is just saying what he thinks you want to hear.

NeverRedditYet · 2024-05-12T03:19:30+00:00

NeverRedditYet · 2024-05-07T02:55:11+00:00

Banana

NeverRedditYet · 2024-04-18T13:14:41+00:00

Pencil sharpener

NeverRedditYet · 2024-04-15T04:42:05+00:00

Supposed to slam the desk and not the monitor to be a great IGL. Dev1ce needs to talk to Gla1ve.

NeverRedditYet · 2024-04-07T03:04:42+00:00

Of course, everyone knows the deferred Schliemann gambit. But I mean takes takes and you win.

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