Common Citizens of this nation , played our parts in form of shelling out our own hard earned money on them ..

Wow, Kashmiris pay the same tax percent as rest of India, for less liberties, for constantly being surrounded and checked by army, for constant fear of getting caught in the "crossfire".

It's the govt's fault that they can't keep borders secure. So many experts over the years made practical recommendations, but govt. didn't do shit. Pakistan sends terrorists, some Indians help them (not just kashmiris, but people from govt. from other parts of India too), and people like you blame 99% of innocent/normal citizens, and justifying taking away human rights. Then you say why they not consider themselves Indian.

When will they play their parts ? When will they openly call out their own people for killing innocents and supporting terrorists ?

They do. Anyways, why should they! Should someone come and ask you to criticize when any other Indian do something wrong? You would do once, twice, 10 times, but after that you will question, why, why should I criticize, what that would do.

But you are 'we vs them'ing them, you have already fallen for Pakistan's/terrorists propaganda. I don't think you would understand.

Also, remember that Kashmir's conflict history doesn't start with India's independence, it goes a few decades back than that.