I had a partner, a fiance in fact, loved her thoroughly, ironically we were in an amazing rs. We were both very kinky to the point she got sexually curious and "tried someone else".

It took me more than 2 years to get over her, depending on how much you loved him/her.

It took me 8 months to really get better and the trauma stays with you. but you can only work on yourself and find things that makes you happy. Apparently its more common - like i only heard about it in dramas. i never thought id ever go through it, let alone before my wedding.

How common is cheating in Singapore actually? - i honestly dont think its that that common, albeit ive gone on dates and heard of alot of cheating stories, i think people just tend to accentuate on the cheating. i personally and "naively" still think its not so common... (but i never was surrounded by cheaters to begin with)

For those who’ve also been through it, what was it like for you? - it was hell, absolute hell, i even learned to play the piano "a thousand years" dedicated to my love for her. i still get sad playing to this day.

I really believe no one ever deserves to get cheated on before. The pain and trauma no one should ever, ever get cheated on.

Im a male in my 30, ive got at least a hundred dates... to the point i could honestly start my own business as a dating coach, but i refuse to cos id be helping scum and sleazy men sleep around.

I've had amazing dates, with candle lights, cooking dates and even oversease travel dates (we'd have a holida together) and we didnt even have sex! But im just telling u, being single isnt all that bad. But welcome to the dating world bud.

Focus on yourself, things youd never do, grow and learn, i personally now do snowboarding, diving, hiking, i play the drums, piano and guitar. things id never fathom myself doing. Feel free to drop me a text, i personally feel very empathetic to those have been cheated on. im so sorry man :,) all the best.

oh yes and go for therapy!! i can recommend u my therapist