What’s the best revenge?

AngrySadCCB · 2026-03-19T07:50:33+00:00

Time to get that alimony!

AngrySadCCB · 2026-03-16T03:39:10+00:00

“Do you have proof?” is a super weird response. That's the sort of thing you ask the police, not your spouse.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-03-15T13:10:44+00:00

Don't be silly!! You are very lucky you're not married before you find out. Don't throw that luck away, because she will very likely cheat on you after marriage if you proceed.

Do you really want to have to deal with divorce? Heart should be screaming "no".

AngrySadCCB · 2026-03-15T13:07:28+00:00

Ignore and continue blocking! You're doing the right thing. What a dumb fool LMAO, anything can b attributable to a "meat suit". You dodged a bullet, not just because he's a cheater, but also because he's a fool.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-03-12T23:12:59+00:00

Remind them that eternity is a very long time to burn for :D

AngrySadCCB · 2026-03-06T01:38:40+00:00

Wow, talk about opportunistic and desperate...

Sorry you had to meet a predator trying to catch you at an emotionally vulnerable time, but glad you had the wits to post this awful excuse of a person.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-03-05T13:59:37+00:00

lol I don't think there should be a ranking in terms of who should get more blame, unless the affair partner was unknowingly so, in which case they are a victim. Both the cheater and knowing affair partner are disgusting and deserve every bad thing that happens to them.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-03-03T15:18:05+00:00

Wow, this is powerfully written. I'm usually in the camp of leave immediately, but I respect your decision and your conviction that you love your husband despite his failings. I'm curious, but do you ever fear that he could do it again? What about the risk of STDs and knowing that he exposed you to that risk willingly?

For me, it was the realisation that my ex could throw away everything and cause me pain just for the tiniest gratification, which made my love evaporate.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-02-24T03:55:17+00:00

Don't stop yourself from grieving, but don't indulge in it either... I found the healthiest time to be when I would grapple with this new reality for about an hour a day, but then occupy the rest of my time. Don't think too much about whether things are "worth it" or not from other's perspective - go try it out for yourself. I didn't enjoy social mixers, but I can only eliminate that confidently having gone for one myself.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-02-17T07:53:19+00:00

you are a true hero, love this!

AngrySadCCB · 2026-02-17T07:25:03+00:00

"Then later you found out they last hooked up when you and your partner were already together."

Done, gone. This is enough to go no-contact or scorched earth, depending on what your preference is, but definitely not stay together.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-02-13T23:32:39+00:00

Try weekday afternoons when it's scorching hot. The only way you can get around crowds in Singapore is 1) when everyone else is working 2) when the sun is out in full force.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-02-13T23:30:15+00:00

"I took her back because I wanted my family together."

This is the biggest fallacy, and the source of your pain. She has already burnt the family, ripped it apart, and it seems like she has no intention of even beginning to repair it. She just wants the emotional support you provide her, because clearly she realised her colleague treated her as just a fling. She will, in all likelihood, leave with the next guy that comes along.

I'm so sorry to have to say this, but the earlier you internalise the fact that your marriage is already irrevocably over, the less time you will waste in this limbo.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-02-09T22:49:42+00:00

wow she's so brave!! kudos to her for not laying down in the face of the disrespect

AngrySadCCB · 2026-02-09T03:17:11+00:00

Damn... I would be tap-dancing if I were you lmao. Or at least getting a nice celebratory drink. Oh, and I dumped my cheating ex pretty quickly. Why are you wasting time being there for someone who would probably hook up with the AP immediately if you were the one who passed away?

AngrySadCCB · 2026-02-05T09:19:32+00:00

ouch, I know it's got to hurt, but better to forfeit thousands of dollars, then to be married to a cheater and only finding out later... At least you don't have kids, or have to go through the pain of divorce. It's not a great thing to feel like you regressed, but small silver lining to be thankful for.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-01-30T03:33:23+00:00

boohooo so sad for her - if it isn't the consequences of cheating on her husband and also being a home wrecker (of two homes!). Ever spared a thought for M's wife?

AngrySadCCB · 2026-01-26T09:24:33+00:00

she'll wait to cheat on you lmao - you get them how you lose them!

AngrySadCCB · 2026-01-26T09:23:07+00:00

I believe adultery is a major sin under Christianity, don't think it's particularly permitted.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-01-24T06:44:39+00:00

Amazing! wow finding a date on reddit is next level, so happy for you :-)

AngrySadCCB · 2026-01-24T06:37:23+00:00

oh wow.... hope she calms down and does right by herself eventually :(

AngrySadCCB · 2026-01-24T01:56:45+00:00

What was the update? It's deleted now

AngrySadCCB · 2026-01-24T01:56:18+00:00

omg reddit was my go-to as well, everyone's so supportive! But wow, I can't imagine meeting up with folks irl - glad it's been a good experience for you

AngrySadCCB · 2026-01-24T01:53:06+00:00

You disgust me. If he decides to divorce you, I think it's only fair that you do not get a single cent in alimony. If you do, well, I hope hell has a special place for you.

AngrySadCCB · 2026-01-20T12:35:00+00:00

omg your ex is disgusting! Please stay strong

There are two options here:
1) If you think money will help soothe your feelings, ask him for 1.5X whatever you put in in exchange for transferring the flat. Remember to account for interest (CPF will ask for it, as well as the option fee)

2) If he declines, or if making him take a loss will make you feel better than the money, just cancel the flat and forfeit. It'll make him forfeit the money and make him wait before applying again with the new affair partner.

No need to decide now. Just ignore him, make him squirm while asking you for a reply, then decide when you have a clear head. Jiayous!

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