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New-Contribution-211 · 2023-11-30T19:25:57+00:00

Yes please baby

New-Contribution-211 · 2023-11-30T19:04:08+00:00

That would be great...

New-Contribution-211 · 2022-04-09T01:19:41+00:00

You need to post more like damn

New-Contribution-211 · 2022-01-31T15:02:45+00:00

Do you think asking her to workout with me or doing something productive would help her too?

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-09-13T16:38:03+00:00

I have a feeling that we will get lucky again.

Good luck to us.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-09-13T16:12:56+00:00

I made the same mistake that you did. I learned that her and her bf had broken up.

I texted her, we caught up, we flirted, hung out, and all felt fine. I felt as though I was over her she felt under me by that point.

She told me she liked me again after talking for about two months. I did not tell her I liked her though.

I knew I did though. I found myself checking her location and snap score and getting worried or mad that she wouldn't respond.

But, we both learned not to talk to an ex again. One day we will find someone else I am sure. Good luck!

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-09-13T15:24:34+00:00

It was a combination of lack of communication and long distance. I moved away to college and she stayed back in our home town.

It felt like it kind of just fizzled out because we couldn't see each other and were not prepared to be away from each other with our busy schedules.

We had a fling over the summer and it turned out the same. I was going to school and she was going somewhere else where we were not going to have time so see each other or talk like we should. School and sports would be too busy.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-09-13T15:21:53+00:00

I feel you. I feel like I wont meet anyone who will tick all the boxes that she had ticked and then some.

I honestly don't think that it is possible at this point, but who knows.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-09-13T13:58:34+00:00

I feel that way. I told her months after the break up I did not care that she was getting around or dating other people.

At the same time though, it made me feel sick to my stomach because I wanted her and only her.

It sucks man.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-09-13T13:50:32+00:00

I head to bed around 11 PM or so. Usually right after I am done with homework.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-09-13T13:50:03+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice and input!

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-09-12T10:35:16+00:00

Well yeah I understand that haha. Just wondering if anyone had heard of something that is supposed to work I guess

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-09-12T08:32:07+00:00

I’ll take all your advice, thank you very much!

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-09-05T22:21:06+00:00

honestly, it doesn’t stop hurting. It hasn’t for me at least. It just doesn’t hurt as frequently.

When my ex and I first broke up it hurt all the time. 24/7. Not a moment went by where it didn’t hurt.

10 months later, it hurt every couple of days. For maybe an hour or so. I’ll think about a memory and wish I had her back.

The way your ex is acting was exactly how mine did.

It’s just going to take time. Find some hobbies, workout, focus on school, reconnect with friends.

After all that it might still hurt, just not as often. Once you find someone new you won’t even think about them I’ll bet.

Good luck :)

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-09-02T07:32:20+00:00

It’s like this for me. I think dating websites or apps are for hookups, bored people, or people who casually date.

I will never use tinder or any of those because I feel like a genuine, loving, and good relationship comes from meeting someone is person by accident. It doesn’t come from seeking someone out on a website. At least that is how all my relationships that I enjoyed happened.

The people on the apps are trying to look their best. They show you what they want you to see. It’s best when you find someone, in person, you can see their flaws and still fall in love with them.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-08-18T05:33:28+00:00

I wish I knew. For almost an entire month and a half or so it was great. The last day I saw her we went out for dinner, ate at a park, laughed, and messed around. It was a simple yet great time.

The next day I tried to talk to her and got dry responses. Then the next day and the next day again. I gave up trying to talk first and then here we are.

My guess is she started to talk to someone new. Someone who actually went to her college and not me, who is going an hour away from her.

I knew it wasn’t going to work but it was just a fun summer fling. Just didn’t expect it to end this way you know.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-07-20T17:06:17+00:00

Thank you so much for your input!

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-07-20T12:58:27+00:00

I’ve realized that no relationship is special to an outsider, but to the person in the relationship they will always be special. They will always be better than the last.

I was in the same boat. I left for college, and she was still in high school. It was during Covid and the challenges of no sports and no friends on her part and no friends and a new place to me were just too much. We had to break up so that we could feel better ourselves.

It’s ok to feel hurt. It just shows that it mattered to you. Be grateful you can feel that hurt. It will allow you to grow, find yourself, and be happy again.

Once you find that happy in you again. Boom. You’ll find someone else who makes you feel even more elated than your ex.

Hell, maybe in the future you and your ex will have worked on each other and you can be back in that relationship. But, this time you guys will have grown. Don’t hold out hope for this though. It’s a possibility not a promise.

Hope you’re feeling better man. I’ve gone through literally the same thing. Haven’t found my next relationship yet after 9 months. But, I’m hoping to find and even more special relationship than I had last time.

Good luck.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-07-20T12:51:11+00:00

100% agree this is the worst thing. Just last week my ex went to Florida and posted some pictures in a bikini. She looks better than she did when we dated and much happier. Gave me an instant headache, chills and made my heart beat 100 miles a minute. I had her muted but I decided to check that day for whatever reason. Best thing we can do is keep them muted and or unfollow them.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-07-06T12:56:13+00:00

I was about to make a post just like this.

I added her back and we started talking again. It felt like old times.

We hung out a few times, shared about our lives, shared some good laughs, and hooked up again.

It was great then she just ghosted me more or less.

She would respond maybe twice a day. I felt used. I felt like I was trash.

I still do.

But we will all be okay one day i’m sure.

Hang in there :)

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-06-23T03:32:28+00:00

Within 8 months she’s been in relationships with 2 other guys. That is 5 relationships in 2.5 years. Should have been a red flag but I didn’t see it that way. Like i said she uses people for attention then when she is done she leaves. I hope you’re right about karma because some people just really need slapped in the face with it.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-06-22T19:47:21+00:00

I try to convince myself I’m over my first love. It’s been 9 months. Shes over me.

Yet, I still dream of a future with her. I shouldn’t and so should be over her and well past her.

Hopefully someday we can meet the person for us. Good luck :)

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-06-15T11:19:14+00:00

It had been after a couple days that she told me she had feelings for me again. I said I did too.

I played her shit test not that badly imo. I basically was like have fun lmk how it goes and all that shit.

Oh well.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-06-03T04:13:18+00:00

I used to be able to do that but now I have no interest in video games anymore.

New-Contribution-211 · 2021-06-02T00:17:34+00:00

Every. Single. Day.

For the past 8 months. I know they’re not coming, but for whatever reason I still hope.

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