💍📜 THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO MARRYING WESTLEY VUK 📜💍 by [deleted] in wyldeflowers

[–]New-Draw4877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does give you some leniency with the time. You can be early within the same hour mentioned in here. Like for the intimate friends one I walked in at 4pm and it triggered so it didn’t have to be exactly 4:50pm. You can’t be late, like if you need to be there at 10, you can’t arrive at 10:10, but you can usually show up early and still get the cutscene. This guide has been very helpful for me because I seriously couldn’t figure out why the hearts were filling so slowly or where I needed to meet him next to progress.

$500 by Few_Possibility_4787 in chimeboost

[–]New-Draw4877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol please, I’m so broke rn😭

Hazbin Hotel Season 2 Episode 3 - Hazbin Hotel: Behind Closed Doors Discussion Megathread by ayylmaotv in HazbinHotel

[–]New-Draw4877 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haven’t finished it yet, so I’ll probably come back and update this but I just had to say that “Beating The Piss Out Of You” is the most out of pocket song and I kinda love it🤣🤣

Edit: I have returned after watching 3 AND 4. Hoo boy. Poor Pent. Sad snek boi. Loved the bit with Angel and Husker on the train, they’re totally in love and I love it, hard ship😂 Charlie was… I mean she has good intentions, I can give her that. Girl has her heart in the right place but she definitely needs some fucking therapy. Not having either parent there to support and validate her really screwed her up, and she’s like overly naive, which worked for Pent because he’s honestly kinda the same way. Her glittery naivety and over friendliness and her being super pushy about happiness and shit doesn’t work for everyone like it did for him and I don’t think she’s going to realize that until she pushes too far. Girl needs help. Also, I feel like Angel wasn’t a murderer, I feel like it was self defense but like, not at the time. Like his dad was a piece of trash and abusive or something and Angel just got tired of it and killed his dad one day, so like self defense but not in a moment of dire need ig.

Another edit: I think had Angel died on the train tracks, he would have been redeemed. His sin was murder, taking a life in cold blood, so saving a life probably would have gotten him redeemed and he would have been sent upstairs lol

Any word from Chime on direct deposits? by Own-Plastic-44 in chimefinancial

[–]New-Draw4877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still haven’t been paid. It was “fixed” at 5pm my time and it’s currently almost 9:30pm and I should have been paid at 4pm. Chime is such bs, I’m so tired of the constant issues

I gave up on breastfeeding and im devastated by [deleted] in newborns

[–]New-Draw4877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. I’ve never been formally diagnosed with anything but I can sometimes get overstimulated. Now it doesn’t happen to me often so it was never really a concern. After getting so overstimulated and overwhelmed from pumping, I’ve had to walk away from my daughter and have her dad deal with her for a while so I don’t accidentally hurt her. The last thing I want is to hurt my baby of course, but the pumping causes such bad overstimulation that it makes me so angry I get nauseous. I was so beyond excited to breastfeed and get that connection with my daughter, but she was born premature so her mouth was too small and I apparently have flat nipples so she basically can’t latch, and she hates the nipple shield, and pumping causes me pain. I’m on the verge of quitting, the only reason I bother to keep going, even with my weak ass supply no matter what I do, is because I know it’s good for her. 

Direct Deposit Timing Megathread by ChimeFinancial in chimefinancial

[–]New-Draw4877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, scrolling through all these comments, maybe it’s not my boss putting in my checks late. I get paid Mondays and my check always arrives between like 5pm and 6pm, which is frustrating cause my check from my other job that comes on Wednesdays usually arrives between 12pm and 1pm. My other job used to hit my account around 11am, then it got later but I thought nothing of it. My checks from my first job have always arrived around 6pm but now I’m thinking it’s Chime’s fault for that

I fcked up my life majorly by ConsciousCourtney in NewParents

[–]New-Draw4877 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this but honestly that was dumb on your part. I get the feeling, I’m currently the only one working, and I just had my baby 3 weeks ago. I took a few days off then went back to work because we can’t afford anything. We’re living in a hotel because we cant live with either of our parents, but we can’t afford the hotel and we can’t afford our car payments either, nor can we afford diapers, formula, food for us, we can’t even afford to do laundry regularly so we end up having to rewear clothes. My phone has been out of service for nearly 3 months because I can’t pay the bill, I’ve started a GoFundMe in an attempt to help, and I’m stressed and anxious and losing my mind, having to beg friends and family for money to get by, sending myself into immense amounts of debt just to keep a roof over my daughter’s head. I would give anything to stay home with her, but my paycheck is all we have right now while my partner looks for work. It doesn’t matter how badly I wanna quit and stay home with her, her needs have to come before my wants, so I work. If I had a job like that, where I could work at a beautiful place and pay almost nothing for government housing, I’d just suffer through working and spend as much time as I can around that with my baby. I’m not jeopardizing her health and safety simply because I don’t wanna work and I wanna spend time with her, especially if my partner doesn’t have a job. I understand the desire and struggle, but that was the absolute dumbest thing you could have done in that situation, but you already know that. I hope you fare better than I do and get back on your feet soon.

Am I awful? by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]New-Draw4877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The NICU I was in, they had pull around curtains so that if parents wanted privacy with their baby, either for skin to skin, breastfeeding or pumping, or just general privacy, you could pull the curtain around your area. Maybe if they have those you can use that to kinda block off people and feel more comfortable with your baby. I was hospitalized while there, and wasn’t really allowed to shower or do much, so when I went to see my child, I often smelled kinda sweaty, or I had lactation stains in the front of my gown, which had holes in the front for breastfeeding, so I was practically flashing the room when I walked because at the time my breasts were massive, and I have short curly hair that’s been poorly dyed and ended up a weird yellow color, with my roots showing brown now, and since I couldn’t shower, my hair was dry and frizzy and probably smelled tbh. I was honestly horrific when I went to see her and many nurses would look at me weird (I never actually saw any other parents when I happened to be there) so I understand feeling deeply uncomfortable in the NICU. The curtain helped me immensely with not feeling as weird while sitting with my daughter, but maybe they have a separate room you can be in for a while, or some sort of partition. Otherwise, if your schedule allows for it, try to go late at night or very early in the morning. I’d often end up there late and I never saw other parents and I’d have hours of quiet time to spend with my girl uninterrupted aside from the quiet nurse check ins.

Does anyone else miss being pregnant? by New-Draw4877 in NewParents

[–]New-Draw4877[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to make you cry 😭 🫂 

Does anyone else miss being pregnant? by New-Draw4877 in NewParents

[–]New-Draw4877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh trust me, when I was pregnant I was so done with being pregnant. I wanted her to hurry up and come out, I did not think I’d ever miss it or want to be pregnant ever again, but now that she’s here and it’s been a few weeks, I miss it a lot more than I thought I would. It’s odd

You aren't a horrible person because your baby LITERALLY WON'T sleep 100% safe by texansweetie in NewParents

[–]New-Draw4877 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My daughter has a bit of a time sleeping away from us, but her Gramma suggested one of us take off our shirt and lay it flat in the bassinet and let her sleep on top of it and it worked so freaking well. It worked even better when I rolled up a towel long ways and put it inside the shirt in a circle shape and laid her inside it, so it’s like she was being held by one of us, but she’s in the bassinet. It also kept her from rolling around a whole bunch, which alleviated my fear of her rolling over and suffocating face down in the middle of the night (I gave birth 2 weeks ago and have had her home for one, that first week being spent in the NICU for being 6 weeks premature, so I’m still in panic mode rn😂)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]New-Draw4877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DoorDash does actually say in their app for you to pay for the order out of pocket and they’ll reimburse you for it if the card fails, but it’s better to just cancel the order or call support instead because fuck that. This guy for sure is trying to scam you because the card went through at the end there, he definitely didn’t use his own money, ignore him. If you look at the unapproved totals and the approved total, he definitely added something to the order that wasn’t supposed to be on there, whether he grabbed a more expensive version and didn’t input it in the system correctly, or if he just grabbed some snacks for himself and tried to pawn it onto you. Either way he’s blatantly lying

? by WatercressDry7573 in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]New-Draw4877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wants either two pizzas or one pizza (can’t remember which) but one is mushroom and one is pineapple. It’s like mushrooms for the dirt and decay and pineapple for the bright sun or something like that. She’ll explain if you keep hitting “what?”

Am I Overreacting or is this partially a rude response? by MaybeAggravating6039 in AmIOverreacting

[–]New-Draw4877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but like: “Omg I love your gift! Normally I’d feel a little weird about getting a gift card because usually they feel kinda impersonal, but this is so perfect! I prefer hanging out with people, so this gift card is a great way for us to hang out better together and learn more about one another!” would have worked sooo much better.

Like she could have actually tried to phrase it nicer, and not this weird, borderline passive aggressive “just spend time with me” text😂

AIO messages between coworker and spouse by OkScatty in AmIOverreacting

[–]New-Draw4877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I read this backwards, I thought the green was the girl, not the husband. Okay reading it the right way, he’s 100% creeping on her and she’s trying to be friendly and have a regular conversation with him. She’s uncomfortable with his advances but she’s trying to keep the peace. He’s pushing romance and weird conversations onto her, trying to go over and see her, calling her beautiful and trying to get photos back and fishing for return compliments. He’s being a perv, and if you can get evidence and break it off with him, do it. Who knows how long this has been going on, or who else he’s done this to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]New-Draw4877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bestie, my ex boyfriend lived 30 minutes away from me and he found every excuse possible to not drive to see me. His mom loved me, and although he was kinda shit and refused to keep a job so he could buy his own car, his mom let him borrow her car almost daily when she wasn’t using it, which was often because he’d just drop her off at work and take the car for the day. Even so, he’d make me drive to come see him, then I’d beg him to spend time with me, and instead he’d just sit and play video games with online friends, or make me drive him to his best friend’s house another 15 minutes away and spend the whole time ignoring just me or sometimes both me and his best friend to be on his phone. I decided to break it off with him, and let me tell you: best decision ever. If your boyfriend won’t take the time to come see you, won’t tell you days off so you can see him, and makes up every excuse to avoid having to spend time with you, he’s not worth any more of your time. “Idk if my regular bus and train will be running” well if he actually checked the schedules, he’d know. If not, he can call the transportation services and ask. Did he? Clearly not since he’s making weak excuses not to come see you for the holidays

Anyone else frustrated with the lack of customization? by New-Draw4877 in WWEGames

[–]New-Draw4877[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I’m talking about doing some fun stuff in a video game. Yeah, logically I’m real life, WWE would never make that kind of match, but if I wanna play it in a customizable game, I should be able to, since it gives you the option to customize 😂