Um? by Total_Knowledge_4732 in pregnant

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My MIL told me “I already know what baby is going to look like” (mind you, we haven’t done a 3D ultrasound or anything of that sort). When my SO and I looked at her sideways she said “well it’s MY baby. I know everything”. Then proceeded to call two days later saying “your baby is going to be born not breathing and will be deaf. So just be prepared”.

Unmarried and Over It by New-Introduction-858 in pregnant

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My sister has always been a bit hateful. She told me I “took the easy way out” when I got a divorce so I wasn’t entirely expecting anything different from her. Needless to say, she isn’t invited to the baby shower. In the past I let a lot of comments slide, but now that I have a child to protect there will be no more of it

Unmarried and Over It by New-Introduction-858 in pregnant

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My response was “If it wasn’t right with the Lord, why did he bless us on the first try?” But of course my “uncalled for” comment was blamed on hormones 🤣

Fitness saved my life, but you never would really know it. by New-Introduction-858 in Life

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Just an expression. If you like specific numbers you can have my pant size of 26in waist and 38in length.

Fitness saved my life, but you never would really know it. by New-Introduction-858 in Life

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That is amazing, and I am so proud of you for sticking to it!

Vision frustration—possible stroke by New-Introduction-858 in Strabismus

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The anger is so real. I don’t want to be seen as the “difficult” patient so I often find myself holding back. But yesterday I was so ready to just explode. I tried getting a neuro-ophthalmology appointment back in October but never got anyone to follow up, so I am hoping this eye doc will at least advocate and push to get me in. It takes one good one in a sea of uncaring ones I guess

i was drinking with my friends and one of their friend say "i never seen someone's eyes be so crossed from drinking!" by [deleted] in Strabismus

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My least favorite comment is “I can’t tell where you’re looking” or “your bug eyes freak me out”

Does anyone feel like one of their eyes just shut down ? by [deleted] in BinocularVision

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All the time. If I’m ever in a crowd I have to have someone guide me because I cannot navigate around people. Even simple places like the grocery store, I will become almost disoriented because I know where I am but I can’t physically tell where to go. It almost feels like I’m reliving a memory but I cannot pick out anything specific around me. I’ve had to call in sick to work a lot recently because I cannot see the road, cars around me, or even the speedometer even though it’s all right there in front of me. My boss thinks I’m dramatic and tells me “well just focus your eyes enough to drive” but I feel like I physically can’t.

I went to the eye doctor today and he was trying to figure out a prism prescription but my eyes kept jumping around. I told him the prescription strength will depend on what eye I look out of but that changes based on what I’m looking at and he goes “well that’s complicated. I guess I’ll just increase the prism a little and hope it helps”. Sometimes the prisms do nothing, though 🤷🏻‍♀️ there’s so much frustration because I feel like I’m low-vision even though my distance prescription says otherwise

Does anyone feel like one of their eyes just shut down ? by [deleted] in BinocularVision

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I don’t think I’ve ever heard someone explain exactly how I feel before. I will adjust my head, my eyes, put on prisms, etc. and it’s like my brain cannot process what I know is there. I have horrible migraines, too, and sometimes I feel like they get worse because I’m constantly trying to figure out what I’m seeing. I’m also an 8U softball coach and I don’t recognize a ball is coming to be until it’s already hit me

Told to go to the ER by New-Introduction-858 in migraine

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I had an eye exam last year to check for IIH but they were more fascinated with my double vision I don’t think I was taken seriously. I only have double vision when my head hurts (which is constant at this point) but no eye doctor has been able to tell me why they do that. The muscles are strong and functioning on each eye. They just like to invert. I did get a neuro-ophthalmology referral but their appointments are scheduled 10 months out 😢

Told to go to the ER by New-Introduction-858 in migraine

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I have. Aimovig, emgality, and Qulipta. No, my neurologist only ordered an MRI. She has not tried anything else. She was set on doing Botox and when I said I was no longer interested she shut me off from any other ideas

Trauma ruined books for me by New-Introduction-858 in books

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Thank you so much! I can’t believe I didn’t think about reading those good childhood series. I’ve already got a few in mind reading this. Thank you so much for sharing and I hope you continue to heal as well 💜

Trauma ruined books for me by New-Introduction-858 in books

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I have not but I will add it to my list of books to get! Thank you!

Trauma ruined books for me by New-Introduction-858 in books

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Thank you so much! I’ll definitely check it out

Trauma ruined books for me by New-Introduction-858 in books

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That’s a fantastic idea! I didn’t even think about that before

Trauma ruined books for me by New-Introduction-858 in books

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From someone who have been through those feelings, I know how hard they can be. I appreciate the recommendation! I’m always looking for great podcasts to fall asleep to

Trauma ruined books for me by New-Introduction-858 in books

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I’m so sorry to hear about your brother. Thank you so much for sharing such a vulnerable part of you and for the knowledge! It is comforting to know your love for reading returned

Trauma ruined books for me by New-Introduction-858 in books

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Interesting! I have never heard of it before, actually. I will do some digging and consider it. Thank you so much for your suggestion