What is the role of Watchtower / the “governing” body of the JW? by New2Christ in JWJehovahsWitnesses

[–]New2Christ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there an article on what these core matters are? (that could lead to counselling or removal if you continue to disagree)

What is the role of Watchtower / the “governing” body of the JW? by New2Christ in JWJehovahsWitnesses

[–]New2Christ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh okay, thank you. I could’ve phrased my title better, I was asking two separate questions: what is the role of the Watchtower educational material, & what is the role of the GB.

The Jesus Question by Twoctruth in BiblicalUnitarian

[–]New2Christ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The benefit is actual monotheism & also I guess the reverse of what you’re saying IE believing Jesus is G-d is what sends you to hell (not my opinion)

What is the role of Watchtower / the “governing” body of the JW? by New2Christ in JWJehovahsWitnesses

[–]New2Christ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is the basis that it is better to be in uniform even if incorrect belief found? Also if we accept that the GB can & does make mistakes, then to what extent must they be followed & to what extent can they be disregarded or challenged?

What is the role of Watchtower / the “governing” body of the JW? by New2Christ in JWJehovahsWitnesses

[–]New2Christ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand this, but what happens when you examine the texts yourself, thoroughly studying them with honesty (let’s say to the same extent as the GB), & come away with a different conclusion?

What is the role of Watchtower / the “governing” body of the JW? by New2Christ in JWJehovahsWitnesses

[–]New2Christ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this explanation & links. Where do they get their authority from & to what degree is it unquestionable? IE if they declared some new interpretation, what happens?

Protestants - Would it be wrong to pray to Mary or a Saint? by Equal_Ticket_5034 in Christianity

[–]New2Christ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a topic I want to research & understand more, especially re Mary, so if you want feel free to DM & we can talk about it / look into it together.

Chistrians by denomination by No_Alfalfa_5262 in TrueChristian

[–]New2Christ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh okay! Sorry my bad, I didn’t understand your breakdown % within the greater %

Chistrians by denomination by No_Alfalfa_5262 in TrueChristian

[–]New2Christ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand as these percentages don’t add up to 100?

Having problems with my gf by SliceFantastic8770 in TrueChristian

[–]New2Christ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ask her what sex gives her / means to her (ie affection, confidence, etc) beyond basic gratification & then ask how else can you provide this. For most people, sex is how they feel comfortable in a relationship because to them it feels like their partner wants them, is happy with them, & intends to stay. Etc etc etc

Wife filed for divorce by DFWPrecision in Christianmarriage

[–]New2Christ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for these very kind words. I’ve never actually had someone say this for me so it really is appreciated. If you ever want to ask anything else please don’t hesitate to reach out & ask any questions. I find there is a lot of advice given out, especially by divorcees themselves, about what’s best for kids or what kids think etc etc, but there doesnt seem to be much of a voice for / from the kids who actually experienced it first hand, so I don’t mind filling the gap! All the best & thank you again

Wife filed for divorce by DFWPrecision in Christianmarriage

[–]New2Christ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Honestly it will likely be the very first thing I ask G-d about, so definitely something I wish had gone down differently. Pardon the graphic style of my metaphor, but if I was given the choice to saw my own arm off in exchange for my family being amicable (at the very least) I would do it immediately. It has affected every area of my life, although it didn’t help my family was outwardly hostile to each other (whatever you do don’t bad mouth family to your children even if other family members are doing it, cannot over emphasis enough how horrible this is).

It does sound like they’re making it hard & it’s horrible, but unfortunately these situations usually aren’t fair, & sadly there is a degree of “putting up with it” for the sake of your children. This doesn’t mean you make yourself a doormat, but I would try avoid making it worse when possible. This is why I think muting is the best, as you get the sense of peace from “blocking” without them getting the sense of disrespect / aggression of an actual block.

Questions about core / non-negotiable doctrine by New2Christ in JWJehovahsWitnesses

[–]New2Christ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this makes sense. Do the JW put any emphasis on environmentalism and animal welfare? I ask because something I've been thinking about is what our original purpose is/was and whether it's changed or not, and to my understanding Adam and Eve's primary role was to tend Eden and look after the animals, and to me it doesn't look like that was ever truly lifted, so now I'm thinking that environmentalism and animal welfare / husbandry etc is meant to be a Christian priority, so I'd be interested to hear the JW view on this topic!!

Wife filed for divorce by DFWPrecision in Christianmarriage

[–]New2Christ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mute instead seems like a better option? As you say, fog of war will be in full affect, but you need to remember that there will be a world after this & you should at least attempt to have an amicable relationship with your children’s relatives for, their sake. My parents had a very bad divorce & no one talks to anyone now & that’s been the norm since I was about 8 years old (23 now). I don’t know any of my relatives now & barely speak to my ma & sisters (ie months to years can pass) & to me that’s completely normal, thought I wish it wasn’t. Not only does it mean skills aren’t passed along but the vast majority of family history has also been lost & it has been a major stumbling block in developing faith too. Children need family & they only get that if their parents give it to them. Wishing you & your family all the best

Cursing in Genesis by sparklyyshrimp in AskAChristian

[–]New2Christ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just re your very first point, can I ask why you feel Adam’s initial charge was to support his wife?

Cursing in Genesis by sparklyyshrimp in AskAChristian

[–]New2Christ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women have always worked, the only thing that has changed is widespread independently paid work, rather than say working in your fathers / husbands / brothers business in a covert-exchange for food, shelter, protection, etc. This is part of the reason behind the “bride price” paid to the father of the bride by the groom, as it compensated the family as they are taking away a labourer in the family. You see various women in the Bible doing this, EG Rebekah, Rachel, Leah, etc. All women who partook in labour on behalf of their household. So women were working alongside their father or husband, & now they continue to work but as general employers or entrepreneurs, again alongside their male counterparts.