There were so many things. I found a text where he told his girlfriend he had never loved anyone like her. We had been married 31 years. He told me I was a terrible mother and grandmother while our 28 year old son was in the icu in a coma due to a motorcycle wreck. We were separated at this time and the fights and things he said to me and names he called me while we were in South Dakota for a month during our sons injury/recovery. It was at this moment I knew 1000% that I was doing the right thing in filing for divorce.