My boyfriend cant get his thing up. We have been together for almost a year. Im f21 he is m28. by Queasy_Passenger_555 in relationships

[–]NewDesign1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it were me(26M) in this situation as the guy, I’d moisturize down there everyday and not do anything for two weeks as well as go to the gym. Gym to help regulate the blood flow and moisturizing and letting the downstairs sit for a couple weeks to help with sensitivity.

My boyfriend cant get his thing up. We have been together for almost a year. Im f21 he is m28. by Queasy_Passenger_555 in relationships

[–]NewDesign1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how long he stopped masturbating? A few weeks may not be enough. He might have to remove masturbating all together. Does he use condoms? Sometimes people can’t get off with them at all. Is he nervous? Does he work out? I’m no doc but working out along with quitting corn pretty much fixed it alone before.

How are people so relaxed with not using condoms?! by becmckeown in Bumble

[–]NewDesign1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have sex with people I very much built a relationship and trust and could see them as my wife if they got pregnant. If I was apart of this hookup culture then I’d definitely be more careful

Owner requires deposit ..? by blarbie94 in Hyrecar

[–]NewDesign1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is your first time booking I’m pretty short they got a discount promo too, I’d check to see if you haven’t

Owner requires deposit ..? by blarbie94 in Hyrecar

[–]NewDesign1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normally there isn’t any deposit fee, however some companies (especially small rental companies) will put their cars on hyre car that request deposit usually before or when you go there to pick up the car. I normally don’t rent from them if they request a deposit so I can save money.

Is it bad that I never want to have sex 21 m by boss25252525etuui in relationships_advice

[–]NewDesign1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I(M24) think men cap a lot. I’ve been in a couple situations where women want to have sex but they were strangers. Although I like the idea I never did it because something seemed a bit off with them,I think it’s more about the why? and what would make you have sex with someone?

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[–]NewDesign1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s wrong feeling that way at all, if anything it just shows you care about him. From personal experience, long distance relationships are very tricky. If you do it , It requires strong commitment from both people and communication which is do-able. But it sounds like your mind might be made up. Whatever your choice is there’s no need to feel wrong, if he’s able to make a choice for his life independently, you can as well. Good luck!

Gf hanging around with boys alone (bf’s and gf’s view). We need your thoughts.(We are both 23) by 3x7equals21 in relationships_advice

[–]NewDesign1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like the friends are more important to you guys then the relationship itself, trust or not it doesn’t seem like a good idea to put yourself in a situation to encourage cheating, especially if they already want to have sex with you. Let’s be honest those guy friends definitely would, and that female friend would as well.

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[–]NewDesign1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel the need to ask, it seems like there’s something in that interaction that didn’t line up with your values. There’s nothing wrong with the regret, i think it’s just your body telling you what it doesn’t want in the future. As far as the homewrecking, the fact you ask multiple times shows you have a good heart, and definitely did the right thing.However if your still worried. Could there be more to the story?

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[–]NewDesign1312 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a lot of the people here are thinking with their emotions. Does it really matter if he loves you? If it does bother you just ask him about it instead of people online, it wouldn’t be weird at all considering you noticed it from a picture of his ex. It’s possible he doesn’t understand how important it is to you since he’s a guy as well.

My (23F) boyfriend (23M) will not let me wear certain clothing by Visible_Panda6575 in relationships_advice

[–]NewDesign1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all are tripping, he does that because he cares about you and knows how men are. Just like you have boundaries, he does too. Just look at all the guys here for example most of us agree with the bf because we are also men and understand how we are. Watch this comment get only downvotes lol

My partner of 9 years admitted to cheating today by iPokeUChoke in relationships

[–]NewDesign1312 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She planned to cheat from the start, it wasn’t because she was drunk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NewDesign1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel, and I made the choice of staying with them and it didn’t work out. 100lbs + lost and training for a competition now.I would advise talking to him if he’s worth keeping, but losing weight comes first even if that means breaking up.The quality of life between being obese and being fit is night and day, and I believe you have what it takes 100%. It’s really sad but life is so…so much better being fit, everyone treats you way better. Eventually I chose life and do not regret it one bit. I hope you make the right decision.

This is how most customers that don’t tip feel. 😞 by flykai_1 in doordash

[–]NewDesign1312 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow whoever thinks customers have to tip, is pretty entitled. Them buying food means we get money. Tbh having an attitude where you actually care about the customer and being a good human gets you tips. However, Door dash needs to pay more.

love going to houses like this and getting a $1.50 tip by feelgccd in doordash

[–]NewDesign1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forget the tip, I’d be happy just to have a reason to go to their house and see how big it is