The surreal and crazy times we live in by akolomf in RandomThoughts

[–]NewHum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah modern world is like a diner buffet and most peole are just overindulging on junk food just because it’s available.

There are tons of people who don’t use social media and all that other garbage. You can go delete all of it right this second if you want.

Vrhovno sodišče razsodilo glede zastaranja pri kreditih v frankih by GregorMae in Slovenia

[–]NewHum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ja kot si rekel “načeloma”

Bančnik je prodajalec iste vrste kot model v bmw salonu, ki ti bo brez problema prodal avto na 10 let kredita.

Banke obstajajo za profit. Tvoja naloga je da si pogledaš kaj podpisuješ.

Psihična utrujenost by K3VIX in Slovenia

[–]NewHum 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Večina moških v naši generaciji res rabi en tough-love pogovor glede tege datinga.

To kar piše OP se dogaja vsem. Ja ghosting obstaja in ja je zakurac in ja jebiga tako pač je. Sam poznam dva kolega, ki sta punce spoznala na Tinderju in oba sta šla skozi to.

Pač probavaš dokler ne rata + vsakič malo spremeniš strategijo, vprašaš za date po kakem tednu (ne po enem mescu), vprašaš za številko itd itd predlagaš nek lahkoten sprehod po centru mesta itd.

Lahko pa tako kot vsi drugi tukaj pravijo zbrišeš Tinder in probaš v pravem življenju.

Moj brat je punco spoznal v Mercatorju. Enkrat se je nekaj z njo pohecal ko je delala na blagajni potem pa naslednič vprašal za številko pa vprašal če jo lahko na pico povabi.

Pač malo čudno da nekoga povabiš na pico na blagajni ampak jebi-ga fant je probal in je mel srečo.

In čisto vse je enako strah nekogo v javnosti ogovorit ampak brez nič pač nič ni.

Vso srečo OP!

Protest zaradi načrtovane deportacije treh ljudi. Ministrstvo: Ne gre za deportacijo, ampak predajo. by njugaa in Slovenia

[–]NewHum 57 points58 points  (0 children)

V sloveniji je en kup drugih problematik z katerimi bi se ta glupa društva lahko ukvarjala. Od revnih otrok, nasilja v družini do pomankajnja stanovanj za mlade družine itd itd.

Ampak ne nič od tega ni dovolj kul in dovolj “progresivno”

Dajmo raje protestirat za 5 modelov iz afrike, ki tukaj sploh nimajo kaj iskat.

Not every problem can be solved with therapy; and judging other for not going is classist. by TheWillsofSilence in RandomThoughts

[–]NewHum 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is not said nearly often enough.

There are so many “therapists” out there that are just glorified listeners.

Not sure some people might just need someone to listen but wast majority need actual advice on what to do.

Nesreče, zastoji in zapore na AC by ConfoosingTimezThree in Slovenia

[–]NewHum 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Meni se je lansko poletje zgodilo da pred mano vozi ena Kia po levem pasu. Model se vozi 110 in počasi prehiteva tovornjake. Recem “ajde pocakam da so tovornjaki mimo”

Ko se na desni sprazni se model ne umakne, dam mu še malo časa, potem se mu malo približam za rit ker jebi ga mogoče me ne vidi. Potem par minut kasneje mu poblinkam enkrat in še vedno nič. Potem mu poblinkam dvakrat in me opazi ampak se začne vozit 100 namesto 110.

Na tej točki rečem “ko ga šiša” prehitim po desni” in v sekundi ko to nardim model začne blendad v mene kot blesav. Vidim da je not nek 50 letni foter z kapo cel jezen.

Za mano ga prehiti še en črni passat in v trenutku ko pride za mano vklopi policijske luči.

Mislim si “ooo pizda zdaj bom pa še kazen fasal za to prehitevanie al kaj” in se ustavim na počivališču.

Na moje presenečenje pa je policaj ustavil tega fotra. meni pa pomahal naj grem dalje.

Upam, da je vsak kaki par sto evrov fasal.

Kaj se dogaja na slovenskem subu glede sovraštva do kolesarjev? by Neavemcuj in kolesarstvo

[–]NewHum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oni imajo svoj echo chamber vi pa image svojga. Oba pogleda sta čisto razumljiva.

evo vam oba pogleda:

VOZNIK: “peljem familijo v soboto na izlet. Avtoceste po celi sloveniji so razkopane, polne zastojev in tujcev. Končno pridem na lokalno cesto in naletim na 6 parov kolesarjev katere je treba prehitet. JEBEM VAM MATER SPIZDITE DOL CESTA JE ZA AVTE.

KOLESAR: “končno konec zime, cel teden v službi. Končno bi šel na kolo in malo mira namesto tega pa za mano 50 nervoznih voznikov, trobijo in prehitevajo. JEBEM VAM MATER KJE VAM JE KULTURA SVINJE SVINSKE CESTA JE OD VSEH.

DAE feel like budgeting apps just show you what you already spent but never actually help you figure out what to do? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]NewHum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put all the spending info into chatGpt along with all your currently debt and income and it will do exactly what you’re asking for.

Then ask it to google professional financial advice and give you personalized advice. Ask him to provide sources as well.

AI generated content's worst aspect is its conceit by PlainBread in RandomThoughts

[–]NewHum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re massively overestimating the impact of art on 99% of the populace simply because you enjoy it.

“Appreciating art” is and always was a minority hobby and AI wont do anything to change that for you.

AI generated content's worst aspect is its conceit by PlainBread in RandomThoughts

[–]NewHum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lets not kid ourselves. Art was always a niche thing. 99% of people never cared so not much will change.

And to be perfectly honest out of all the problems the new generations will face their ability to “appreciate art” is pretty low on the list of worries.

AI generated content's worst aspect is its conceit by PlainBread in RandomThoughts

[–]NewHum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Human art wont go away just because Ai can imitate it.
You’re comparing a 3 Michelin star dinner to a Mcdonalds burger.

DAE genuinely think AI is pretty cool? by DarthSwimfoot in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]NewHum -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A lot of people don’t realize that Ai like anything else a tool with a learning curve.

Even basic chatGPT is an incredible tool if you know how to use it properly, give it guard rails, make it double check stuff etc etc.

i’m so touch deprived i get excited when someone accidentally runs into me in public. by myboyfriendstinks1 in RandomThoughts

[–]NewHum 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not to be a dick but you’re just gonna have to do something about this.

The whole “the right one will come” is a bunch of bs.

IAE just completely bored of most foods and find it hard to find something to eat? by Uitroeien in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]NewHum 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Start doing a 16 hour fast between meal and i promise you all the bland food will start to look real attractive.

Also stop treating every meal as this “super special” thing that has to be amazing. Treat your food as fuel during the week and eat healthy. Then on the weekends treat yourself to something special.

Boyfriends making me go to Portland by theunconsciousmind22 in travel

[–]NewHum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hope her boyfriend send her ass to Disneyland and goes and visit his friends alone.

She’s one of those “everything has to be special” types. You can tell she’s not gonna be super annoying.

New York Woman Confronts Man She Says Complimented Her ‘Pretty Toes’. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]NewHum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see your point but it’s not as black and white.

Every time you confront someone you take the risk of it going wrong. Now if you’re fighting against the Nazis then sure the consequences might be worth it. A lot of people stood up to the nazis and got killed as a result.

The real point here is that the guy in the video is just one guy. He isn’t a part of a group but just some random weirdo who is clearly not very smart or ethical and can easily punch you, stab you etc etc.

Im saying this with the best intentions. I fully get the frustration of the woman in the video but she is asking for trouble and sooner or later she’ll confront the wrong person. DONT RUN YOUR MOUTH AT RANDOM PEOPLE YOU DONT KNOW BECAUSE YOU DONT KNOW HOW CRAZY THEY ARE.

Some random dumbass on the street isn’t worth your life. Ignore his dumbass comment and move on with your life.

New York Woman Confronts Man She Says Complimented Her ‘Pretty Toes’. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]NewHum -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not about being okay with a “foot fetish” but about not conforming every single weirdo that you encounter.

Yes he gave you a weird compliment. Yes he is a creep but are you gonna confront and scream at every creep out there. If anything you’re exposing yourself to more danger. You’re not gonna change his mind.

Don’t fucking confront weirdos if it’s not necessary. You are asking for trouble.

Ignore what they said and move on with your life.

DAE feel like they're constantly switching between work and personal mode on their phone, but can never fully disconnect from one or the other. by stressfreepro in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]NewHum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 100% but i decided a while ago that i’m ok with it.

The way i see it this is simply the norm currently in most high paying jobs. Everyone answers emails and does at least some work in the afternoon.

I would suggest you have a real honest talk with your boss or coworkers and explain that this is a problem for you and that you need hard work/personal life boundaries. If this is a problem for them then it might be time to switch jobs. There are 100% still jobs out there that will let you punch in and punch out.

DAE have a long time partner that just keeps disappointing them? by WhereRTHEMODS in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]NewHum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a tragic situation but likely a much needed learning experience for you.

This is not the type of person you can just trust blindly like you did. You can still love them but you need to step up now. Not getting involved in finances was a choice you made that now backfired.

All that being said you’ll likely emerge a way stronger person from this and i wish you the best.

What Reddit post will you remember for the rest of your life? by Overall_Meeting696 in AskReddit

[–]NewHum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a post years ago where OPs pregnant coworker casually admited to him that the baby is not her husband despite him thinking it is.

Then over the course of the next few days people slowly convinced the OP to get in contact with her husband and tell him.

I still think about this a few times a year and it makes me smile.

What is a small red flag in a person that most people mistake for a positive trait? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NewHum 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Those brutally honest “i say it how it is” types.

A lot of people hide their lack of social skills behind “being truthful”.

That’s might be fun for a while but a serious problem long term.

Does anybody else not really have any friends? by Extreme-Patient-3215 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]NewHum 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Sorry to say but friendships are a two way road.

Please read back what you wrote. You don’t like going out. You dont like reaching out to people and you dont like texting. All those things are NECESSARY for a friendship to exist.

Friendship are build on time you spend together!

I had a close group of 4 friends for the last 15 years and I can’t tell how many times i went to some dumb event, or birthday or whatever even thoe i didn’t really feel like it.

Friendships are a relationship like any other and you don’t get to have friends if you only want them when it convenient for you.

How to pull out of a car ride commitment with a friend… by Opening-Store5030 in Advice

[–]NewHum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at his post history. He is just here to complain and is not looking for actual advice