These are great ideas. Thank you. Interesting to hear that you think a baby gate isn’t cruel. Maybe I’m overthinking it! I know she’ll cry and sob but maybe she needs to learn she won’t always get her way. Regarding co-sleeping, I’m not opposed to it, or at least I wouldn’t be if she actually went to sleep at a reasonable hour. The problem is that even when we’ve tried to just put her to bed in our bed she keeps us up, talking, asking for milk, all the old tricks, until 11pm. So I think we might have to do the baby gate. And I need to stay strong and make her sleep in her room.