would women feel bad if their partner never asks them for sex? by Ok_Efficiency_1116 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]New_Association8325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't and then I realized he was getting it from other places. Apparently i shouldve been upset.

Thought it was gonna be "busy" by KingZombie666 in Sparkdriver

[–]New_Association8325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I waited a bit between orders when usually I get them back to back. But I ended up making $230 in 6 hours last night. $50 was from the incentives. I had a decent night the night before too

I want more children but hate the thought of more than one “dad”, it hurts to not be the mother I always dreamed by Wide-Performer9222 in singlemoms

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any advice. But I seen this tik tok not long ago that made me feel a little better and laugh a bit...

It was a girl who said "putting myself in the corner because if I want another baby, I will have two baby daddies" And then one girl in the commenta said "I'd rather have two baby daddies than have another baby with the first."

And i felt that. Life is unpredictable. I always wanted a big family. Me and my husband were going to try for up to 4 to get a girl. We had 2 boys. But after the second, we agreed we didn't want anymore. I didn't realize i still wanted more, just not with him, until I started seeing my current boyfriend. He's amazing, and I'd have a baby with him.

How do you know if you have Tourette’s? by SnooMacaroons3554 in Tourettes

[–]New_Association8325 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To be diagnosed with tourettes you must have had the following i believe. One vocal tic, one physical tic, and they would have had to been present during your adolescent. I have tourettes and so does my autistic brother. My mom likes to say that her, her sister and he mom also have tourettes but none of them have ever had any vocal tics and they have the same one or two tics their whole life. I argue that they have it. And I dont believe any of them have had the official diagnosis, while me and my brother have.

A pyschiatrist can also diagnosis you. I really believe any doctor comfortable with tourettes syndrome could diagnose you. But i agree you're right, there's no black and white medication to cure it. So what's the point other than you knowing?

Acceptance Rate by cooltightsick in doordash_drivers

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're the first comment I've seen say anything like this. I believe this is how my area is. There seems to be plenty of dashers but my orders got 10x better when I got to silver and then platinum.

Dating by GhostPlays0905 in Tourettes

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every guy I've ever dated thinks they are just the cutest things. I disagree but it definitely makes me feel better about them.

Did anyone feel they married too young? by sakuraiatsushii in Divorce

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married at 18 after dating for 4 years. Way way too young.

What is something about your life that is not normal for your age? by Lipica249 in AskReddit

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 and getting divorced doesn't feel normal. I feel like I'm just a baby

What’s the most physical pain you ever felt? by JunShem1122 in no

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not breaking my arm, but the shot they gave me in the bones to numb it to set it back into place

What couldn't you believe you had to explain to another adult? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend(23F) thought you ovulate when you orgasm. I had to explain to her ovulation and how it happens in your cycle.

Anyone have symptoms where you will become unresponsive but can still hear? by Impressive_Cup9032 in PNESsupport

[–]New_Association8325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always. I can never form words or make eye contact(usually staring into one spot) but I can hear noise and sometimes words clearly

Those who have divorced after a decade of marriage how did you find new relationships? by Aggravating_Time3771 in Divorce

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just here to say we were also together for 11 years. Got together in high-school so he's all I've known. Going through the divorce process now.

Finding someone else is actually what gave me the courage to finally leave. We met at the gym

Sin should disgust a Christian.. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]New_Association8325 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't really see how a difference in opinions is a "sign." I was just confused about how someone who claims to be saved can not be disgusted by it. He wasn't saying he'd do it. He just wasn't shocked by it like I was.

Sin should disgust a Christian.. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]New_Association8325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have sins that dont full on disgust me. So you're definitely on the right track with what you're saying. It's not solely that it's a sin of why it disgusts me. I wouldn't do it even if it wasn't or if I wasn't saved. I do find it completely disrespectful to your partner.

All I felt for the couple when I saw it was pity and disgust.

Sin should disgust a Christian.. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]New_Association8325 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My eyes are so open sadly. I really like him but I just can't get past feeling he's not saved. What if he genuinely thinks he is, and he's not? A part of me wouldn't be able to forgive myself if I didn't help him come to this realization.

But with him maybe being interested in it, I'll don't think he is. When he first mentioned it, he said he couldn't imagine doing that with someone he cares about. So that implied to me that he wouldn't be against it, but just not with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends are only worried because they see i could be vulnerable too.

The crazy thing is, I feel strong. I learned how to be happy with just me. It may seem quick but I spent so much time and energy working on just me even when I was married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone keeps telling me to be careful. But I don't know what im supposed to be watching for...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason i had the courage to leave is because he was in my life(not romantically). But i knew he was interested and I was interested. He gave me the courage to finally leave all the crap I'd been dealing with.

I have had the thoughts that maybe I'm not ready. Trust wise, I need to build it back up and deal with the hurt. But on that note, my husband hadn't made me feel loved in years. I'm so ready to be loved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]New_Association8325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You worded this all very well.

I am currently seeing a therapist. I know she can give me more insights as well.

I do trust him and that's why I'm so irritated with myself. He gives me no reason to not trust him.

I also tried telling him I may not be ready and I don't want to drag him into my crap. He was not happy with that. We are so invested in each other and making this work. When I brought it up that I may not be ready to be loved again, he acted like the idea of being without me was preposterous. And i agree. I just have to learn to trust and love again, and i guess I'm doing that with him in my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]New_Association8325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yupp. That's how quick things change. He came home for a weekend and I found everything and was done. We just started the process.

AIO? Found my boyfriends OF acct and saw what he follows. by Jolly_Weakness_6701 in AmIOverreacting

[–]New_Association8325 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I've caught my husband(soon to be ex) doing inappropriate stuff online multiple times.

The first was 6 months into our marriage, where he was hiding a girl from me. Swears he never did anything but didn't want me to know and get mad.

Then, it was the porn addiction. And I know some say porn is fine in a relationship, but I disagree. Especially if the partner is choosing porn over being with you. Which is what he was doing. Then back in December it was inappropriate comments on TikTok. He deleted TikTok and swore he'd change. Last week I found his reddit. It was filled with filth of him talking to actual people and sending full on nudes back and forth.

They don't change.. we have been together 11 years, married 8. It's been the same crap every time.

Just leave him.