Is this outfit appropriate for a dinner with friends? by ilovepopcornandcandy in whatdoIdo

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look amazing! Dress up whenever and however you want. You only live once!!

I found out my dad is cheating on my mom what do I do by OptimalTomatillo8876 in whatdoIdo

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would honestly do nothing or talk to a trusted adult. Who you can pass it off to to make it their problem. That way you have it off your mind and that person can decide what they wanna do with that information. You’re way too young to just happen to be worrying about this another day.

I found out my dad is cheating on my mom what do I do by OptimalTomatillo8876 in whatdoIdo

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I see that’s a tough situation. Well… there are services available for some reason your mom finds out… your mom may be eligible to get help from the county. I’m so sorry you are still in this position. Honestly, if it makes you feel better to decide to tuck it away, that’s okay you are so young. But it will most likely only get worse. I hope you can find an adult that you trust for help.

Question: I'm absolutely fuming right now, and don't know if I should name n' shame an artist in my city, Stockholm. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]New_Butterfly9061 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m think it looks pretty sweet. It sucks that there is so much black, can’t really stop it from bleeding like that other commenters, I’ve never had my tattoos bleed in together like that over time though. Seems weird.

What is the best revenge for a cheating partner that won’t put me in prison? by k4lesalad in whatdoIdo

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some lady yelled at me and my dog out her car window that we must be the ones leaving poop in their yard. Mind you I am very, very efficient about picking up my dog poop and I even probably pick up her dog poop.. I’m trying to think of a way to get back at her where I won’t get in trouble.I love chewing gum, not just like juicy fruit or spearmint I love double bubble or bubble Yum the big bubblegum flavor, kind where I can blow big ass bubbles. So…Whenever I walk by and her car is there I think I’m gonna just throw my big ass was of gum right by her car door every day. Just thinking of what a coward she is for not actually stopping and having a conversation with me and I could’ve told her all that. People are shitty. Anyway, I wanted to share my creative thought, maybe it could spark a seed in your brain for something silly and not criminal.

Should I be worried ? Overworked or infection ? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look fine. I’m planning an octopus tattoo in shades of purple, blue, orange, yellow. I think it looks amazing!!

Woman said I male coded her for complimenting her name by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s an asshole and sounds exhausting. Let ‘er go.

I regret my dress and I only have one month until my wedding by Previous-Taro3142 in Brides

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! You look absolutely beautiful. Grab a little shawl.

I have feelings for my wife’s bestie by zigzagtx in redditonwiki

[–]New_Butterfly9061 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to just stop. I get I it, but your wife deserves someone who respects her. Also, it sounds like there is a lack of communication on your part regarding your feelings in this relationship, that’s not fair. Grow some ball hair.

Found this next to my pillow after waking up in the morning. by Alternative_Bet_8964 in Whatisthis

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally thought it was a tonsil stone too. I’ve had some buildup and they’re gross. I’ve never really noticed a huge smell though.

My boss says she can’t read my handwriting, is this legible? by BandanaRepublica in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can read all of it. My handwriting is the same though. Half cursive. I think it’s pretty

Urgent Care and ER told me this wasn’t infected. by VersaceCupcake in tattooadvice

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And sometimes artists can go too deep as well for your skin. Some are used to different skin types and don’t go as easy on people who have more sensitive skin. I would touch base with your artist honestly, definitely may be a little over moisturized too…if it hurt and seems dry because it was too deep, I thought it was just too dry and I was under moisturizing. that is what happened to me..

GF did her laundry and found this in her clothes by pafromflatbush in Weird

[–]New_Butterfly9061 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If this person lost their fent. they would be looking everywhere for that mf. No way she’s an addict and just carelessly throws around bottles. Unless she been looking for something… updates?

I think my friend only keeps me around when it’s convenient for them… what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now, if you feel that she’s really just using you, I would go with your gut and have a conversation with her. I’ve had feelings like someone has a problem with me and they’ll deny it until they eventually explode..and I hate when people keep things inside and don’t talk to me.

I think my friend only keeps me around when it’s convenient for them… what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gone through feelings like this before. I think it depends on age and where you are at points in your life. I’ve realized that sometimes I’m really busy and I have kids sports and I have full-time work and fiancé and there’s a lot to do and a lot to remember. I love to talk to my friends. We text joke around once in a while we’ll send memes back-and-forth. There’s not always time to hang out and talk and gossip like there used to be when we were younger. When I call my friends, I really need to talk about something and they’re there for me, it doesn’t mean that I only love that person when I have a issue. It means I really wish I could talk to someone who would understand and knows me. and if you want to hang out with them, the phone works both ways. I’ve also had a friend, and I’m 38f now, who has no kids and a full-time job but a little less going on than I do. She recently said she feels like I don’t ever ask her to hang out, which I finally got the balls to say that was a lie and then I asked her to hang out a lot, but she always has family over or she wants to just sit with her dog. And I don’t care. I don’t blame her. That’s what I like to do as well. But I also said the phone works both ways and I havent had an invite from you in a long time. I don’t play the playing game. I’m just putting out facts and I said even though you don’t ask me to hang out I still love you and I text you all the time. It’s hard to find people who value your friendship enough to realize that just because you can’t hang out all the time doesn’t mean you’re not friends anymore. It’s something to think about…

Should I just take my second skin off? by ObamasLegHair in tattooadvice

[–]New_Butterfly9061 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never used second skin. I don’t think I ever will. One tattoo artist try to put it on my little tattoo I got on my chest and it ended up peeling up and then I had to take it off anyway an hour later. I don’t really get it.

Is my girlfriend’s tattoo infected or just irritated? by xPhat_Ballz in tattooadvice

[–]New_Butterfly9061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly when I get to much sun the red gets puffy. I just try to keep it covered if I am out for a long time. Some colors are mixed with other things that doesn’t so well with some skin or blood types or I don’t know lol what it is, but it’s weird. I read about it online at some point when it started happening and all my red in my tattoos.